Love advice! Please!
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So. This guy confessed to me, and I kind of like him too.
The problem is he lives in another country, and it's another month till I'm going to visit him. (I've never met him, so I'm really nervous)
But.. To be honest I reeeaaaally want sex, and it feels like my toys don't really cur it right now, but I also definitely does not want to hurt this guy, 'cause I like him really much.
And.. I just don't know what to do.. ;_;'
The problem is he lives in another country, and it's another month till I'm going to visit him. (I've never met him, so I'm really nervous)
But.. To be honest I reeeaaaally want sex, and it feels like my toys don't really cur it right now, but I also definitely does not want to hurt this guy, 'cause I like him really much.
And.. I just don't know what to do.. ;_;'
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
I'd say either:
A) Tell him ok, and be very close, and when you go there, hang out with him, and get really close, and MAYBE do things. Up to you (you'd have to see where it takes you)
B) Tell him you'd rather wait till you meet, so you know it's what you both want. But, keep close whilst you're getting ready to meet, and when you meet, gauge the meet, if it goes well, say yes. If not, no bingo.
C) (this one is assuming you live away from him, and will remain that way/ it's a long way away from him) Tell him no, as long distance relationships usually end badly, and you don't want anything to happen to your friendship
However, if you're moving there (or planning to, if you like him enough) then sure, first two options all the way.
That's just my opinion, though. Hope that helps :D
A) Tell him ok, and be very close, and when you go there, hang out with him, and get really close, and MAYBE do things. Up to you (you'd have to see where it takes you)
B) Tell him you'd rather wait till you meet, so you know it's what you both want. But, keep close whilst you're getting ready to meet, and when you meet, gauge the meet, if it goes well, say yes. If not, no bingo.
C) (this one is assuming you live away from him, and will remain that way/ it's a long way away from him) Tell him no, as long distance relationships usually end badly, and you don't want anything to happen to your friendship
However, if you're moving there (or planning to, if you like him enough) then sure, first two options all the way.
That's just my opinion, though. Hope that helps :D
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623
FAKKU QA
Okay so, here's what is likely to happen:
EDIT: didn't realize you were def going on the trip no matter what
your guys' attraction for each other will be strong enough (and your desire for sex since, hell, you're the girl) that you two will probably bang. And it will be great. You guys will probably bang a lot. And it will be awesome. But then you will have to go home. So I guess it's a matter of resisting the urge to bang and talking about the situation (having to be in separate countries, etc.) before doing anything big.
EDIT: didn't realize you were def going on the trip no matter what
your guys' attraction for each other will be strong enough (and your desire for sex since, hell, you're the girl) that you two will probably bang. And it will be great. You guys will probably bang a lot. And it will be awesome. But then you will have to go home. So I guess it's a matter of resisting the urge to bang and talking about the situation (having to be in separate countries, etc.) before doing anything big.
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So what? So far you've been having sex chats? Man, I miss that...
Regarding your predicament, I think that's something you can only find out when you meet him. Besides, if you have to wait for another month just to see him, you can probably wait a date or two for sex.
Regarding your predicament, I think that's something you can only find out when you meet him. Besides, if you have to wait for another month just to see him, you can probably wait a date or two for sex.
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Drifter995 wrote...
I'd say either:A) Tell him ok, and be very close, and when you go there, hang out with him, and get really close, and MAYBE do things. Up to you (you'd have to see where it takes you)
B) Tell him you'd rather wait till you meet, so you know it's what you both want. But, keep close whilst you're getting ready to meet, and when you meet, gauge the meet, if it goes well, say yes. If not, no bingo.
C) (this one is assuming you live away from him, and will remain that way/ it's a long way away from him) Tell him no, as long distance relationships usually end badly, and you don't want anything to happen to your friendship
However, if you're moving there (or planning to, if you like him enough) then sure, first two options all the way.
That's just my opinion, though. Hope that helps :D
I agree with this.
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Tsujoi wrote...
Just be oversea fuck buddies?This.
You said you never met him in person. Sometimes, people aren't who they project themselves to be from a distance (phones, texts, emails, even Skype). Don't get too emotionally attached, at least at first, and just have fun with no strings attached.
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MsSneaky wrote...
Thanks. c: And yes, I forgot to add that we live in different countries.
No, you didn't.
Also.. I fail to see the question here. You have a mutual affection and you're.. what.. afraid you'd hurt him by asking for sex?
...Do you know anything about guys, at all?
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artcellrox
The Grey Knight :y
Lollikittie wrote...
MsSneaky wrote...
Thanks. c: And yes, I forgot to add that we live in different countries.
No, you didn't.
Also.. I fail to see the question here. You have a mutual affection and you're.. what.. afraid you'd hurt him by asking for sex?
...Do you know anything about guys, at all?
Pretty much this. Unless you're in it for just the sex, but you did say you like him too, so there really shouldn't be a problem. Just meet the guy, chill out and enjoy each others' company, and when you both get close enough, see if he's DTF (you obviously seem to be).