Can you help me if this ever does happen to me

Fellow gamers,fellow anime fans and fellow manga fans like myself this question is mainly about anime,manga and gaming and this question is for mainly the guys and women/girls you are always welcome to chip in too if you don't mind reading this question about a small situation about this and I'm only asking ahead of time if this ever does happen to me at all thanks.

So please bear with me and please don't be jerks/assholes about it unless you're joking of course and no i don't know am i only guy who experience this or at least worry about it if it happens to me and some people of www.otakucenter.com are being such jerks/assholes about it and/or don't understand the question or i think i put it wrong section.

First let me to explain why I'm asking this. Some of my favorite anime,manga and game characters of both male and female characters is either younger then me,same age as me or older then me due to me being 26 and secondly if you ever like a example any of my favorite characters that's younger then me then look at Yuffie Kiaragi from Final Fantasy series or Rita Mordio from Tales of series anyway a small thing I'm worry about is whenever i watch any anime or read manga and don't worry I will throw in whenever i play games and read doujinshi too as well if you want me to.

Well I'm a little worry about is well what if i ever get a boner i know it's a little embarrassing to some of us guys or at least to me it is whenever that happen to us such as shower scenes,when you see a anime girl's panties, ecchi momemts of your favorite series/or any series,nude scenes etc. etc. well my question is this if i ever do get a boner because of any of my favorite female anime characters,female manga characters and female game characters how to stop myself from getting a boner/how to prevent myself from getting a boner if i ever do get one?

And yes i admit as well I'm also a little worry if i offended the actresses if any of of the actresses is any of my favorite actresses is any of my all time favorite actresses and same thing with foreign actresses and i don't want to offend her and if you think i should apologize to her for it then i gladly will apologize to her for it if you don't mind can you answer this question i admit I'm a bit of nervous if it happens to me so i thought of asking you guys for advices about this well a small situation ahead of time if it ever does happen to me i do apologize for this question if it seems dumb and i apologize for a long read :).

thanks for your help,thanks for your understanding and thanks for reading don't worry I'll fix it or update this question if you want just ask thanks again everyone take care and if I'm only straight guy who feels this way i understand and rest assured I'm not crazy and I'm not a perverted bastard and MOD if wrong section please fix it and if this must be deleted please tell me thanks :).

Wow. Just wow.

You do realise everyone here jacks off to anime/manga characters, right? There's nothing to feel bad about by simply getting a boner over ecchi scenes, that's the entire point of them: for you to get turned on.

Also, would be nice for us readers if you used some commas here and there.

True true and yes i do already know plus but however if i did have someone she'll properly gets jealous like most girls and most women if not some do and lol i bet she might be like and might act like saki from genshiken and complains about it to my friends and/or club mates if i ever do join a anime club and whenever and when and if i put myself out there dating again i don't know how she'll react to it if she sees it or saw my collection since i love other gaming,anime and manga besides hentai of course :).

Never really understood why women and men get upset when their partner getting aroused by a sexy/hot character . It's not like you are going to fuck them and ignore your partner (if you did, then you got legitimate cause for an argument). Honestly you can't help getting aroused by hot women in anime/videogames/social media. Do you think all fan girls/guys stay single because of their devotion to a character or person??

OT: doesn't really bother me all that much. If I like a character and it turns me on I just do my business or fantasize about said character (usually in a fanfic of some kind). Some of them are women and most of them are men. My boyfriend doesn't mind it as he does the same thing. At the end of the day we love one another and only have eyes for each other.

Getting jealous over a fantasy person is just the other person's insecurities popping up and you either work it out together, limit yourself, or if the person is that hung up on the subject then maybe find another more open person. I couldn't personally be with someone who felt like my fantasies were wrong; I can't help them and I would potentially swoon over seeing one of my favorite actors in person, but am loyal enough and devoted to my number one man.

Also don't feel ashamed by it, a lot of voice actors and regular actors know that their fans masturbate to them so your not really freaking them out that much. Just do your business when it happens.

Thanks for your response and i am just a normal American white male fan and yes I'm also talking about I'm a normal male fan of foreign actresses too as well and 2 of my favorite foreign actresses i proudly say to give examples are Lucy Liu and Ziyi Zhang and if i ever get a chance to meet any of my favorite actresses and any of my favorite foreign actresses.

I might not know what to say to her i get a bit nervous you know my mind might or might not go blank like should i give her a compliment or does she like having a compliment even from her fans that's just examples of how i get a little nervous around her even when she's famous and even when and if she's way out of my league :).

I think someone mentioned this on here to you, but your grammar is a bit off. Should use more periods and comma's.

Anyways, just figure it out then on the whole "what should I do if I meet her?". Remember the "if" so sense in worrying about it now. I don't really put famous people on a pedestal since they're human like the rest of us and aren't perfect. I've meet a couple of celebrities randomly and some are jerks and other's are pretty friendly.

Thanks for replying and don't worry I'm still getting better at it and sorry if any of my posts messed up :)

I also noticed you pretty much made 3 or 4 topics all relating to the same general question of "what do I do with my nerdy shit and how do I talk about nerdy things to people?"

Instead of making a bunch long winded posts, just make one post and put it in a section such the the Love, Life and Relationship section or in the section you put this question in currently. I would also simplify how you word the questions because we're not gonna rip you apart for something like this, people just respond how they are gonna respond so just take whatever comes your way with a grain of salt.