Your first love
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Just as the title says, I'm curious about everyone's first love. This isn't about crushes, however if fewer feelings weren't returned, but you think it still constitutes love then go for it. As for me, my first love was a girl in my drama class, her name is Alise, she's my longest standing friend (we've been friends for damn near 7 years) she's a blonde with almost curly wavy hair and an incredible singing voice. I told her how I felt about her after I moved away, but things wouldn't have worked out anyway. We still talk and whatnot, it just never happened between us.
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My first love was Dustin. I met him on Runescape when I was 13. It was pretty lame, and I was pretty stupid. He flew in for my 14th birthday. I had my first kiss, and gave my first handjob. After that I got pretty distant.. I missed him too much, he was a dropout with no job, things went downhill. It took 2 years to fully get over him, even though the love faded before that.
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Lughost
the Lugoat
The first girl I felt that I loved was a friend of mine in high school named Cathy. She played the alto sax and I played french horn and I sat in front of her everyday in band class. I told her how I felt and asked her to go to prom with me and she said yes. It was my first relationship though, and I had some rather glaring issues with expressing my feelings, so I wound up inadvertently pushing her away. I still feel bad for the way that our romantic relationship turned out, but we're still good friends and talk regularly.
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
Weird thing is.. im with my first love 8 years after we broke up. We been friends ever since im moved from the hills into the valley, basically she was the only person who talked to me, we dated.. she came out.. i was still in the closet at the time too, we broke up, stay friends.. i came out(im bi btw).. shit happen, we had a kid, two years later we married, another kid... rest is to be written. Freaky's real life is more complicated then my guro fantasy persona.
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My first love was at age 5.
It involved lots of getting bosses around(happily too for some reason) & pretending that a basketball was our child. That eventually evolved into setting up like a kindergarden couple system playing "House" under the tire dragon. I think I was a swinger as a kid...Somewhere in there we even used kiddy pools to bathe each other in secret. It all ended though when that person had to move away. I still firmly believe that had we managed to grow up together we'd still be together now.
It involved lots of getting bosses around(happily too for some reason) & pretending that a basketball was our child. That eventually evolved into setting up like a kindergarden couple system playing "House" under the tire dragon. I think I was a swinger as a kid...Somewhere in there we even used kiddy pools to bathe each other in secret. It all ended though when that person had to move away. I still firmly believe that had we managed to grow up together we'd still be together now.
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Gravity cat
the adequately amused
My first love, eh?
I would have to say this girl called Danielle. I was 16, and she lives in Clacton-on-sea which is about 2 hours from me. We were together 9 months and I visited her as often as I could via coach which took me through London Victoria, but she was one of these girls who is always depressed about something and, safe to say, it was what caused us to break up. It didn't help that she also got into World of Warcraft so I didn't hear from her at all in the final month. It took 2 years to fully get over her.
I did get something out of it though - I realised that I can play and complete Rayman 3: Hoodlum Havoc in one sitting. At the time, with her help. Nowadays though I can complete more difficult games without even thinking.
Other than that, I haven't had anyone I truely connected with who I wasn't stuck in the Friend Zone with. I'm a pretty lonely soul.
I would have to say this girl called Danielle. I was 16, and she lives in Clacton-on-sea which is about 2 hours from me. We were together 9 months and I visited her as often as I could via coach which took me through London Victoria, but she was one of these girls who is always depressed about something and, safe to say, it was what caused us to break up. It didn't help that she also got into World of Warcraft so I didn't hear from her at all in the final month. It took 2 years to fully get over her.
I did get something out of it though - I realised that I can play and complete Rayman 3: Hoodlum Havoc in one sitting. At the time, with her help. Nowadays though I can complete more difficult games without even thinking.
Other than that, I haven't had anyone I truely connected with who I wasn't stuck in the Friend Zone with. I'm a pretty lonely soul.
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
first REAL love? or first highschool 'love'?
First real love would be current gf.
First real love would be current gf.
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hm never felt it, ive admired girls and ive fancied girls but ive never loved a girl
Dont know if im missing out or if im just lucky not to experiance the pain of it as well :p
Dont know if im missing out or if im just lucky not to experiance the pain of it as well :p
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Drifter995 wrote...
first REAL love? or first highschool 'love'?First real love would be current gf.
Sometimes they're the same, usually they aren't. Mine I still have feelings for even though it's 7 years later and we've both held several relationships since we last saw each other. One of mu other friends recently called me out on it and she was right, I still do have very strong feelings for her, but things probably won't change and we've led such different lives I don't think things could work out between us. I loved her, and still do love her more than either of my ex-fiances, but that's another matter for another time.
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My 1st love was my 1st Gf...her name was Mel.
Met her in highschool and was with her from the age of 13 till we were 18 ( a long time ago now! )
I was broken when we ended...but hey I got over it in time :) lol
Met her in highschool and was with her from the age of 13 till we were 18 ( a long time ago now! )
I was broken when we ended...but hey I got over it in time :) lol
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My first love (and so far only "true" love) was a girl from high school. She was a year younger than me and we (unsurprisingly) met at the school's anime club and became good friends. It wasn't until we both became co-presidents and started working together that we actually got close and decided to go out. It wasn't lovey-dovey or anything like that; it was like having a friend that was closer and more intimate with you than anyone else.
I had my first kiss with her, but that was it. We didn't go all the way because her family (a family of traditionalists from Syria, mind you) didn't approve of our relationship once they found out. We still talked in school and during club, but her family kept close tabs on her, so once I graduated we decided to just completely end it there.
I had my first kiss with her, but that was it. We didn't go all the way because her family (a family of traditionalists from Syria, mind you) didn't approve of our relationship once they found out. We still talked in school and during club, but her family kept close tabs on her, so once I graduated we decided to just completely end it there.
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my 1st love ?!
her name is Anggy, she tomboy, she had long black hair, always wear hat wherever she go. i know her when i 13 year's old. i met her in my buddy birthday. but i going out with her when i turn 15.
but our relationship is just about 2 year's, because she pas away.
her name is Anggy, she tomboy, she had long black hair, always wear hat wherever she go. i know her when i 13 year's old. i met her in my buddy birthday. but i going out with her when i turn 15.
but our relationship is just about 2 year's, because she pas away.
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Misaki_Chi
Fakku Nurse
My last boyfriend. I loved him, but we had to end things for various reasons. Took a while to get over it and I even realized that even though I may have thought that I loved him at the time, I didn't see a future with him... I haven't experienced that deep love where you want to be with someone for the rest of your life (hopeing to someday).
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My first love.. i met him while i has in highschool. We met in a christmas reunion in my building, he's the cousin of some kid who lives here. We talked nonstop from that day on, but i didn't think of him in a romantic way at first. Then he confessed and i realized i liked him too. We dated for a year and a half.. until he started to take distance and left the relationship without telling me. Also, bastard cheated on me.
It took me a year to get over him.
My first crush was stupid xD i was 13 and i liked him because he played guitar and had a great sense of humor. Thats basically it, we lasted a month because i realized he was a complete retard.
It took me a year to get over him.
My first crush was stupid xD i was 13 and i liked him because he played guitar and had a great sense of humor. Thats basically it, we lasted a month because i realized he was a complete retard.
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Oh my first love.
I was 15 and she was 16. She was also taller than me by like an inch (which was weird cause then I was tall even back then). We met at a drama festival. Different schools and somehow we start talking cause one of the activities and hit it of. I take the train home with her and her friends who turn out to be just as quirky and perverted as I.
Not wanting to part we head of to a park with a friend who soon after subtly leaves. We somehow start talking about kissing, which I had my first kiss. I shyly confess this and she replies, ever confident.
"Do you want me to fix that?"
And then doesn't give me a choice about it. We date for for a week, and then stuff gets complicated and then it ends the week after that.
Took me a year to get over her.
We're still friends, but forever after whenever I've met with her I always lose another first time.
I was 15 and she was 16. She was also taller than me by like an inch (which was weird cause then I was tall even back then). We met at a drama festival. Different schools and somehow we start talking cause one of the activities and hit it of. I take the train home with her and her friends who turn out to be just as quirky and perverted as I.
Not wanting to part we head of to a park with a friend who soon after subtly leaves. We somehow start talking about kissing, which I had my first kiss. I shyly confess this and she replies, ever confident.
"Do you want me to fix that?"
And then doesn't give me a choice about it. We date for for a week, and then stuff gets complicated and then it ends the week after that.
Took me a year to get over her.
We're still friends, but forever after whenever I've met with her I always lose another first time.
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my first love was a filipina girl in 8th grade. she was pretty and we got along together because i could speak tagalog around her and my parents also liked her. i asked her out after graduation but i was turned down because she was already going back to the Philippines in 2 weeks.
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Drifter995 wrote...
first REAL love? or first highschool 'love'?First real love would be current gf.
likewise it would be my current gf, same person for my first crush
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Met my first love in 8th grade, our friends pushed us together, had our first kiss a year after we started dating and we did do some touching but never got to sex. We started drifting apart after the pressures of highschool started to kick in, and the girl I use to love changed into someone else, someone not familiar to me. I don't think I changed much personality wise since I was 13, except being more tactful.