luckydog001 Posts
I'd love to meet someone that likes hentai as I do. Unfortunately, I don't know anyone on here enough to say anything.
Mr.Shaggnificent wrote...
as a male, when i read stories told from the female perspective, it feels kind of like i'm getting inside information or let in on a secret. a chance to better understand the oponent(so to speak).
I like this. You're a clever man.
I'll list what I like on first dates. I'm not going to assume that all girls are like me, but the more you hear about what different girls like ( which I'm sure other gals will post on here ) the better idea you have about whats running through our heads on the first date:
1.) I like when you smile. Lots. Even sheepish ones. I know this one seems obvious, but you'll be surprised at how many men forget to smile because of how nervous they are.
2.)Nervousness brings me to the next thing. A lot of guys tend to have ALOT of mental battles inside their head during a first date. "Should I hold her hand ?" "Should I not ?" " Do I tell her how beautiful she looks ? " etc. I dont blame them, because I do it too. BUT. Because of this, they'll stutter, or mind blank, or get even MORE nervous trying to be on a date while picking their way through a multiple choice maze.
Do what comes naturally to YOU ! I don't think first dates should be elevated to such a form of courtship that you two forget to learn about each other as people. Be honest, if you screw up or stutter - tell her that you're nervous, talk about the things that interest you and see her reactions to them, crack jokes if they run through your mind, etc. You wont properly get your true personality across if you're brooding about whether or not to hold her hand the whole day.
Trust me, holding a conversation is a lot sexier than holding my hand.
3.)Don't lay it on too thick, especially for a first date. And especially shallow compliments. I get it - you're really interested in her and you wanna make sure she knows that you like her. The accolades on how beautiful her hair is, or her smile and her skin, etc etc. really doesn't feel right ( for me) this early. Don't veer every conversation topic to how amazing/wonderful she is and looks.
Little is more here. Tell a girl how beautiful she looks and she'll carry that with her the entire date. Sometimes (for me), all you need is to establish your attraction to her at the beginning of the date and the end of the date ( so she knows you're still interested ) And try to comment on her personality and intellect too, in a way that doesn't always allude to getting laid. I.E. " I think what you said is interesting and is definitely food for thought...and the way I see things is ( etc etc insert your own thoughts )"
Don't get me wrong. Flirting is great. But it's just my opinion that there's just too much flirting on most first dates, taking it from the realm of harmless little compliments to full blown desperate sexual innuendo bonanza.
I'd think of more but I think I made this post too long. Opps...
On a last note for those super nervous about their first date, just remember: She's on a date too :)
1.) I like when you smile. Lots. Even sheepish ones. I know this one seems obvious, but you'll be surprised at how many men forget to smile because of how nervous they are.
2.)Nervousness brings me to the next thing. A lot of guys tend to have ALOT of mental battles inside their head during a first date. "Should I hold her hand ?" "Should I not ?" " Do I tell her how beautiful she looks ? " etc. I dont blame them, because I do it too. BUT. Because of this, they'll stutter, or mind blank, or get even MORE nervous trying to be on a date while picking their way through a multiple choice maze.
Do what comes naturally to YOU ! I don't think first dates should be elevated to such a form of courtship that you two forget to learn about each other as people. Be honest, if you screw up or stutter - tell her that you're nervous, talk about the things that interest you and see her reactions to them, crack jokes if they run through your mind, etc. You wont properly get your true personality across if you're brooding about whether or not to hold her hand the whole day.
Trust me, holding a conversation is a lot sexier than holding my hand.
3.)Don't lay it on too thick, especially for a first date. And especially shallow compliments. I get it - you're really interested in her and you wanna make sure she knows that you like her. The accolades on how beautiful her hair is, or her smile and her skin, etc etc. really doesn't feel right ( for me) this early. Don't veer every conversation topic to how amazing/wonderful she is and looks.
Little is more here. Tell a girl how beautiful she looks and she'll carry that with her the entire date. Sometimes (for me), all you need is to establish your attraction to her at the beginning of the date and the end of the date ( so she knows you're still interested ) And try to comment on her personality and intellect too, in a way that doesn't always allude to getting laid. I.E. " I think what you said is interesting and is definitely food for thought...and the way I see things is ( etc etc insert your own thoughts )"
Don't get me wrong. Flirting is great. But it's just my opinion that there's just too much flirting on most first dates, taking it from the realm of harmless little compliments to full blown desperate sexual innuendo bonanza.
I'd think of more but I think I made this post too long. Opps...
On a last note for those super nervous about their first date, just remember: She's on a date too :)
I hope you're feeling better about this, Freezing !
I think an important thing to keep in your mind, especially when faced with something that potentially causes trauma, is to remember that it's perfectly normal to be feel the way that you do right now. Within seconds, your world was flipped upside down and you were left on the whim of other people, helpless and afraid. Your confidence is shaken, I'm sure. I truly believe what you did during the event, was the right thing to do. Instead of escalating the situation and panicing, you tried to grab a hold of your wits. I also believe what you're doing right now, is also the right step. You learned about how unprepared you were, and you took the steps to be better prepared. You seek outside help, either from your friends or the forums, to learn and return to normal as quickly as you can, rather than choke it in and hiding your feelings out of shame.
All this is proof that you're smart enough and strong enough to get past this. :) Just keep doing what you're doing, baby.
I think an important thing to keep in your mind, especially when faced with something that potentially causes trauma, is to remember that it's perfectly normal to be feel the way that you do right now. Within seconds, your world was flipped upside down and you were left on the whim of other people, helpless and afraid. Your confidence is shaken, I'm sure. I truly believe what you did during the event, was the right thing to do. Instead of escalating the situation and panicing, you tried to grab a hold of your wits. I also believe what you're doing right now, is also the right step. You learned about how unprepared you were, and you took the steps to be better prepared. You seek outside help, either from your friends or the forums, to learn and return to normal as quickly as you can, rather than choke it in and hiding your feelings out of shame.
All this is proof that you're smart enough and strong enough to get past this. :) Just keep doing what you're doing, baby.
gizgal wrote...
Strawberry Girl wrote...
gizgal wrote...
Strawberry Girl wrote...
Hey gizgal - my favorite thing currently is making different types of breads. Especially sweet sticky ones ! And the occasional cute cupcake or dainty little breakfast pastries don't hurt either ! Ill have to post some pictures in the food thread when I get the chance ~
Neat! Just reading about baking makes me hungry, lol.
Your avatar suits you perfectly in that post, haha.
HA! Heh... you could say that. But it's from a hentai manga haha so not quite er, culinary in origin ;D
Well, gizgal... with the right creative mindset, it can be as 'culinary' as you want it ! ;) Har har harr
Laggi wrote...
Strawberry Girl wrote...
Laggi wrote...
Fuck yeah, zombies!That is all. [size=1]Oh yeah, welcome to the forums, too.[/h]
Have a penchant for zombies too, do you ?
Yes indeed, very much so.
Whats your favorite type ? :)
Tell him this:
If every thing actually followed his superior logic, then he might as well forget about ever getting laid - girls would only be attracted to other girls, and the human population would die out within 100 years. Oh and he'll be cutting his wrists and crying the whole time about it.
Yay, tits.
If every thing actually followed his superior logic, then he might as well forget about ever getting laid - girls would only be attracted to other girls, and the human population would die out within 100 years. Oh and he'll be cutting his wrists and crying the whole time about it.
Yay, tits.
gizgal wrote...
Strawberry Girl wrote...
Hey gizgal - my favorite thing currently is making different types of breads. Especially sweet sticky ones ! And the occasional cute cupcake or dainty little breakfast pastries don't hurt either ! Ill have to post some pictures in the food thread when I get the chance ~
Neat! Just reading about baking makes me hungry, lol.
Your avatar suits you perfectly in that post, haha.
Laggi wrote...
Fuck yeah, zombies!That is all. [size=1]Oh yeah, welcome to the forums, too.[/h]
Have a penchant for zombies too, do you ?
Haburi-Chan wrote...
Strawberry Girl wrote...
Does anyone know of any hentai on FAKKU, that seems a little more geared towards girls too ? I mean the full page breast shots and blush/dazed facial reactions from the girl are inevitable - But I'm wondering if there's any that shows the guy and how he feels too (more than usual,anyway).Sorry if I'm still vague with my description ! I'm at a loss on how to describe it :P
Or if not, what fav. manga gets you going ?
I wish I knew a lot. >.> Most are aimed at guys. Well there are a couple yaoi doujins but they are mostly about Naruto and I'm not too fond of that. I have a couple in my favs, but I like studying together a lot since the main character is the girl.
https://www.fakku.net/viewmanga.php?id=1144
Ouran stuff is usually good since it's a shoujo series
https://www.fakku.net/viewmanga.php?id=2657
Same goes for these ones of Kaichou wa Maid-sama!:
https://www.fakku.net/viewmanga.php?id=4376
https://www.fakku.net/viewmanga.php?id=4285
And hanjuku yoshi is horribly girly but a yuri doujin:
https://www.fakku.net/viewmanga.php?id=3511
Thanks ! I'm gonna go check these all out right now !
You bring up a fascinating point about Yaoi. I never for the life of me could figure why I was turned on by two guys going at it. I just realize it's BECAUSE I get to look at their explicit expressions, reactions etc etc. We're deprived of that in the rest of the Hentai world :(
Laggi wrote...
Strawberry Girl wrote...
Cum feels nice.By this, do you mean it feels nice to have cum inside you, or on your skin?
I've asked questions from various people about how it feels when someone cums inside of you. Most just say it feels a bit warm, some said that you don't really feel it at all.
Do tell please, I'm curious.
Both feel great.
Hmm, well I guess in order for this to make sense, you have to really love cum. And be a pervert. Alot of this is mental.
On getting cum inside, you're right that it feels warm. And tingly. You can even at times feels the spurts if he comes hard enough, which is a turn on. I think emotionally it just sets off the right " Nyaahh, you're cumming inside me so much!! " vibe that it feels orgasmic. Ive grown up to hentai, so this feeling makes perfect sense to me ( I don't know why )
If he goes by way of pearl necklace, you get tangible proof of his pleasure on your skin... Very erotic. Not to mention, you get to clean up :)
Oh - and you cant experience a cream pie with a condom ! There's just no comparison for me.
Does anyone know of any hentai on FAKKU, that seems a little more geared towards girls too ? I mean the full page breast shots and blush/dazed facial reactions from the girl are inevitable - But I'm wondering if there's any that shows the guy and how he feels too (more than usual,anyway).
Sorry if I'm still vague with my description ! I'm at a loss on how to describe it :P
Or if not, what fav. manga gets you going ?
Sorry if I'm still vague with my description ! I'm at a loss on how to describe it :P
Or if not, what fav. manga gets you going ?