ok people i need help

Sooo i've been going out with this girl for 4 months and i've known her for 2 years
she super cute,hot,smart and has a great personality.
but recently she's been fighting with her family.
and i've noticed shes gotten depressed and distant
what should i do ?

spend more time with her

yeah i do..but im always busy and she lives an hour away

[font=Tahoma]Talk to her more, see her more, give her more attention.
She needs to know you're there, that you care for her, and she needs that boost to her confidence.[/font]

If you're just going to pussyfoot around and make excuses, then you're not a man.

A real man would fucking tear the heavens apart to make time for his girl! Stop being a little bitch about it.

Cause showing support and being there with her is one of the better things you could do for her. And if you aren't willing to make time to do that then you are obviously not worthy of her.

Maybe you aren't satisfying her sexually enough. Like you're not well equipped.

You should talk to her about it and let her relieve her stress.

thanks

WWWAAAHHH!!!
i spend more then a hour on the public train time is nothing

Just be there for her.
ASK what's going on. Keep listening.

If you have sound advice, offer some.

I just ate some pizza.

You have to just be available but make sure you don't overstep your boundaries and get into this spat she is having. So don't argue with her, but don't go insulting her family or agreeing too much with her either.



Man badguy, why you always got to be like that? Mocking people's trouble all the time[color=white], making me laugh and stuff.[/color]

They might really be needing help!

[color=#ff0080]I am suddenly attracted to Takerial.

In other news,

Reassurance is key. Fighting with your family is like chipping away at your foundation, those are supposed to be the people that love and care for her the most so she's probably just feeling unstable and hurt by those she loves.

Unfortunately, that tends to seep out into others we love, so you have to make sure she knows exactly where you stand with her. It might not be fair to you, but she's probably having doubts in people now so she needs you to put in that extra effort so she knows she can count on you for love and support.[/color]

Man, I know where you're coming from. But I agree with neko-chan on this one.

The key is to not get yourself involved in her family problems, but show that your empathic towards her plight.



Pepperoni?

Tell her: "At least you still have a family"
Solve her problem by creating an even bigger one. She will have no choice but to realize how fortunate she is, and that there are others with equal or worst issues.
(Note:this is really bad advice)

Basically this. An hour isn't nothing. Hell a day isn't either. Just be there for her and make sure you don't overstep

It's alright, I'm awesome and manly.

Ask her what the problem is and then do your best to help and make sure you're always there supporting her.

Well to tell you the truth, just support her anyway you can. Tell her,
-"I love you",
or text her every morning,
-"hey beautiful"
or something that will get her day on a good and positive start. I mean all girls want to be praise.

Now about the family problems, i agree with other people about not getting involve in that, since its there business and all, but ask her what the problem was.
-Everyone wants to be listened too about there problems, even if they say "its ok" because ITS NOT okay.
And you live 1 hour away from her O_o, long distance relationship (hmm a nice test of relationship huh :])... well i don't know about this but visit her regularly. Gas prices are getting high again, but choose: Money, or your Girl.

Everything is a matter of the choices you make whether it will bring downfall and misfortune to your relationship or happiness and fortune.


I have been helping people with these kinds of things. So far it has been successiful to everyone I helped, now I wish good luck too you too.

This guy is awesome.

Also, silliness aside - basically all the nice things everyone's already said is a good idea. Just make sure she knows you're there for her and try to show it - when people're really depressed, they have trouble seeing what people are offering them. As frustrating as it might be at times, you'll have to make it clear to her a time or two, I imagine.