I don't even know what am I doing.
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Seriously, I don't know what am I doing in the world of romance anymore. Beginning of the college year, I set my eyes on this one girl who is almost absolutely perfect for me. We had a week's worth of fun times: bowling, talks about shoujo manga and anime stuff, gotten to know each other a lot. However, because she's dealing with family issues, I've decided to not pursue her for the sake a better future for the both of us (at least in my opinion.) Anyways, several months past by quickly, so did my yearnings for a girlfriend. But lately, I've been setting up flags and pulling up events (pulling up VN terms, in a nutshell you're hanging with them more) with this one girl. I didn't intend to at all! I did it with the intention of a good fun(?) friend that I am. It feels like I could get a relationship with this girl, but I don't know if she's willing to nor am I wanting to at the moment. So I am very confused about my current standing status of my life.
Maybe it's all in my head, but I'm massively confused.
Maybe it's all in my head, but I'm massively confused.
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Sounds like your just horney lol. you had one fun night with the girl and now your thinking about having a relationship with her even tho part of you says your not ready, if you werent ready b4 the outing then you probably really arent ready you are just being confused (i guess is the right word)by your hormones,give it a little time and thought b4 jumping into a relationship with a girl you really dont want.
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
Ask her.. what's the worst that can happen.. she saying nah we be friends.
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-You didn't ask a specific question.
-I have no idea what you're trying to say here, you're going to have to be explicitly clear.
-You don't want to, and she doesn't want to... sort of sounds like a settled matter to me.
-Where does the 'perfect girl' for whom you're 'waiting for' factor in, in all this?
-I have no idea what you're trying to say here, you're going to have to be explicitly clear.
-You don't want to, and she doesn't want to... sort of sounds like a settled matter to me.
-Where does the 'perfect girl' for whom you're 'waiting for' factor in, in all this?
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Think clearly of your intentions.
Is she the one who I wanna be with?
Am I sure of this?
What are my true intentions?
These questions should be answered but I will tell you this, don't sweat the small details because if you really like her, go up and ask her out first before making up your mind that she is the one you really want.
Besides, this "girl" who had family issues, SHE WAS PROBABLY WAITING FOR YOU TO HELP HER OUT!!!!
Girls WANT to be helped out and wish to escape from their problems if somebody comes up and lends her a hand. Don't act like a wuss now and start acting like you could be her potential boyfriend, or give her the idea that you are the right one.
Set your issues aside and concentrate on her.
*Edit+Note*
Please write your posts more clearly so we can understand and help you out.
I suggest that you edit your post.
Is she the one who I wanna be with?
Am I sure of this?
What are my true intentions?
These questions should be answered but I will tell you this, don't sweat the small details because if you really like her, go up and ask her out first before making up your mind that she is the one you really want.
Besides, this "girl" who had family issues, SHE WAS PROBABLY WAITING FOR YOU TO HELP HER OUT!!!!
Girls WANT to be helped out and wish to escape from their problems if somebody comes up and lends her a hand. Don't act like a wuss now and start acting like you could be her potential boyfriend, or give her the idea that you are the right one.
Set your issues aside and concentrate on her.
*Edit+Note*
Please write your posts more clearly so we can understand and help you out.
I suggest that you edit your post.
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Gravity cat
the adequately amused
Since you didn't actually ask a question, I'm going to take a wild guess and assume that you're asking for advice on how you can progress with this girl.
First off, you never specified as to whether she likes you in the way that you like her. Could that be just a lapse in your own judgement or is it because you don't actually know how she feels about you? If it's the latter, then just fucking ask her and talk to her about this.
You will need to find the right time though, because if what you say is true, that she has problems at home, then dropping the ball when she's on a down-day could wind up in disaster, especially if she was oblivious to how you felt. Should the day come that her problems seem to be getting better an she's happy, ask her then. Be sure to reassure her that her answer won't affect your friendship; you just need to know to put your mind at rest.
When you do ask her, please for the love of the Almighty Spaghetti Monster try to get a straight answer from her about how she feels about you. Once you can confirm where you stand with her (as friends or if she feels the same) then you can act accordingly.
For now though until life at home is a little easier, don't act on your feelings. You'll fuck everything up.
First off, you never specified as to whether she likes you in the way that you like her. Could that be just a lapse in your own judgement or is it because you don't actually know how she feels about you? If it's the latter, then just fucking ask her and talk to her about this.
You will need to find the right time though, because if what you say is true, that she has problems at home, then dropping the ball when she's on a down-day could wind up in disaster, especially if she was oblivious to how you felt. Should the day come that her problems seem to be getting better an she's happy, ask her then. Be sure to reassure her that her answer won't affect your friendship; you just need to know to put your mind at rest.
When you do ask her, please for the love of the Almighty Spaghetti Monster try to get a straight answer from her about how she feels about you. Once you can confirm where you stand with her (as friends or if she feels the same) then you can act accordingly.
For now though until life at home is a little easier, don't act on your feelings. You'll fuck everything up.