Alone, and loveless.

Alone that’s what I am, as I wander these streets full of couples. It makes me sick, why are they so happy? Why can’t I feel this way? Why can’t I find someone? Its questions like these that I ponder. I know the answer; the answer is always the same. I’m too shy to actually ask someone out. Every time I get close to it I shy away, from saying those simple words. Welcome to my world.

Social interaction between me and girls is fine; I’m a goofball around them, as I am around everyone. I’m perfectly comfortable around them, but then I have this nagging longing to ask someone out, yet I cannot do it. It seems so simple to say something like; “Hey want to go see a movie with me on Saturday?” Yes it all seems so simple, but when I’m daunted with it I just freeze up.

I don’t know how many times I’ve lost my chance of ever having a relationship because I could not ask them out. Well actually I do, it has been 4 times. One of them has a child, another is engaged, the third married, and the forth is happily in a relationship. Am I cursed to remain single for the rest of my life?

There are plenty of ways I could go about this, but I’m not that pathetic to go cruising MySpace looking for local singles. No that would be just pathetic. I just need to bite the bullet and ask someone out. How hard can it be? Don’t answer that, I don’t want to know what your answer is.

There is really no point to this I’m just rambling on trying to put my feelings into words.

https://www.fakku.net/viewforum.php?f=74

This is more of an rambling than asking for relationship advice.

Well I guess you can just try talking to them. Thing is if your uncomfortable she will be too. Just gotta be confident and basically treat her like everyone else. But there will be someone, just gotta fish them out 8)

Maybe you can join a club of your interest. I have a friend who met a girl at an anime convention about a month ago. They were both cosplaying as .//hack, and after that they continued to exchange text messages.

even if this doesn't belong in the relationship forum this does feel a tad bit too serious for IB, I was expecting some April fools stuff or something about a hat.

I do feel like you do at times, though i don't have any issue asking girls out and I also have the ability to attract girls randomly who are interested in me; it's just never the girls I want. There really isn't a solution other than to just get over it... I know it's cliche, so much so that I hate hearing it as well. Good luck with your problem.

Okay time for some clear up. I do believe this was an alcohol induced moment of philosophical self realization and depression. When I drink three things can happen.

1. Feel Good Mode - I drink just enough to get buzzed

2. The Thinker Mode - Just a step above buzzed, I start to think about random things, and then start to go into a moment of self realization, where I become depressed.(this seems to be the most likely case)

3. Shit Housed - I don't remember what I did, or vaguely remember the night. Chances are I will find some random Match book from a Strip Club, or wake up with a hangover and the taste of vomit in my mouth. Then find out that I started calling people I know at random and told them I loved them.

Frog'd. :o

Here's what to do to get a women. Study the girl you want from a far making sure she dosn't see you. Find out things what she likes who her friends are. When she's alone and at her weakest. Then go buy some cloroform and rope duck tape works too. While shes at her weakest kock her out and tie her up. Take her to your house and there you go girlfriend. Your welcome by the way. :wink:

treat her like u treat evrywun else, don't think u're gonna go with agirl, just hink u just go with some male friend :D