I just can't ignore it.
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devsonfire
3,000,000th Poster
It's related to my earlier thread, this one, that is.
Ignoring the fact that I'm always singled out kinda pissed me off you know, I just, I don't know. If I did something wrong, fine, tell me about what I did. Not just ignore me altogether as if they don't know me.
I hate people when they start beating around the bush. You know, just be frank, and say "I don't wanna hang out with you", then I won't be a bother, hell, I won't even care anymore.
Sorry for my rambling, derail if you wish.
Ignoring the fact that I'm always singled out kinda pissed me off you know, I just, I don't know. If I did something wrong, fine, tell me about what I did. Not just ignore me altogether as if they don't know me.
I hate people when they start beating around the bush. You know, just be frank, and say "I don't wanna hang out with you", then I won't be a bother, hell, I won't even care anymore.
Sorry for my rambling, derail if you wish.
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Waar
FAKKU Moderator
I get how you feel, I'm much more comfortable with people being direct with me. At this point however you've managed to understand how they feel without it; they simply aren't really your friends. Move on and find new ones.
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devsonfire
3,000,000th Poster
Waar wrote...
I get how you feel, I'm much more comfortable with people being direct with me. At this point however you've managed to understand how they feel without it; they simply aren't really your friends. Move on and find new ones.That part I know, moving on and finding new ones isn't really hard either, but the part where they are not being honest makes me wanna drown them in the river, and I don't think I'll feel any regret whatsoever.
And making new friends, cause at Uni we kinda know each other and hang out with everyone regardless who it is, and the chance that I'll be seeing them isn't small, and what I want is to ditch them altogether, just like what they are doing, so yeah.
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
They're secretly City's fan. So they're bitter that we won.
Joking aside, not much you can do about it. If they won't talk they won't, just find chiller people to hang out with.
Joking aside, not much you can do about it. If they won't talk they won't, just find chiller people to hang out with.
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
You don't need friends... continue to watch hentai and fap furiously.
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[size=14]To be honest if all they're doing is ignoring you, they're not worth bothering over. Also just because you see them doesn't mean you have to talk to them or even like them.[/h]
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Waar
FAKKU Moderator
devsonfire wrote...
Waar wrote...
I get how you feel, I'm much more comfortable with people being direct with me. At this point however you've managed to understand how they feel without it; they simply aren't really your friends. Move on and find new ones.That part I know, moving on and finding new ones isn't really hard either, but the part where they are not being honest makes me wanna drown them in the river, and I don't think I'll feel any regret whatsoever.
And making new friends, cause at Uni we kinda know each other and hang out with everyone regardless who it is, and the chance that I'll be seeing them isn't small, and what I want is to ditch them altogether, just like what they are doing, so yeah.
Being bothered by their presence is a loss for you; its best to pretend none of this bothers you. Also in the best case scenario you can reverse this on them if any of them seek to reconnect, just ignore them as well. Can't call it the mature solution but it should make you fell better.
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
I'm sorry, I'm just horrible at planning... I will eventually get up there for drinks :D
But seriously, Might be time to talk to them, or re-evaluate your friendship/ stop asking them to hang out.
But seriously, Might be time to talk to them, or re-evaluate your friendship/ stop asking them to hang out.
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devsonfire
3,000,000th Poster
mibuchiha wrote...
They're secretly City's fan. So they're bitter that we won.Joking aside, not much you can do about it. If they won't talk they won't, just find chiller people to hang out with.
Should sack Mancini and use Mourinho instead.
That's true I guess....
Waar wrote...
Being bothered by their presence is a loss for you; its best to pretend none of this bothers you. Also in the best case scenario you can reverse this on them if any of them seek to reconnect, just ignore them as well. Can't call it the mature solution but it should make you fell better.What they are doing isn't really mature either anyway, I don't think if I ended up doing what youre suggesting would be noticed as being immature.
zeroniv_legend wrote...
I have question. Do you see potential in them?I see them just as friends, but not anymore I guess.
Drifter995 wrote...
I'm sorry, I'm just horrible at planning... I will eventually get up there for drinks :DBut seriously, Might be time to talk to them, or re-evaluate your friendship/ stop asking them to hang out.
Coolio, just make sure you come bro :D
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idmb22
Input Gold Rank Here
I haven't make any friends during my uni years (almost 7). I was bothered at the beginning, but then I saw I was completely fine by myself.
Ironically, when the "so called uni-mates" started having problems with their assessments, they asked for their "friend help" (me). I refused to give them my assessments help them, they said a lot of things a person with just a bit of gray matter will not say at all. I laughed at them and walked away. They got the hookers, yes, but I got my first degree and the possibility of going abroad (I am now) to get the second one.
I haven't heard of them since 4 years and that did not stopped from meeting new people, either good and bad, and keep going.
Ironically, when the "so called uni-mates" started having problems with their assessments, they asked for their "friend help" (me). I refused to give them my assessments help them, they said a lot of things a person with just a bit of gray matter will not say at all. I laughed at them and walked away. They got the hookers, yes, but I got my first degree and the possibility of going abroad (I am now) to get the second one.
I haven't heard of them since 4 years and that did not stopped from meeting new people, either good and bad, and keep going.
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of course they won't just say bluntly "I don't wanna hang out with you."
That would be a real douche thing to say.
That would be a real douche thing to say.
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idmb22
Input Gold Rank Here
kengenerals wrote...
of course they won't just say bluntly "I don't wanna hang out with you."That would be a real douche thing to say.
Actually, there are ways much worse than saying things bluntly that make people really douchebags, such as avoiding certain topics or refusing to answer/explain some decisions that person took "against" you.
Saying things in a bluntly way it is oviously though and hard and some people just can't handle them, but it is not really a bad way of saying anything. Of course, not everyone has the same "charm" when it comes down to this, neither anyone has the same hardiness to hear those harsh and blunt words, but this way you go through them much faster than if it said in a "softer way".
At least, that is my opinion and I can be totally wrong.
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
say what! wrote...
My how low this place has become.Shy or the booty bandit will come.