♥♥Fakku Girls club♥♥ (girly boys also welcome)
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Well I was thinking more of tommy and tammy so tomtom and tamtam hohoho.
Lucky I dont/wont have kids... theyd probably curse me for the names I wouldve given them
Lucky I dont/wont have kids... theyd probably curse me for the names I wouldve given them
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God, I finally got through the thread and she leaves. Congratulations on her twins! I've always wanted to name a girl Jack. But I'm never going to have children, so that doesn't matter.
Hello, Fakkuza!
Hello, Fakkuza!
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
J.D. wrote...
But I'm never going to have children, so that doesn't matter.Hello, Fakkuza!
Explain, and hello.
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Ive been bugged by my mom to ahve children for so long, she doesnt even care with whom just as long as I would have some. Sometimes I tell her to adopt but she wants me to have my own...
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Hey, there, everyone! Ash, C-Honey, and Mibuchiha!
Hello, Fakkuza!
Explain, and hello.
I can't hold myself with the responsibility of rearing a child. I'd be a terrible mom. The emotional commitment is probably too great for me.
mibuchiha wrote...
J.D. wrote...
But I'm never going to have children, so that doesn't matter.Hello, Fakkuza!
Explain, and hello.
I can't hold myself with the responsibility of rearing a child. I'd be a terrible mom. The emotional commitment is probably too great for me.
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Nashrakh
Little White Butterflies Staff
ashcrimson wrote...
Ive been bugged by my mom to ahve children for so long, she doesnt even care with whom just as long as I would have some. Sometimes I tell her to adopt but she wants me to have my own...I hear that from a lot of people our age... I wonder why mothers are so stingy about it?
Thank goodness my other brothers already have kids so I don't feel the same pressure, hehe...
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I have to sleep now its getting late and my eyes hurt boohooo
Have fun everyone.
ADD:
Nash, my mom said its the sole reason of having someone to take care of me when I get really old... thats ALL.
Have fun everyone.
ADD:
Nash, my mom said its the sole reason of having someone to take care of me when I get really old... thats ALL.
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J.D. wrote...
Hey, there, everyone! Ash, C-Honey, and Mibuchiha!mibuchiha wrote...
J.D. wrote...
But I'm never going to have children, so that doesn't matter.Hello, Fakkuza!
Explain, and hello.
I can't hold myself with the responsibility of rearing a child. I'd be a terrible mom. The emotional commitment is probably too great for me.
It can be and it isn't an easy job. Granted, if you are steadfast in making up your mind to raise a child, I'm certain anyone can be a great parent.
Seeya, Ash.
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CreampieHoney wrote...
It can be and it isn't an easy job. Granted, if you are steadfast in making up your mind to raise a child, I'm certain anyone can be a great parent.Anyone? Pfft, fuck that, only the tough can really do it. This is why I really admire you. You're so carefree and fun to be around but you're getting shit done, school, etc. I also dread having a child who would be exactly how I was when I was small. That would drive me up the wall. I'd prolly backhand him/her and get put in jail.
edit: Penelope, you and I don't really belong here. We're too manly. But I'd let you in because you are hot and I would bang you with a cucumber.
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Morning to those that just got up and goodnight to those just fell asleep!
@Orangie I think nobody was born good at raising, I am sure if you put your heart to it and give them all the love and commitment you can they will grow up to be really nice children! Dont let the fear stop you from wanting babies!
I rememebered when my cousin was pregnant, she and her husband studied those baby books like crazy and tried to ask around for advice, but when the baby was born she was sitll having great difficulty breast feeding and stopping the baby from crying. Whenever my cousins mum carries the baby it doesnt cry, but all that comes from years of experience and raising my cousin and her sister. The baby 1 and a half years old and my cousin and her husband treats them well and she is a very happy chap!._.*doesnt belong here too*
@Orangie I think nobody was born good at raising, I am sure if you put your heart to it and give them all the love and commitment you can they will grow up to be really nice children! Dont let the fear stop you from wanting babies!
I rememebered when my cousin was pregnant, she and her husband studied those baby books like crazy and tried to ask around for advice, but when the baby was born she was sitll having great difficulty breast feeding and stopping the baby from crying. Whenever my cousins mum carries the baby it doesnt cry, but all that comes from years of experience and raising my cousin and her sister. The baby 1 and a half years old and my cousin and her husband treats them well and she is a very happy chap!._.*doesnt belong here too*
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Sorata wrote...
Morning to those that just got up and goodnight to those just fell asleep!@Orangie I think nobody was born good at raising, I am sure if you put your heart to it and give them all the love and commitment you can they will grow up to be relaly nice children! Dont let the fear stop you from wanting babies!
I rememebered when my cousin was pregnant, she and her husband studied those baby books like crazy and tried to ask aorund for advice, but when the baby was born she was sitll having great difficulty breast feeding and stopping the baby from crying. Whenever my cousins mum carries the baby it doesnt cry, but all that comes from years of experience and raising my cousin and her sister. The baby 1 and a half years old and my cousin and her husband treats them well and she is a very happy chap!._.*doesnt belong here too*
Ohhh, I shudder. That's another thing. I held my newborn cousin, and she would not stop crying, and my other cousin, two years old than me, held her and she was laughing within a few minutes. Scares the shit out of me to think that my own kid and I wouldn't have that chemistry. Some people just around close to their parents and it's no one's fault - I really think there's a chemical balance or reaction or something that holds people together (among other things).
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J.D. wrote...
CreampieHoney wrote...
It can be and it isn't an easy job. Granted, if you are steadfast in making up your mind to raise a child, I'm certain anyone can be a great parent.Anyone? Pfft, fuck that, only the tough can really do it. This is why I really admire you. You're so carefree and fun to be around but you're getting shit done, school, etc. I also dread having a child who would be exactly how I was when I was small. That would drive me up the wall. I'd prolly backhand him/her and get put in jail.
edit: Penelope, you and I don't really belong here. We're too manly. But I'd let you in because you are hot and I would bang you with a cucumber.
LOL, zany statements as always, JD.
Thank you, for the boost of confidence. We have to assert our manly ways anyways. I'm both Daddy and Mommy at home. I'm a no nonsense kinda guy when getting my ADHD/LD/GDD boy to execute tasks. I'm just glad that I'm in Asia where punishment is our God-given right (I'm not talking about abusing a child, here). Here's my view on things. Children will be children and they will test and push boundaries. Being firm and exercising your parental right is constructive in developing the child holistically.
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@Orangie I still believe once you have enough time to spend with your baby (that is waking up, changing nappies, feeding time, cuddles and holding, baby walks, some fresh air, putting to sleep, waking up at night tocheck on baby, stop baby crying and cuddling it to sleep again) all those things will add up and add to the babies experience in life. He will find it the routine and norm for how his day should be, and get used to your touch and way . I am sure you will be able to adjust over time too and maybe the shudder will be gone. Dont forget the baby is constantly growing and adjusting to you as well! Just holding babies for a few moments sometimes isnt the best indication since we all know how tempermental babies are!
I am still sure you will make a great mum though since I can see that you put a lot of care in everything you do^_^
@Cream thats the type of environment I grew up on, when I did something wrong I used to have to hold my ears in the corner of the room, and if I did something really bad I would get hit with one of those broom sticks (like fetaher dusters) I never once hated my parents for it, I was more scared of doing something wrong and the consequence. With that mindset, I stopped doing a lot of the bad things...like bashing peoiple on the head in music class with my recorder and stealing money to buy basketball cards...
I am still sure you will make a great mum though since I can see that you put a lot of care in everything you do^_^
@Cream thats the type of environment I grew up on, when I did something wrong I used to have to hold my ears in the corner of the room, and if I did something really bad I would get hit with one of those broom sticks (like fetaher dusters) I never once hated my parents for it, I was more scared of doing something wrong and the consequence. With that mindset, I stopped doing a lot of the bad things...like bashing peoiple on the head in music class with my recorder and stealing money to buy basketball cards...