do you have trouble getting a date?
both boys and girls what do feel is the one thing holding you back from getting a date?
Voting for this poll has ended.
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i'm 22 and i'm pretty bad with the whole asking out girls thing I guess for me it is a combo of being shy as fuck and also being akward at sparking up a conversation.
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zero_boogie wrote...
i'm 22 and i'm pretty bad with the whole asking out girls thing I guess for me it is a combo of being shy as fuck and also being akward at sparking up a conversation.Don't worry about it, you'll eventually get out of it. I've heard that martial arts training does wonders in improving confidence. As for your question I never had trouble with getting a date, I just never had the desire to do dating. I got more important things to deal with than courting someone.
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Yeah, rather than not being able to (although I'm not exactly Mr.Smooth), Its more of the "I don't have time or effort to spare" and also not feeling in any particular need to get a date.
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artcellrox
The Grey Knight :y
Do things that'll instill confidence in you in general, like a musical skill or, as mentioned, martial arts. Also, try to practice in front of a mirror regarding how to ask someone out smoothly. Life is like The Sims: you have to practice and apply to get better!
As for the poll, given where I am now, and the fact that I'm not gonna stay here forever, I'm not really try to date. When I wasn't here though, it was a mixture of both.
As for the poll, given where I am now, and the fact that I'm not gonna stay here forever, I'm not really try to date. When I wasn't here though, it was a mixture of both.
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Misaki_Chi
Fakku Nurse
I have and haven't. When I really wanted a boyfriend, I would try too hard and got shitty men. I overthought myself with being shy and anxious. Once I stopped caring about others thoughts (and cared more about myself) and enjoyed being with friends and living my life to the fullest, I ended up with a good man.
Your 22 dude, enjoy your life and if you take advantage of it. The happier and more confident you are with yourself, the better your chances will be at possibly getting a girl.
Your 22 dude, enjoy your life and if you take advantage of it. The happier and more confident you are with yourself, the better your chances will be at possibly getting a girl.
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I've never actually asked a girl out to a classic dinner date set-up. I've asked some out to do things we liked together. Like tennis, billiard, painting and biking.
It's easier to invite them out like that since if they reject, they're not really rejecting you, they're rejecting the activity you're about to do with them
It's easier to invite them out like that since if they reject, they're not really rejecting you, they're rejecting the activity you're about to do with them
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Misaki_Chi wrote...
I have and haven't. When I really wanted a boyfriend, I would try too hard and got shitty men. I overthought myself with being shy and anxious. Once I stopped caring about others thoughts (and cared more about myself) and enjoyed being with friends and living my life to the fullest, I ended up with a good man.Your 22 dude, enjoy your life and if you take advantage of it. The happier and more confident you are with yourself, the better your chances will be at possibly getting a girl.
thanks maybe i'm just overthinking this to much your words actually made feel alittle better bout my life.