♥♥Fakku Girls club♥♥ (girly boys also welcome)
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Rise-chan wrote...
Lol. I was called girly from when I was little, everyone used to bully me that, "Hey you have long hair, are you a girl~?" or "Why do you have long nails, are you a girl~?"And I think, "THAT'S BECAUSE I LIKE IT THAT WAY, GTFO", but I could say anything, was too much of a coward as a child.
thats exactly that way. people expect you to act by a set of ways depending on your sex. easy examples being why girls cant sit with her legs spread, that ridicule one that says boys need to watch the way they walk or use the hands or why girls shouldnt curse.
but then... some of those things come naturally. like sitting or walking or even moving your hands. people dont have anything better to do so they got to put their eyes on how other people act.
i guess that is how etiquette was created.
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
All I got from this is... just wing it. Don't bother with them labels. ._.
Or is winging the hell outta everything 'manly' too now?
Or is winging the hell outta everything 'manly' too now?
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no its not, its just human.
once i get out here, ill be more free to be myself, so yeah, things will go smooth. but right now, in the country i am living, its better to keep a low profile.
its just another year anyways.
once i get out here, ill be more free to be myself, so yeah, things will go smooth. but right now, in the country i am living, its better to keep a low profile.
its just another year anyways.
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sometimes religion only makes things worse to some people. im lucky that i dont have this problem, but a friend of mine, she likes other girls, likes simple clothes so everyone says she dresses as a boy, but she gets awesome on those outfits.
shes islamic, wich causes her lots of problems, once, she passed a week with me hiding from her parents.
shes islamic, wich causes her lots of problems, once, she passed a week with me hiding from her parents.
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Cinia Pacifica
Ojou-sama Writer
Shiokazu wrote...
Rise-chan wrote...
Lol. I was called girly from when I was little, everyone used to bully me that, "Hey you have long hair, are you a girl~?" or "Why do you have long nails, are you a girl~?"And I think, "THAT'S BECAUSE I LIKE IT THAT WAY, GTFO", but I couldn't (fixed) say anything, was too much of a coward as a child.
thats exactly that way. people expect you to act by a set of ways depending on your sex. easy examples being why girls cant sit with her legs spread, that ridicule one that says boys need to watch the way they walk or use the hands or why girls shouldnt curse.
Yeah, there are always people who got nothing good to do, so they just sit and wait until they get someone to make fun of, or to mess with someone. Or just bug someone who is usually bullied (probably by themselves lol).
Shiokazu wrote...
sometimes religion only makes things worse to some people. im lucky that i dont have this problem, but a friend of mine, she likes other girls, likes simple clothes so everyone says she dresses as a boy, but she gets awesome on those outfits. shes islamic, wich causes her lots of problems, once, she passed a week with me hiding from her parents.
I feel for her, I know such Islamic rules, as I'm also of the same religion. You can't wear revealing cloths, and the concept of "revealing" can make one cry on this generation.
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
Shiokazu wrote...
sometimes religion only makes things worse to some people.2 words too long. ;3
Lolol, I live with an islamic family too, i can identify.
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Cinia Pacifica
Ojou-sama Writer
But honestly, the older days were apparently harder, my mom once said she wasn't allowed to wear jewellery/earrings or anything outside, and any fancy cloths as well. And her mother was always with her, not letting her look at any man (whether or not she wanted to look). And that went on until her marriage.
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religion, it has its good points, yet, it has its bad points. more bad points than good.
its nice when it gives hopes, and soothes people's worries, but then, it can hurt, oppress, time for strict religion ended about a century ago. nowdays it shouldnt be able to rule people's lifes.
... its kind of a boring topic, isnt it?
its nice when it gives hopes, and soothes people's worries, but then, it can hurt, oppress, time for strict religion ended about a century ago. nowdays it shouldnt be able to rule people's lifes.
... its kind of a boring topic, isnt it?
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Cinia Pacifica
Ojou-sama Writer
More like an icky topic, that sets people to fighting with each other, we should just stop with the boring topic.
You girlz should start girl-talking~
xDD
You girlz should start girl-talking~
xDD
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mmm..its not boring if u have interesting things to say about it~! D: Or are well informed...like you guys have personal experience~ Im just catholic. I has no stories! Except our priest keep humping boys! ((xDDD my family haven't been keeping up with the religion recently~^^;;))
@Rise girl talking...My boobies grew a millimeter!
@Rise girl talking...My boobies grew a millimeter!
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I don't think my boobies grew since last year.
@shiokazu: Maybe you should try to confront some people about it anyway. It's better to start acting how you want now than to stick with being restricted for the rest of your life. I think it would be for the best to come out for it. I'm sure not all sorts of people will approve of it, but that's why you should tell people that you can trust and you know will accept it.
That's just my advice. There's guys who get a sex change like when they are 25 or something and most of times it's a little late.
@shiokazu: Maybe you should try to confront some people about it anyway. It's better to start acting how you want now than to stick with being restricted for the rest of your life. I think it would be for the best to come out for it. I'm sure not all sorts of people will approve of it, but that's why you should tell people that you can trust and you know will accept it.
That's just my advice. There's guys who get a sex change like when they are 25 or something and most of times it's a little late.
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Haburi-Chan wrote...
I don't think my boobies grew since last year. @shiokazu: Maybe you should try to confront some people about it anyway. It's better to start acting how you want now than to stick with being restricted for the rest of your life. I think it would be for the best to come out for it. I'm sure not all sorts of people will approve of it, but that's why you should tell people that you can trust and you know will accept it.
That's just my advice. There's guys who get a sex change like when they are 25 or something and most of times it's a little late.
thats not a bad idea, i just want to not buy any conflict with my parents right now. i need a clean profile so i can get to venice and cut bounds with everyone. then, it will be just me and my gondola training until the right day.
im not really the type to hold back, i just hate buying unnecessary fights, i mean, i'll be leaving and leaving them behind to oblivion anyway. so, yeah, let it be for a while. the patch is already sealed, i only need to be legally adult.
its funny, but i have a girlfriend, she knows im girly, and sometimes, she even says. " i wonder who is the male here. ", so yeah, friends used to think i was gay, but lately, " nah, salt is just girly, too girly, but its just salt. ".
if i were to be a girl i would probably be lesbian so... well, yeah.
ah, if someone ends up in venice on the next 5 years, look out for a gondolier with a long ponytail. ill make the fee free.
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Haburi-Chan wrote...
I don't think my boobies grew since last year. As if they'd grow constantly each years anyway.....
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Shiokazu wrote...
Haburi-Chan wrote...
I don't think my boobies grew since last year. @shiokazu: Maybe you should try to confront some people about it anyway. It's better to start acting how you want now than to stick with being restricted for the rest of your life. I think it would be for the best to come out for it. I'm sure not all sorts of people will approve of it, but that's why you should tell people that you can trust and you know will accept it.
That's just my advice. There's guys who get a sex change like when they are 25 or something and most of times it's a little late.
thats not a bad idea, i just want to not buy any conflict with my parents right now. i need a clean profile so i can get to venice and cut bounds with everyone. then, it will be just me and my gondola training until the right day.
im not really the type to hold back, i just hate buying unnecessary fights, i mean, i'll be leaving and leaving them behind to oblivion anyway. so, yeah, let it be for a while. the patch is already sealed, i only need to be legally adult.
its funny, but i have a girlfriend, she knows im girly, and sometimes, she even says. " i wonder who is the male here. ", so yeah, friends used to think i was gay, but lately, " nah, salt is just girly, too girly, but its just salt. ".
if i were to be a girl i would probably be lesbian so... well, yeah.
ah, if someone ends up in venice on the next 5 years, look out for a gondolier with a long ponytail. ill make the fee free.
If you are gonna tell somebody first, then tell her. I'm sure she won't split from you because of it.
@Lucia: I know. ;_;
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Haburi-Chan wrote...
Shiokazu wrote...
Haburi-Chan wrote...
I don't think my boobies grew since last year. @shiokazu: Maybe you should try to confront some people about it anyway. It's better to start acting how you want now than to stick with being restricted for the rest of your life. I think it would be for the best to come out for it. I'm sure not all sorts of people will approve of it, but that's why you should tell people that you can trust and you know will accept it.
That's just my advice. There's guys who get a sex change like when they are 25 or something and most of times it's a little late.
thats not a bad idea, i just want to not buy any conflict with my parents right now. i need a clean profile so i can get to venice and cut bounds with everyone. then, it will be just me and my gondola training until the right day.
im not really the type to hold back, i just hate buying unnecessary fights, i mean, i'll be leaving and leaving them behind to oblivion anyway. so, yeah, let it be for a while. the patch is already sealed, i only need to be legally adult.
its funny, but i have a girlfriend, she knows im girly, and sometimes, she even says. " i wonder who is the male here. ", so yeah, friends used to think i was gay, but lately, " nah, salt is just girly, too girly, but its just salt. ".
if i were to be a girl i would probably be lesbian so... well, yeah.
ah, if someone ends up in venice on the next 5 years, look out for a gondolier with a long ponytail. ill make the fee free.
If you are gonna tell somebody first, then tell her. I'm sure she won't split from you because of it.
@Lucia: I know. ;_;
i did, today, she laughed, and then teased me, and then she got sticky and all that love things... i think she is ok with it.
