How do I call this? o_O

Hi,

2 weeks ago a girl that is 12 years old has told me she loves me, I was quite shocked but I thought that at such an age love would be verry unstable or impossible. Now today it seems she still likes me, but for obvious reasons I cannot share theses feelings (Wich I'm shure will fade in some time). Now how am I supposed to call this kind of love, its like a reversed pedophile?

S.N: I don't love her or have any opinions of her in any way.

O_O
Are you a teacher or priest...You call it a crush on her part.. creep on yours.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Reverse%20Pedophile

Seriously, I told her it was wrong and that in no way I wanted to respond to her feelings

That's not good.. because even if you don't do anything to her and be a respectable adult (which I have a feeling you will), she can lie and it will be her word against yours and more than likely everybody would side with the "innocent" girl. You got to get unattractive fast.

Tell her you are flattered, but that she isn't old enough, and that someday she will understand that she was too young and doesn't know quite what is best for her.

Never encourage, but express gratitude for her at least being confident and for admiring you. Just don't ever let her think you and she will ever happen.

Try to be soft and gentle in how you would reject her (because that what you are doing, no matter the reason, a reject is a reject) and like gizgal said, don't encourage her, just say: "thank you, but I can't share those feeling, you'll understand in a few years"

Kinda lame I know, but it's my best advise

True.. but funny since fakku is full of pre-pedo loli lovers though.

lol you dont "call it" at all you just ignore the little girl...until she turns 18.

Love 2D kiddies all you want, but NEVER encourage/coerce real children into adult situations.

Made me think of this south park episode. Similar situation.

Thanks guy, all sorted out!