help! how do you handle this?
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It never happened. don't ever mention it to her or anyone else. block it out completely. and most important of all, DO NOT SAY ANYTHING TO YOUR PARENTS.
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truckcap wrote...
Stuff I want to say but won't really work: Pics or it didn't happen. Make the playing feel even and have her walk in on you jerking it. Buy her a vibrator as a present to be supportive. Make a fakku account for her so she'll have access to this porn and get to talk to us.Dude what the fuck?! are you deranged or something?
truckcap wrote...
Serious things to say: Move on and pretend it didn't happen. If you have a normal, casual activity you 2 do together, offer to do that next time and allow things to appear as if it was the week before. When one gets caught, they just wish no one was thinking about that they got caught so they don't have to think about it. At 10 yrs old, the event should pass pretty fast. Check with your mom to see what parts of the birds and bees have been explained if that route becomes necessary.there we go
to her she needs space but dont ignore her cuz then she might pitty herself and go into self loathing
like i said before >.>
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Its actually no big deal. I've heard of mothers finding their 6 year olds masturbating. Just be calm. Leave it alone for a while, then casually bring it up when its just the two of you. Let her know that's its natural to wonder, but make sure she understands the difference between sex and masturbating. Also be sure to tell her its not a good idea to tell anyone what she did. And please give her the AIDs talk and the HIV one too T^T We want her to stay healthy, and know its normal to feel urges, but not a good idea to follow creepy 40 year old dudes with candy...
I might be too late but.. maybe this will help if it comes again? Good luck.. I really don't envy you, hon. Sorry! <3
I might be too late but.. maybe this will help if it comes again? Good luck.. I really don't envy you, hon. Sorry! <3
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NEXUS
Since 2010
Nora Natsu wrote...
. I walked in to my house to find my 10 year old little sister masturbating in my living room. JESUS CHRIST!! If I was her I would have went into the bathroom, But the living Room?
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NEXUS
Since 2010
edibleghost wrote...
Kill her, eat the body. Never speak of it again.lol you sound like you listen to cannibal corpse.
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Nora Natsu wrote...
im vary close to my sister. Ive been more like a father to her, since my dad is a drug addict and hasn't been around much.I think because of that you should talk to her, and by talk to her, I mean comfort her and tell her it's completely normal.
...ok, I've talked to/heard of a couple people who started masturbating around the age of 10, but it surprises me. I didn't start until I was maybe 14 or so, is something wrong with me?
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SLAYER NEXUS wrote...
Nora Natsu wrote...
. I walked in to my house to find my 10 year old little sister masturbating in my living room. JESUS CHRIST!! If I was her I would have went into the bathroom, But the living Room?
Maybe she gets off on the openness and vulnerability of it all. ;] It feels really naughty and thrilling to be masturbating in an open, semi-public place. The bathroom is safe and enclosed (read: boring).
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Dude just let it be...its perfectly natural don't talk about it unless shes does want talk about it ok don't whorry your self over minor things like this...it may look big but things like this happen all the time.
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Waar
FAKKU Moderator
At some point just be like "it's completely normal" then do what everyone else suggested and act as if nothing happened.
Or just put it in her.
Or just put it in her.
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Waar wrote...
Or just put it in her.I'm surprised this thread hasn't degraded into a loli legalization flamewar, isn't this a situation straight out of a typical lolicon doujinshi?
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Waar wrote...
10 is rather... not hot.Nuff said -3-.... anyway why does this have to turn in to a lolicon flamewar thier no use for that.
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Tofu_Shinobi wrote...
Waar wrote...
10 is rather... not hot.Nuff said -3-.... anyway why does this have to turn in to a lolicon flamewar thier no use for that.
Would you prefer guro/t-rape? That can be arranged quite easily.
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MoneyDRuffy wrote...
Tofu_Shinobi wrote...
Waar wrote...
10 is rather... not hot.Nuff said -3-.... anyway why does this have to turn in to a lolicon flamewar thier no use for that.
Would you prefer guro/t-rape? That can be arranged quite easily.
mmmmmmm....that depends how fast can one be arranged
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Flaser wrote...
You can break the ice by telling her, that next time she should do it where she wouldn't be disturbed. If you ever catch her at it again, just turn around and tell her to call you when she's finished.Chances are she'll be damn embarrassed and probably also mad at you. Still it will be better than being embarrassed and ashamed, so at least she'll be able to talk about it.
...and no you can't masturbate too much. (I know. I tried to when I was a kid).
You don't have to tell her its normal, just act like it's normal. Asking whether someone does it is like asking whether someone is breathing. Everyone does it.
I agree with Flaser except for the part about telling her to call you when she's finished. That would be embarrassing too. Just leave whatever room she's doing it in and apologize for bothering her.
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well so heres what ended up happening
my sis came up to me and said sorry about it i told her its ok and that she shouldn't be apologizing then she asked me why it felt good to touch her self >.< so i explained it as best i could anyways it was a vary vary long conversation but in the end she hugged me and things have gone back to normal lol when i told my girlfriend about everything she laughed at me
this has been one hell of a experience
my sis came up to me and said sorry about it i told her its ok and that she shouldn't be apologizing then she asked me why it felt good to touch her self >.< so i explained it as best i could anyways it was a vary vary long conversation but in the end she hugged me and things have gone back to normal lol when i told my girlfriend about everything she laughed at me
this has been one hell of a experience
