Threesome guides?

Anyone here had a threesome? Me and my partner are going to be looking for a third soon for an MFF threesome, and was wondering if anyone had any advice. Before anyone asks, it was my idea (I'm the girlfriend). Hope it's ok to post this kind of thing here

I don't have personal experience, but I had a friend and he said it was a little daunting since he now had 2 ladies to try and please. If anything, you can also always watch amateur threesome porn online to get ideas since it should be real people having a threesome. Also, as with all sex, just remember communication is always good.

Yeah my partner and I have talked about limits and what we're both comfortable with. I don't want to have a MMF threesome and neither does he, and we've talked about how important communication is to us

I've had a threesome with my girlfriend before (FFF), it's not all that hard of a concept to despite how daunting I imagine people would think it is. As stated before, communication is key, but you should also consider how to go about it. Try not to be overly focused on a single member, it's easy to make someone feel left out. Switch up roles, don't be passive about taking the lead with your partner or the other girl taking the lead with him, so he can focus on the third member, that way someone always gets something out of it. Also take it slow, you're most likely gonna be with a girl you've never been with, so make sure to make that external party feel comfortable and get them in the mood first and foremost. They're gonna be the most nervous, probably anyway. Other than that just be careful with who you chose.

Beyond that it's just regular sex with an additional member, once you get into the flow of things after foreplay, kissing and getting everyone in the mood to go all the way, you'll get caught up in the flow and treat it like you would normally with your partner. Finally, as suggested look up some amateur porn threesomes, should give you a good idea of what to do if you don't know how to start or how to work together.

I probably don't need to add this but remember protection, worst thing that could happen is you get a random girl with some STD or STI she doesn't know about and that ruins the good time, dental dams and condoms are a must.

Well only thing i could suggest is what your emotional limit? Can you watch your man get it on with another, because if you two aren't emotionally strong or mature this is gonna be a rough time after the act and vice versa. Ask yourself if you can be jealous especially if he is having an awesome time with the other woman and the same with him if you really get off with her also.

Try this out before you two find a partner for this threeway. You two go out and flirt with other people and gauge your feeling watch the other hit on others. Hell if it works out maybe you two can just watch each other have some fun with other woman in this ménage à trois. If you have no jealousy or any negative feeling watch your man plow another then your relationship is strong and can the threeway/fourway/orgy isn't going to affect you two.

But beware. People say one thing but act another way when they get down to it. Make strict rules for this as a one off thing. After you two can discuss an other go around.

Thanks for the advice! We've talked through different situations and intend to visit a swingers club to test the waters. I agree about trying flirting with others, and both of us agree that if there is even a hint if jealousy from either of us, its not happening. We're both eager but we're definitely going to take each step slowly with this