~Fakku Girls Club v4~
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DatYuriThough
Goddess of Nature
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Glad you chimed in actually, a few days ago I saw her write something about me that made me feel uneasy. I dunno what to do about it.Spy: Just bring it up with her. She won't get mad, she's incapable of anger. Unless she's stuck on a mission of Halo, then she tends to swear a lot...and I mean A LOT.
Just for reference, what did she say? Feel free to keep that to yourself but I like to be helpful.
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crazr wrote...
I'll admit that it's probably my fault. I told her I keep eating up the time that you talk to her, but she says it's just coincidence. Honestly, I think she's just a nervous girl. She does have anxiety problems and all. I realized like you said, I usually start the conversation. I think you just need to start the conversation. Dr., if I'm the cause of your problems, feel free to tell me. I won't be offended and I'll back off with respect.
I haven't blamed anyone for anything.
You did make me jealous because for 3 days I've just watched you both chatting, but I don't blame you for taking her time.
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Dr Shaneman wrote...
crazr wrote...
I'll admit that it's probably my fault. I told her I keep eating up the time that you talk to her, but she says it's just coincidence. Honestly, I think she's just a nervous girl. She does have anxiety problems and all. I realized like you said, I usually start the conversation. I think you just need to start the conversation. Dr., if I'm the cause of your problems, feel free to tell me. I won't be offended and I'll back off with respect.
I haven't blamed anyone for anything.
Hey, I just felt that maybe you were upset with me since I've been talking to her an awful lot. I don't want any discontent between us, I came to make friends and peace, after all. With how busy my life's been these past few years, a eight month vacation has left me with the want to talk to people.
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DatYuriThough wrote...
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Glad you chimed in actually, a few days ago I saw her write something about me that made me feel uneasy. I dunno what to do about it.Spy: Just bring it up with her. She won't get mad, she's incapable of anger. Unless she's stuck on a mission of Halo, then she tends to swear a lot...and I mean A LOT.
Just for reference, what did she say? Feel free to keep that to yourself but I like to be helpful.
Here.
https://www.fakku.net/forums/posts/4455628#4455628
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DatYuriThough
Goddess of Nature
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Here.
https://www.fakku.net/forums/posts/4455628#4455628
Okay, I see. Are you uncertain about her saying you didn't want to talk to her? Because if so, that's just her anxiety acting up making her think things that aren't necessarily true. I'm sure she didn't mean anything upsetting by it, plus she was being run ragged that day. I'm sure her mind wasn't in the right place and there was more to her statement than just that.
Just talk to her if you have a problem with it, she didn't mean to hurt you or anything.
Unless I'm completely off base here, in which case correct me lol
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DatYuriThough wrote...
Okay, I see. Are you uncertain about her saying you didn't want to talk to her? Because if so, that's just her anxiety acting up making her think things that aren't necessarily true. I'm sure she didn't mean anything upsetting by it, plus she was being run ragged that day. I'm sure her mind wasn't in the right place and there was more to her statement than just that. Just talk to her if you have a problem with it, she didn't mean to hurt you or anything.
Unless I'm completely off base here, in which case correct me lol
I was worried I was upsetting her, rather than her upsetting me.
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DatYuriThough wrote...
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Here.
https://www.fakku.net/forums/posts/4455628#4455628
Okay, I see. Are you uncertain about her saying you didn't want to talk to her? Because if so, that's just her anxiety acting up making her think things that aren't necessarily true. I'm sure she didn't mean anything upsetting by it, plus she was being run ragged that day. I'm sure her mind wasn't in the right place and there was more to her statement than just that.
Just talk to her if you have a problem with it, she didn't mean to hurt you or anything.
Unless I'm completely off base here, in which case correct me lol
I talked to her that day. She was very polite and collected. She was actually wondering why the Dr. hadn't talked to her recently. You're not off base.
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DatYuriThough
Goddess of Nature
Dr Shaneman wrote...
I was worried I was upsetting her, rather than her upsetting me.
Spy: Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh. A classic case of a lack of dialogue. No, you see, I talked to her last night and she said she was worried she had upset you. Combine that with her anxiety and that leads to Dee shutting herself up and hoping the situation would fix itself without her intervention. She was in no way upset by you, if anything that post shows how much she likes you since she called you a good friend. You haven't upset her at all. Don't worry.
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DatYuriThough
Goddess of Nature
Dr Shaneman wrote...
I promise I'll talk to her when she gets back then.I feel bad now.
Probably Wednesday at the earliest, thought it might be Friday she gets back. Although I could bring in her laptop for her by tomorrow evening when I go see her.
Don't be, we all make mistakes. I think I'll go prepare for my day off tomorrow, sort out snacks for Dee~
Lovely speaking to Dee's friends. It's been nice ^^
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DatYuriThough wrote...
Probably Wednesday at the earliest, thought it might be Friday she gets back. Although I could bring in her laptop for her by tomorrow evening when I go see her.Don't be, we all make mistakes. I think I'll go prepare for my day off tomorrow, sort out snacks for Dee~
Lovely speaking to Dee's friends. It's been nice ^^
Thanks Spy.
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So much trouble over one girl... I'm just glad the Dr.'s finally going to talk to Yuri-Sama again.
@Sneaky: Anyway, weren't we going on about Destiny or Titanfall or something? Also, what do you think are good movies? I've seen plenty, but I can't make up my mind...
@Sneaky: Anyway, weren't we going on about Destiny or Titanfall or something? Also, what do you think are good movies? I've seen plenty, but I can't make up my mind...
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SneeakyAsian
CTFG Vanguard
crazr wrote...
So much trouble over one girl... I'm just glad the Dr.'s finally going to talk to Yuri-Sama again.@Sneaky: Anyway, weren't we going on about Destiny or Titanfall or something? Also, what do you think are good movies? I've seen plenty, but I can't make up my mind...
Well I was saying that Titanfall has free DLC and is fun if you choose to challenge yourself. Since all the mediocre players left, it's decent enough. I'm playing destiny right now, out of boredom and cause I finished school last week.
It depends on the genre really
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crazr wrote...
So much trouble over one girl... I'm just glad the Dr.'s finally going to talk to Yuri-Sama again.Sorry?
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SneeakyAsian
CTFG Vanguard
Point being Shane that you ought to stop worrying that a friend will turn against you, that doesn't happen, and if so, with one in a trillion chance
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SneeakyAsian wrote...
Well I was saying that Titanfall has free DLC and is fun if you choose to challenge yourself. Since all the mediocre players left, it's decent enough. I'm playing destiny right now, out of boredom and cause I finished school last week.
It depends on the genre really
I actually finished Community College last year. I'm waiting to trasnfer into a CSU this fall. I start school again on August 31st. Once I finish, I can finally get my big boy job and move out of my family's house. It'll be tough, but I'll finally be independent! And it only took 24 years of my life! Hah... I'm pathetic lol.
Also, all I've been doing is working, interning, and gaming. I've limited myself to just the weekends because I feel like gaming is taking over my life...
Dr Shaneman wrote...
crazr wrote...
So much trouble over one girl... I'm just glad the Dr.'s finally going to talk to Yuri-Sama again.Sorry?
No, Dr., I'm sorry. I feel at fault since you disappeared when I first started talking to her. You see, when I popped on and joined the club, I was quote-posting everyone in an attempt to make small talk and introduce myself and she happened to just converse with me. I felt happy having someone to talk to. I noticed you stopped popping on and I thought I offended you.
I'm very sorry. Would you like to be my friend? I see you have a love for glasses. My love has glasses so I'm a little partial to them too. Haha.
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SneeakyAsian
CTFG Vanguard
Dr Shaneman wrote...
On F I've had that happen quite a bit though.
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crazr wrote...
No, Dr., I'm sorry. I feel at fault since you disappeared when I first started talking to her. You see, when I popped on and joined the club, I was quote-posting everyone in an attempt to make small talk and introduce myself and she happened to just converse with me. I felt happy having someone to talk to. I noticed you stopped popping on and I thought I offended you. I'm very sorry. Would you like to be my friend? I see you have a love for glasses. My love has glasses so I'm a little partial to them too. Haha.
That'd be nice.
She does? Good good.
SneeakyAsian wrote...
But why keep applying the same principle to different people?It's made me a bit more... reserved generally rather than applying the principle to others.
Off to sleep now.