I rather be single then get marry & here's why

If marriage is happy when you always constant fighting,treating like crap & jumping at each other throats & call each other names & such etc. then i rather stay single til the the day i die then get marry unless some woman proves it to me she's worthy of me & worthy of my time & worth of my love i never want to go through that crap when you always fighting,treating each other like crap,call each other names & such etc.

Since they always say when couples fight stays together if that's the case then i rather stay single til the day i die then get a girlfriend or get marry since all couples fighting,treating like crap & jumping at each other throats & call each other names & such etc. instead of solving it peacefully & talking it out without fighting,treating like crap & jumping at each other throats & call each other names,arguing & such etc.

That's why am i so happy staying single i will never get a girlfriend or get marry unless she A proves it to me that she's not like that & B unless she proves to me that she's worthy of me,my time,my love & most of all my gift yep I'm a virgin man & I'm proud of it other then that crap i would never get a girlfriend or get marry & i never will since all couples loves fighting constantly,treating like crap & jumping at each other throats & call each other names & such etc. if that 's what you call happy marriage,happy couple & love.

Then forget it like i said if that's the case i rather stay single til the day i die then get marry or get a girlfriend then deal with the shit & deal with the crap what i went through & i never will change my mind unless she proves it to me that she's not like that & B unless she proves to me that she's worthy of me,my time,my love & most of all my gift so I'll leave it here or at least for now this is how i feel about dating,relationships & marriages feel free to comment only if you want to & if i thought of anything else to added to this i will don't worry :).

I think this is a prime example of the problems millenials have in regard to marriage and relationships in general. The fear of incompatibility, infidelity or the gradual disinterest of each other over time. Modern Feminism might be partly to blame for the state things are in now on this subject. Women are trying so hard to become like men that there's no longer anyway to distinguish the two aside from physical appearance. So now we're stuck with a generation of bastards and sluts. The women think its fine to fuck on the first date because they think that's the only way they can win someone's heart.

However, it only reinforces the males' destructive behavior to sleep with anything that walks. They wonder why their bfs cheat on them, but don't realize its because they're no different than all the other sluts out there. Sexting has pretty much became the norm in society. Using your body to win someone's heart can only take you so far because the next pretty face can do just as much if not better. Think your good in bed? Well if your bae wants to try something different in the bed room and you're not for it, guess what? He'll look for that fetish elsewhere unless you have a great personality to keep in him in check. Behind every good man is a good woman. If you're not a good woman, then what makes you think you'll ever get a good man (and vice versa)?


A lot of women suffer from "alpha male syndrome". The man producing the most testosterone is seen to be the most desireable. That may have been necessary when we were still in the wild, but now that we're living in modern society, it has become counter productive. Girls often ask: where all the good men gone? They're most likely staying away from your bi-polar ass.

Find better job/career, Make money, travel, fuck 3rd world prostitutes. Problem solved.

No women will ever feel a need for you OP, they got like 20 thirsty fucks behind them at any given time. Also, seek help for your delusions of grandeur, you've surpassed even my own.

While I think it's narrow-minded to think all marriages are a certain way just because people are bad at communicating and not many are able to sustain long and healthy relationships, I really see no reason someone has to get married.

You don't actually have to get married you know. You could just stay as a standard couple or stay engaged if you wanted to go a little bit further.
I think you're asking a lot to find someone you'll never argue with.

Marriage is an expensive commitment. In more ways than one.

Only 50% of marriages end in divorce (much higher for remarriages), but I like to look at the half-ful glass and agree, comunication is the key. Sometimes that communication will be arguments, sometimes it will be fights. It is how you communicate that will help your marriage/commitment go the distance. If you don't respect your parter(s), you will hurt them. And eventually, that hurt cannot be repaired.



I humbly disagree, I think it all depends on what you value. If you value money, marriage can make you richer (divorce makes you poorer). You get a better tax break when you marry.

What value do you put on visiting a spouse in the hospital? If your loved one became sick and you don't have the marriage cert, hospitals will not include you in the decision care process, i.e. treatments and status.

Also, what value do you place on loneliness? I hated being single. So much so it almost ended me. That was almost the most expensive decision of my life. I was lucky.

My partner and I waited until everyone in our state could marry (marriage equality). For us, it was simply a way to ensure that we could visit each other in the hospital, make medical decisions for each other, and inherit property (hassle free). For us, it was the practical benefits that were important. We have been together almost 20 years. We considered ourselves 'joined' long ago.

I don't think marriage is the issue of the original OP. The question is whether it is worth it to share your life with someone. For me, there was never any doubt. I yearned for that closeness since I was in grade school. Someone to hold, someone to hold me. I can't put a price on it. But everyone is different. Not everyone needs someone to feel complete.

My advice is to determine if you want to spend your life with someone. If so, find out how to make it happen. But be true to yourself. When I was alone, I told myself alot of lies, to try and make life bearable. But they were what caused me the most pain. The truth really did set me free and hope it does for everyone.

yikes, i think you have some bad experience with this whole topic. there are things such as healthy fighting. most of my fights with my significant other ends up in passionate sex or us realizing we love each other so much that the argument just seems silly. there are plus sides to relationships such as, having someone there for you 24/7, being able to try out all of your sexual fantasies, being able to open yourself up completely and be accepted. basically, my boyfriend is my best friend and that feels good. i know where you’re coming from with not wanting to be at each other’s throats all the time but if you are then it might be a sign y’all are not compatible. yes, while relationships are a lot of work, they’re also two sided. you can’t have just one person prove themselves to you without it being mutual. there are also open relationships and just dating! i wouldn’t cut all of it off just because you’re afraid of some fighting... although, if you feel good by yourself then just be by yourself! it’s really up to you, but having a closed mind about a broad topic such as relationships won’t help you in any way. i wish you a happy and healthy life.
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I always found that idea, the one of opening myself up and being accepted by a girl insane, I wouldn't do that ever, that's nuts. She'd rip me apart.
I mean there's a girl I love, and even if she loved me back, I'd never confide in her like that, she'd not accept me.
I know she wouldn't, but she's way better then anyone that I've ever met before.
I suppose my situation is different I've seen men like me, and what relationships they've had and... well needless to say one has to drop a few normal expectations about relationships because it won't happen when you're wacked upstairs lol.