Financial standing in prospective partners
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ErErErgo
"Weiss, You Dumbass!"
Mostly for the ladies. This is, of course, assuming you like the other parts of him (Physical, personality, etc.).
Does a man's financial standing come into play when considering him as a prospective partner?
Have you had times where you were in a relationship and the person lost his job/lost a steady income?
Is there a point when you expect the man to be able to provide for you and him? Possible living arrangements, etc.? How far in the relationship do you start to get the feeling that you want to move in and try to build a life with someone?
Does a man's financial standing come into play when considering him as a prospective partner?
Have you had times where you were in a relationship and the person lost his job/lost a steady income?
Is there a point when you expect the man to be able to provide for you and him? Possible living arrangements, etc.? How far in the relationship do you start to get the feeling that you want to move in and try to build a life with someone?
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I definitely think it is important to be in a relationship that can provide a sense of security both emotionally and financially. However, I personally would never place that responsibility solely upon my significant other. I'd be lying if I said my boyfriend didn't spoil me, but I'm going to school to pursue a career that happens to have a very comfortable salary. A mutual relationship where we can stand on equal footing financially is the kind of relationship that would work best for me, and I'm really looking forward to doing so in the future. However, everyone is different.
I'd guess I'd say that, for where I am right now in my life (early 20's), financial standing in a partner is more of a luxury than a necessity. And for your third question asking about living arrangements: Once I get my bachelors degree, I'm hoping we can get a place together and both contribute to the expenses!
I hope that made sense, I'm fkkn tired.
I'd guess I'd say that, for where I am right now in my life (early 20's), financial standing in a partner is more of a luxury than a necessity. And for your third question asking about living arrangements: Once I get my bachelors degree, I'm hoping we can get a place together and both contribute to the expenses!
I hope that made sense, I'm fkkn tired.
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
She married a soldier... i had nothing. Now it's different. I make a year pay in two gigs.
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ErErErgo
"Weiss, You Dumbass!"
H_I_S_O wrote...
I definitely think it is important to be in a relationship that can provide a sense of security both emotionally and financially. However, I personally would never place that responsibility solely upon my significant other. I'd be lying if I said my boyfriend didn't spoil me, but I'm going to school to pursue a career that happens to have a very comfortable salary. A mutual relationship where we can stand on equal footing financially is the kind of relationship that would work best for me, and I'm really looking forward to doing so in the future. However, everyone is different. I'd guess I'd say that, for where I am right now in my life (early 20's), financial standing in a partner is more of a luxury than a necessity. And for your third question asking about living arrangements: Once I get my bachelors degree, I'm hoping we can get a place together and both contribute to the expenses!
I hope that made sense, I'm fkkn tired.
An interesting view, and one I share.
A good relationship is based on mutuals and compromises, imo.
Best of luck!
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Misaki_Chi
Fakku Nurse
When I am looking for a man (focusing on financial status for this Q) I look for drive more so than his standing initially.
I am currently a college student who is 100% dependent on my financial aids and family for money at the moment so I don't expect any of my partners to be financially secure since I am clearly not. I look for them to be striving for a career and one that will bring them an income that can satisfy their individual needs. I don't want to be with someone who has no drive or aspirations to become financially stable (aka a freeloader). Even if my partner falls on hard times, as long as they have the determination to have a roof over their heads and food on the table, that is all I can ask for.
I am currently a college student who is 100% dependent on my financial aids and family for money at the moment so I don't expect any of my partners to be financially secure since I am clearly not. I look for them to be striving for a career and one that will bring them an income that can satisfy their individual needs. I don't want to be with someone who has no drive or aspirations to become financially stable (aka a freeloader). Even if my partner falls on hard times, as long as they have the determination to have a roof over their heads and food on the table, that is all I can ask for.
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I want him to have a job. Enough to have a stable income, place of his own, and feed himself properly.
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Always a great question.
Naturally a lot of ladies want basics, stablility and capability as far as their man's money situation.
All though I'll tell ya, there can be drags like if you happen to live in a really pricey area, like I do, it's tough getting to have your own place especially right out of school.
I suppose both girls and guys at the very least don't want any freeloaders.
Naturally a lot of ladies want basics, stablility and capability as far as their man's money situation.
All though I'll tell ya, there can be drags like if you happen to live in a really pricey area, like I do, it's tough getting to have your own place especially right out of school.
I suppose both girls and guys at the very least don't want any freeloaders.