Virginity
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There's a girl that wants to do it with me, we've been playing around for quite some time and now she wants have sex and she's a virgin.
My question to you all is should I do her on the spot or should I plan it?
she doesn't care but she might in the future so i ask you what is a guy to do?
suggestions, tips, experiences, and so on will do. thanks.
KING
My question to you all is should I do her on the spot or should I plan it?
she doesn't care but she might in the future so i ask you what is a guy to do?
suggestions, tips, experiences, and so on will do. thanks.
KING
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Lots of things to consider. The emotional impact, The future, Your Relationship and of course, STDS.
Emotional Impact
As far as I know, sex has a great impact on relationships and the emotions of both partners, especially the girl. Some people say that a girl will become a little more insecure after losing her virginity to a guy. I believe this is mainly because she's given up her virginity, something you only have once in a lifetime. So after giving yourself to someone, usually the girl will want to make sure that the guy won't leave her right after he's gotten "what he wants". It's not true that guys only want girls for sex, but because many do, some girls will get the general idea in their head that after the guy takes her virginity, he won't need her anymore.
I don't know this for sure, it's simply based on knowledge and experience, but it's probably something to consider.
How will sex effect the girl's emotions. If it makes her a little more insecure or clingy, will you be able to handle it?
And if she falls in love with your cock, and wants it more often, can you handle that? Lol, that part's a joke.
The Future
Use a condom. If not, make sure you're ready for what may come. A child is something that requires countless amounts of time, emotional support and money. If you can't handle it, don't do it.
Wrap it before you tap it.
The Relationship
Eh, I've always felt awkward after sex with a girl, though.. in some cases we never spoke of it again. With situations like those, where you never see the girl again.. it's no big deal. Not to me anyway. However since this girl wants to do it with you for sure, consider how the relationship will be after sex.
If you think sex will ruin it, maybe you should wait. But if you think all will be fine, go on ahead. I recommend discussing things with her though. See how she feels about it, if you want.
STDS
Assuming she truly is a virgin, this probably shouldn't be much of an issue. However, I'd recommend being sure of it. You don't wanna have sex with someone and regret it later. I have too many peers (and quite a few family members) who have done this in the past.
There's more, but I'll stop there.
Also, post pics of it when you're done.
Emotional Impact
As far as I know, sex has a great impact on relationships and the emotions of both partners, especially the girl. Some people say that a girl will become a little more insecure after losing her virginity to a guy. I believe this is mainly because she's given up her virginity, something you only have once in a lifetime. So after giving yourself to someone, usually the girl will want to make sure that the guy won't leave her right after he's gotten "what he wants". It's not true that guys only want girls for sex, but because many do, some girls will get the general idea in their head that after the guy takes her virginity, he won't need her anymore.
I don't know this for sure, it's simply based on knowledge and experience, but it's probably something to consider.
How will sex effect the girl's emotions. If it makes her a little more insecure or clingy, will you be able to handle it?
And if she falls in love with your cock, and wants it more often, can you handle that? Lol, that part's a joke.
The Future
Use a condom. If not, make sure you're ready for what may come. A child is something that requires countless amounts of time, emotional support and money. If you can't handle it, don't do it.
Wrap it before you tap it.
The Relationship
Eh, I've always felt awkward after sex with a girl, though.. in some cases we never spoke of it again. With situations like those, where you never see the girl again.. it's no big deal. Not to me anyway. However since this girl wants to do it with you for sure, consider how the relationship will be after sex.
If you think sex will ruin it, maybe you should wait. But if you think all will be fine, go on ahead. I recommend discussing things with her though. See how she feels about it, if you want.
STDS
Assuming she truly is a virgin, this probably shouldn't be much of an issue. However, I'd recommend being sure of it. You don't wanna have sex with someone and regret it later. I have too many peers (and quite a few family members) who have done this in the past.
There's more, but I'll stop there.
Also, post pics of it when you're done.
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HentaiElder wrote...
Also, post pics of it when you're done.This man knows priorities.
Anyway, I say go for it. If she digs you and you dig her, I don't see a reason not to. Also, if she's a virgin, she probably won't be too picky about how you do it if you guys are really into each other, but I guess there is no harm in making her first time an explosion eh? But as HentaiElder said, make sure you use a condom if you value your health and future.
My only advice other than wearing a condom: Make sure you get some good foreplay in. Especially if she is a virgin.
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Well,its your decision.
If your leaning to the side,"Yeah lets do it!",just get a condom.
Best choice.
If your leaning to the side,"I should plan it.",gain money.
Just in case of a kid,cause you never know.You have time if you plan it,though it may seem a bit odd.
I recommend the planning one though.
You have your money,all set in case a kid comes out.
Don't forget the pics.
If your leaning to the side,"Yeah lets do it!",just get a condom.
Best choice.
If your leaning to the side,"I should plan it.",gain money.
Just in case of a kid,cause you never know.You have time if you plan it,though it may seem a bit odd.
I recommend the planning one though.
You have your money,all set in case a kid comes out.
Don't forget the pics.
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Hell yes you should bang her what kind of question is that? You’re a guy and when a girl offers you sex only gay men say no.
Kidding aside I say go for it if she really is a virgin then she can’t know how bad you are. You’ll by default be the best sex she ever had. It’s not too much of an issue sex has never fucked up a relationship for me. As long as you listen during and if she says to stop you stop! Then there should be little issue. Sex should bring you closer together that’s been my experience.
Kidding aside I say go for it if she really is a virgin then she can’t know how bad you are. You’ll by default be the best sex she ever had. It’s not too much of an issue sex has never fucked up a relationship for me. As long as you listen during and if she says to stop you stop! Then there should be little issue. Sex should bring you closer together that’s been my experience.
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I think HentaiElder covered all the bases in terms of first-time sex, even the psychological factors involved before and after sex. Nothing more to say, but this thread should be in the Love, Romance, and Relationships section.
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Well if she says she wants you to be her first the you should feel honored. As long as she is okay with it everything should work out fine.
But this is something you should really be asking yourself if you are okay with it. Do a little soul searching and I'm sure you'll find the answer. I believe there isn't a real right or wrong answer in this case.
But this is something you should really be asking yourself if you are okay with it. Do a little soul searching and I'm sure you'll find the answer. I believe there isn't a real right or wrong answer in this case.
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yeah I'm only asking cause shes a virgin, but hentai elders right on the emotional effect and she gets horny very often so much it rivals men's.
but i last longer than her so its all good we foreplay a lot so we know each other well just not bump da bump.
and what do you mean by pics?
like during the sex?
lol
but i last longer than her so its all good we foreplay a lot so we know each other well just not bump da bump.
and what do you mean by pics?
like during the sex?
lol
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king wrote...
and what do you mean by pics? Pictures oh and of her not you. For memorable purposes I suggest to you not tell her you’re posting them on the internet. If she finds out just say were trust worthy :wink:
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I understand why king would ask for advice in that matter.
I myself was asked once to take a girl's first time, and i refused.
Idk, i think it's too much responsability for me to bear. I'm the kind of guy who cares about the girl i'm with, so i didn't want to be her first. Also, i think that taking a girl's virginity might be not very pleasing, you know, all the 'teaching' thing and the 'does it hurt?' and all... that'd turn me off...
[size=5]We ended up becoming fuck buddies months later, for about six months, just fyi :) [/h]
I myself was asked once to take a girl's first time, and i refused.
Idk, i think it's too much responsability for me to bear. I'm the kind of guy who cares about the girl i'm with, so i didn't want to be her first. Also, i think that taking a girl's virginity might be not very pleasing, you know, all the 'teaching' thing and the 'does it hurt?' and all... that'd turn me off...
[size=5]We ended up becoming fuck buddies months later, for about six months, just fyi :) [/h]
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I don't see why there's a responsibility in a girls first time. I have never meet a girl who it hurt.If it was... sorry dude, she just wasn't wet enough. If she want's to do it with you has her first, dude, feel somewhat honored? I mean the girl trust you. Do a bit of foreplay, get her wet, put it in, go slowly, listen to her and voila. Virgin or not a virgin there's has much responsibility in both.
But if your not interested in her. Like you tell your self : ''Would I fuck her...hmm...nah'' then don't force yourself
But if your not interested in her. Like you tell your self : ''Would I fuck her...hmm...nah'' then don't force yourself
