otaku reply here for love question

ok. i been with my girl for three years now has a couple but i been her friend/toy since we were in high school. but i been a otaku for longer(even ought she one too). why can life be like a manga. i always question this everytime i finish a harem or romance series(this time it Ai Kora) why can't love be like it is in the manga. i know this isn't reality, but still the boring get up and eat breakfast, go to work, come home, sit on the couch and then go to sleep with the occasional sex and cuddle section. i love her and she even accepts me for my flaws meh.. bisexual trap lover and ahh mmm "doujin artist"(mostly yaoi and incest, but crap) and i love her for her faults lolicon and former lez. i want a romance like love hina with out the dorm rooms and the multitude of girls loving me(nah i wish for that one). and maybe this a rant from a neckbeard otaku on life sucks wish for the anime(should be happy that a girl likes me enough to stick my... nevermind the bullocks). but i know someone got the answer i need. is life good enough or is paper we read(in some case the data) better.

yeah i know. can't ask the miss's this question, unless i want my tree cut. just thought another had this problem of separating life from story

Gosh, took me like 15 minutes to decipher what you wrote...

Anyway, i bet you have a pretty good life. Stop being such a weeaboo and just start enjoying your life as it is.

There's not much else you can do about it.

put in that way i can understand. it not a dream, idk i find my life stagnant. maybe i read to much or something but i just find human dating and relationships and mine off putting. maybe the daily ritual of love, sex and living together for so long boring and for my part(12 hr work days five times a week) am tired and only sleep on the week ends i should be more wild and carefree like back when we're first dating.

i am what i am. i do this every time i finish one, but idk maybe it time to go back to my meds and accept life was it is and not what is fantasize. i would stop being a otaku if it wasn't my second job, and the better paying one.

Oh damn you nailed that one right on ethe head...I'm impressed!

Go on a adventure together! Or spice up your sex life, try new things(Like S and M ;)). You both seem like pretty open people.

dude! your lucky to be were your at! theres tons of guys out there like me for instance who wish they actually were in a relationship and doing the things that your doing with her. it sounds to me like your complaining about a good thing that you have going on so let me ask you this, if she broke up with you at this moment how would you feel then? you don't realize what you've got until its gone is a very true statement that applies very much here.

You know what you should do >.D find as many random women on the street, follow them and learn their habits. Then proceed over time to get to know them and become their friend which in turn will cause them to like you. Even though this is a timely process as it is, buy an apartment complex or enough land to build one similar to it. Then get the women to move in there with your girlfriends as well. If all goes well they'll all love you and you'll have a giant orgy.

If all else fails:
drug the girls
take em home
???
Profit

Dude!! I have a wife like your girl and I'll tell you this from one man who married his to another bored with his. WAKE THE HELL UP!!!!!!!! Man take the advise of the others how posted and just thank GOD you have such a woman. Women like mine and your's don't come around everyday and if they do their either already taken,gay or dead. Hentias are great stuff to talk about,share,and maybe even try to ren-act a few of them. Still; you have to remember this is real life and if your bored then that's your fault for not doing anything about it. Or are you scared you might scare her off or something? Man just be happy you have a weird but health and loveing relationship.

wow i think i played a sim like that once.

we already have s&m sex, since she likes pain and i like ....blood. the sex isn't the problem.

it would suck but we have a sort of open relationship... her part only(she bi like me but she does only girls)
and Darkmind900 that was my conclusion too.