WTF girls

so im talking to a girl for about a year now. Now she lives in a city not to far from me we got really close shared things we have never shared with anyone. Now a few months ago she told me she loved me like serious she wants to be with me for the rest of her life. And this shocked me what shocked me more was i said i loved her with out a second thought and it was true. Now do to shitty no license no car deal on both part we did not start seeing each other. So she ended up going out with another guy. Now i was not mad or upset because we were not together how could i be. So last weeks her birthday i got her a necklace she was fliping out how happy it made her. So couple days later its were talking and shes mad cause her bf did not try to call her text her or anything and he did not even show on her birthday(neither did i but i had work and we still texted all day.).So shes mad about this cause him ignoring her is a common thing. So im trying to make her feel better. I tell her she deserved better. And she tells me "please like u i dont even like u like that" now im just stunned because she had told me otherwise be for. So i guess it was all a lie and iv been there for her when no one else was. So this has hit me pretty hard and my last few days have been a intoxicated haze i dont even know where iv been or what iv done. So i ask why does anyone do that to some one i feel dead inside and its the worst thing iv ever felt. I havent even been able to smile about the fun things in life.

im not a girl myself but my older bro always told me dont trust anything that bleeds for 5 days and DOE NOT DIE, guess you should have tooken her confession a little less seriously ESPECIALLY when she found a new bf right away.

Women are weird beasts of unlogical thinking and emotional forethought. If you two were never together then why are you broken when she said i don't like you like that? Why so pent up on one girl.. go meet another one and screw this one wobbing analytical mindfucking.

well her new bf was like a month after this and dont trust anything thing that bleeds for five days and lives wtf is that shit walk around takeing that to heart and enjoy your sad lonely exsitance.

its not that im hung up on her truefully i knew it would never work out but why mindfuck me like that is what i wanna know?

No offense or anything, but please work on your grammar. It was very difficult to read, so difficult I had to read out loud, and think while reading.

One more thing, please do refrain of lean all girls into the likes of her. There's many other devoting girls with pure hearts. This is just one girl out of billions of girls. Don't generalize them. (I had to learn that the hard way so I'm just giving you a friendly tip for the future.)

Well, I see this as some kind of insult straight out to your face, which isn't very nice. I think it's because she's got a taste of love with real physical contact, social meetings, and truly express her feelings from her mouth alone. Due to that, she lost her online/mobile love contact such as you. One of the key destructive points of being a online/mobile lover is distance. The distance is what diminishes a love relationship, especially when both parties lacks some sort of convenient transportation to visit one another. You are not at fault here my friend. She betrayed you,she crushed your feelings, but you can't bring yourself to believe that she just did that after a year of close bonds through text messages.

Most online relationships usually end up real bad, rarely do any online relationships turns out to a happy ending. But please do move on. Life isn't gonna wait for you to recover from this. As harsh as it may seem, you got to stop this behavior and just continue onto your normal life. A life with just online messages to this girl that betrayed your feelings but you still love(?) is just too painful. Stop inflicting pain among yourself.

Some women like to see the world burn... not all, but i never knew a woman not to play some type of mindgames..

Tooge thank you very much. I plan to move on a few nights at the bar shooting pool should help. I just wanted to rationalize it somehow to help me bury it. I am just a nice person and when something like that happens it makes me wonder why. And and the wtf girls i was not trying to generalize i just wanted some female input. I feel everyone is there own individual and should not be grouped together i know i don't like to be and sorry about the grammar. So thank you for saying something that made sense.

My advice: get over it and quick drinking like Charlie Sheen, not all the girls are like that, i got my heart shattered 3 times before i meet my actual GF and she is an Angel. I'm pretty sure you are a pretty good/cool dude so you will find a good girl sometime.

As a girl, I would like to declare that there are many, many sane women out there. We just don't stand out as much. That asideeee...

I'm really, really sorry someone treated you that way! That's absolutely horrible. On the upside, not that I want to give you any false hope, but sometimes people spit out really, really shitty-sounding, hurtful things when they're embarrassed or in a bad mood. It could be true that she was utterly sincere when she said what she did and hurt you, or it might be that the key feeling was there (or not and she was shy, I don't know this girl) but it came out in an incredifuckingly cruel way on accident because of how crappy she felt.

Sometimes people lash out at the people who treat them the best. Regardless? Find better female friends, both for potential dates and for simply having nice conversations! <3

You sound like a friend of mine who's very into long distance/online relationships.

Also, yay for alice^. It's quite frustrating when you're dealing with girls who are shy about their emotions and have a hard time communicating. In my experiences, it seemed like no matter what I did, it was no use, and they just had to deal with it on their own. So you never really know how much you helped, or if you were even helpful at all. I suppose this also ties into what OP was saying about being there for her.

Was there ever a more appropriate time to post this?