Coconutt wrote...
This doesn't make any sense, the grammar is bad, and everything you said is pretty hypothetical, it might work i guess, but to say it will work or that it is "
the real deal", bullshit!
Basically he's saying to keep open ears and eyes within your surroundings. It's good general life advice, but I don't know about it being the key to attracting women.
An example that comes to mind is when you are dating someone and your friends bash your girlfriend for whatever reason. You shouldn't be closed minded and dump her because of your friends. You should look at things from every angle, give it some thought, talk to some people if you feel it will give you a better perspective about the situation, then come to your own conclusion.
I know I am not the best at doing such things since my mouth opens before I have a chance to think lol. I can also suck at social interactions and reading the situation, but even so I am who I am and I found a good guy just by doing that alone.
To attract women you basically just need to be yourself, be the best you yourself can be, and don't loose hope.
A lot of women just want a guy who can be happy, is nice (opens doors, isn't afraid to show they care, can be thoughtful, put the toilet seat down, etc), takes care of himself, and has ambition (this doesn't have to be big mind you, just wanting to make a living is good enough). We also want to see guys who can be themselves, because when you try to fake who you are for someone then it probably won't turn out that great. Lastly you just have to have a little faith that you will eventually meet someone who you can care for and vise versa. This doesn't come along in a day, a month, or can even take years, but you have to keep trying to get anywhere. When you give up, that's when your chances of getting with someone drops significantly. Nothing is 100% set in stone.
To add to the OP's advice, please be careful with how you use this social tactic. If you make it obvious that you are surveying your surroundings and are open about how aware you are of the things going on you just look cocky.