Makeing her cry/Tear up?
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So I have this girl we started havin sex jan 17th. and for the first week or 2 we had sex almost every dad about 3-4 times 6 was my highest :/ but every time just about she kinda tear's up or something am I doing something wrong or does it just hurt her or something? I mean after so any times you figure she would be used to it?
I'm not going in dry or nothing I get her wet first of course.. should I try to put less of my penis in her? I can't go all the way in her cause I hit the back. so could it be cause I'm hitting the wall? Also could I break through that wall?
I'm not going in dry or nothing I get her wet first of course.. should I try to put less of my penis in her? I can't go all the way in her cause I hit the back. so could it be cause I'm hitting the wall? Also could I break through that wall?
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Gravity cat wrote...
Have you tried, I dunno...[size=29]ASKING HER?[/h]
Ofcourse I have that should be obvious she just says nothings wrong which I guess means something is wrong since she is a girl But I still don't know.
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Gravity cat
the adequately amused
subzero2039 wrote...
Gravity cat wrote...
Have you tried, I dunno...[size=29]ASKING HER?[/h]
Ofcourse I have that should be obvious she just says nothings wrong which I guess means something is wrong since she is a girl But I still don't know.
If she hasn't told you when asked then she either doesn't trust you enough to open up, or doesn't know what you'll think if she does.
The reason she cries post-coitus could be for a variety of reasons; a past trauma, physical pain, emotional attachment to you and wishing it could be something other than Fuck Buddies, I dunno. The only person who does know is her, and until she talks to you about it there's not much you can do.
How close are you with this girl and how long have you known her?
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
There is such a thing as too much.
Especially if the female was a virgin or inexperienced. It takes awhile for a female's body to adjust fully to sex especially rougher types of it. While being wet helps, it could hurt from just the fact that her body is still adjusting to it completely.
So positions that offer deeper or different angles of penetration can hurt during this time.
She could also be an emotional type and not feeling pain. Sex often has a lot of emotions tied to it and with pleasure being heightened during it can bring about odd emotional responses during it. Tears are not always from pain and sadness but could just be a response to help buffer some of that emotional overload.
Take it slow and gentle. If she still tears up it's because of emotions and nothing to really be concerned about though it's always a good idea to keep communication going and make sure there is a good deal of trust involved with your sexual partner.
Especially if the female was a virgin or inexperienced. It takes awhile for a female's body to adjust fully to sex especially rougher types of it. While being wet helps, it could hurt from just the fact that her body is still adjusting to it completely.
So positions that offer deeper or different angles of penetration can hurt during this time.
She could also be an emotional type and not feeling pain. Sex often has a lot of emotions tied to it and with pleasure being heightened during it can bring about odd emotional responses during it. Tears are not always from pain and sadness but could just be a response to help buffer some of that emotional overload.
Take it slow and gentle. If she still tears up it's because of emotions and nothing to really be concerned about though it's always a good idea to keep communication going and make sure there is a good deal of trust involved with your sexual partner.
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well I've only known her since October of 2013 but we were just friends with each other till the 5-6th an on the 17th of January I broke her Hymen. If she starts tearing up should I stop?? cause she get's mad if I stop I'm doing it I pull out an she is like what are you doing? I'm like your crying a little she is like Keep goin!!!! I'm like ok ok! :/
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Misaki_Chi
Fakku Nurse
There are too many reasons for this to be answered correctly and here is what you should do:
The amount of sex you guys are having is quite a bit, but there could be more reasons beyond sex.
Communicate with your girl and ask her simply,
"I (insert feelings you feel for her such as love, like, care about) you and I want to make you happy, but when I see tears in your eyes I am concerned that something is wrong. Could we talk about this?"
Never start the conversation off with the last line though. Starting off a conversation with, "can we talk?" translates to "our relationship is ending and things are bad". Using it at the end after explaining yourself will have much better results.
Gravity cat wrote...
[size=29]ASK HER![/h]The amount of sex you guys are having is quite a bit, but there could be more reasons beyond sex.
Communicate with your girl and ask her simply,
"I (insert feelings you feel for her such as love, like, care about) you and I want to make you happy, but when I see tears in your eyes I am concerned that something is wrong. Could we talk about this?"
Never start the conversation off with the last line though. Starting off a conversation with, "can we talk?" translates to "our relationship is ending and things are bad". Using it at the end after explaining yourself will have much better results.
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There is no other way to actually know why unless she tells you. It could be she's hurt (but then she asks you to keep going) or it could also be something emotional.
Lock the room. Have a serious talk. Show her you care.
Lock the room. Have a serious talk. Show her you care.
