Over Affectionate
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I was wondering, is it possible for someone to be over affectionate to their loved one, such as a boyfriend or girlfriend. <3
And if so, where is this limit? If not, why do you think it is not? (>~<)a
Do you think it is okay for boys to be over affectionate, since they are supposed to be manly? Or does this apply to both genders? :X
What are your thoughts of "over affection", and where is this line in general? (^_^)a;
And if so, where is this limit? If not, why do you think it is not? (>~<)a
Do you think it is okay for boys to be over affectionate, since they are supposed to be manly? Or does this apply to both genders? :X
What are your thoughts of "over affection", and where is this line in general? (^_^)a;
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Yes, especially if that over affectionate behavior is not reciprocated. You start appearing clingy and become annoying.
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neko-chan wrote...
Yes, especially if that over affectionate behavior is not reciprocated. You start appearing clingy and become annoying. When is it, do you think, that the line is crossed? (^_^)a Also, how do you react to someone who is being over affectionate in general? >.>; Do you believe it is both sides that must find a middle ground, or just one side mostly?
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it really depends person by person how much one thinks is being over affectionate... there isnt really a general amount... it comes down to how much a person likes it or doesnt.
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[font=Verdana][color=green]It's already been said on both counts on what I'm going to say, but yes it is possible to be over-affectionate; but it varies on a person by person basis. It's pretty much a "I know it when I see it" rule; very much like the law on undue influence, but that rant's for another day.
In regards to the question about what to do in that situation, for the most part it should be a "middle ground found (like the rhyme?)" scenario. However, the party causing the aggravation should be willing to compromise more; the law never favours the aggressor, whether they meant it or not.
If the question you're really asking is "How often should I communicate with my partner?", then it's really up to you to decide. Giving the occasional surprise text can be sweet and endearing, but too many and it overwhelms them, too little and they think you don't care.
In regards to the question about what to do in that situation, for the most part it should be a "middle ground found (like the rhyme?)" scenario. However, the party causing the aggravation should be willing to compromise more; the law never favours the aggressor, whether they meant it or not.
If the question you're really asking is "How often should I communicate with my partner?", then it's really up to you to decide. Giving the occasional surprise text can be sweet and endearing, but too many and it overwhelms them, too little and they think you don't care.
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Everyone's line is different, so there isn't a set level of affection that turns everyone off. Some people may be happy doing the lovey dovey thing, but that would make other people gag.
Generally, I'm not one to show too much affection. I do love a cuddling, kissing, etc., but I need a lot of alone time as well, and my partners have to respect that. If someone is more affectionate than me--especially if they're clingy--I tend to push them away. However, if they are less affectionate, I lose interest quickly. It's a complicated balancing act.
Generally, I'm not one to show too much affection. I do love a cuddling, kissing, etc., but I need a lot of alone time as well, and my partners have to respect that. If someone is more affectionate than me--especially if they're clingy--I tend to push them away. However, if they are less affectionate, I lose interest quickly. It's a complicated balancing act.
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Nekohime wrote...
Generally, I'm not one to show too much affection. I do love a cuddling, kissing, etc., but I need a lot of alone time as well, and my partners have to respect that. If someone is more affectionate than me--especially if they're clingy--I tend to push them away.I tend to show too much affection but I get to the point that I get tired and stop without any warning. That doesn't mean that I'm losing interest though. I just need a break and once I come back, I'm gonna be sweeter than ever. XP I just have to be alone for awhile to do the things that I love like reading manga, watching anime, and playing games.
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I think for everyone it's different.Some people only like a certain amount of close and for some none is not enough and some like that extra clingy-ness.
For me imma really lovely dovey type so all that extra affection and cuddliness is so for me but my boyfriend at the time is rather bashful about showing too much or too little affection in public,aiee it's so cute.
For me imma really lovely dovey type so all that extra affection and cuddliness is so for me but my boyfriend at the time is rather bashful about showing too much or too little affection in public,aiee it's so cute.
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It depends on the person, like Azyl said.
'Cause some people find it cute, to others it's stalkerish.
I personally think it's nice, as long as they're not breathing heavily down your neck or installing cameras. You know, just the usual B/G thing o3~
'Cause some people find it cute, to others it's stalkerish.
I personally think it's nice, as long as they're not breathing heavily down your neck or installing cameras. You know, just the usual B/G thing o3~
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Aai
FAKKU Ass Master
Don't be clingy, it isn't attractive or cool, it's basically saying that you are her/his world and that you would do anything and all together, which is almost like a yandere, freaky as fuck.
I know what I say isn't 100% but it is majority of the world that sees "OVERaffectionate" as.
To not cross that line, basically act like you always do in your daily routine, with a kiss when necessary, see you later hugs and I'm glad your back hugs, late night sex or good morning I'm horny sex.
I know what I say isn't 100% but it is majority of the world that sees "OVERaffectionate" as.
To not cross that line, basically act like you always do in your daily routine, with a kiss when necessary, see you later hugs and I'm glad your back hugs, late night sex or good morning I'm horny sex.
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That's probably my number problem with relationships. I'm apparently, and lately I've realized it finally, that I'm overly affectionate. Thankfully not in a possessive way, I think, but apparently to the point where it comes off as clingy.
The girl I'm with now doesn't mind that about me, but I have to wonder if her attitude will change if I don't take it down a notch. Not as easily done as it is said.
The girl I'm with now doesn't mind that about me, but I have to wonder if her attitude will change if I don't take it down a notch. Not as easily done as it is said.
