Decchan's Laboratory
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Eternal Sin wrote...
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Eternal Sin wrote...
Ah...she's...going through some trouble still I think. I think that we're probably not the best people to help her right now considering what the situation may be. I'm not 100% on it, but that's just what I've been able to gather.As it stands, the most we can do is just be there for her and do what we can to help her have fun, she probably won't talk about what's bothering her freely, but for now the best thing anyone can do is just try to pull her out of the rut and give her some fun.
That's what I think anyway.
How can we be here for her when she keeps saying no-one wants her or cares for her?
She's hard headed and puts herself down all the time, force your way in and just make the effort. I've been with her for three years or so and I don't even know the best way to go about it, but I do what I can and try to show her I care. Whether that's getting her to play a game with me or just showing her she's got someone there to support her, I just do whatever I can.
I try to, but I'm finding words difficult.
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Eternal Sin
Nine Tails
Dr Shaneman wrote...
I try to, but I'm finding words difficult.Well it's pretty much about taking her mind off of the problem. On some rare occasions you'll be able to talk about the problem with her and help, but for the most part it's best to just take her mind off it and let her work through it on her own while you support.
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Looky-tan
Got Megane?
Just keep loving Mommy!! Easiest answer ever. No need to think, cause Mommy is Mommy and I love her.
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Looky-tan
Got Megane?
Dr Shaneman wrote...
She doesn't post though.Then we just post about our love for Mommy even more!
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Eternal Sin
Nine Tails
True but Skype is there for a reason. Or PMs, those work too as far as I know. Well....when she responds that is. But just keep trying.
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Eternal Sin wrote...
Aramos wrote...
Eternal Sin wrote...
Aramos wrote...
I could check later not right nowI'm pretty sure I should check it myself ^^"" but uh, thanks?
Aww okay then, i was kinda wondering what fox would taste like..
-licks self-.....uh...you wouldn't like it...?
Not the same.
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Eternal Sin wrote...
True but Skype is there for a reason. Or PMs, those work too as far as I know. Well....when she responds that is. But just keep trying.I do PM her, but they don't last long these days.
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Eternal Sin
Nine Tails
Aramos wrote...
Eternal Sin wrote...
Aramos wrote...
Eternal Sin wrote...
Aramos wrote...
I could check later not right nowI'm pretty sure I should check it myself ^^"" but uh, thanks?
Aww okay then, i was kinda wondering what fox would taste like..
-licks self-.....uh...you wouldn't like it...?
Not the same.
Well, either way, no reason to check ^^"
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Eternal Sin wrote...
True but Skype is there for a reason. Or PMs, those work too as far as I know. Well....when she responds that is. But just keep trying.I do PM her, but they don't last long these days.
If at first you don't succeed try and try again. There's not much you can do outside of continue to try and put forth the effort. It's rare I get her to hold a conversation these days but I keep trying, and that's all I'm able to do but I continue to do it.
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Eternal Sin wrote...
Aramos wrote...
Eternal Sin wrote...
Aramos wrote...
Eternal Sin wrote...
Aramos wrote...
I could check later not right nowI'm pretty sure I should check it myself ^^"" but uh, thanks?
Aww okay then, i was kinda wondering what fox would taste like..
-licks self-.....uh...you wouldn't like it...?
Not the same.
Well, either way, no reason to check ^^"
That reminds me Kyuubi I need to re-add you and Sepias too Skype because my skype got corrupted and I had to reinstall it and I lost everyone.
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Eternal Sin
Nine Tails
Aramos wrote...
That reminds me Kyuubi I need to re-add you and Sepias too Skype because my skype got corrupted and I had to reinstall it and I lost everyone.So need my skype name again then?
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Really running out of things to say.Well if that's the case just say the things that you can, and if you run out of things then just say whatever comes to mind. I'm sure that in any case she'd just appreciate that you take your time to say something at all and try to hang out with her.
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Eternal Sin wrote...
Aramos wrote...
That reminds me Kyuubi I need to re-add you and Sepias too Skype because my skype got corrupted and I had to reinstall it and I lost everyone.So need my skype name again then?
Si, Senor.
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Eternal Sin
Nine Tails
Aramos wrote...
Eternal Sin wrote...
Aramos wrote...
That reminds me Kyuubi I need to re-add you and Sepias too Skype because my skype got corrupted and I had to reinstall it and I lost everyone.So need my skype name again then?
Si, Senor.
Sending a PM
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A post directed at me in Unsaid seems to sum it up.
Just strange how it comes from someone who really hates here.
Just strange how it comes from someone who really hates here.
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Eternal Sin wrote...
Aramos wrote...
Eternal Sin wrote...
Aramos wrote...
That reminds me Kyuubi I need to re-add you and Sepias too Skype because my skype got corrupted and I had to reinstall it and I lost everyone.So need my skype name again then?
Si, Senor.
Sending a PM
Got it, Thanks.
-Pats DR-
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Eternal Sin
Nine Tails
Aramos wrote...
Got it, Thanks.-Pats DR-
Yup no problem, now I just gotta wait to confirm stuff and stuff.
@Shaneman: Wasn't sure if that was aimed at you or at me honestly, but in any case, all you can really do to help Desu out is just put forth an effort and try to interact with her in a positive way. Sorta goes for any sorta friendship or interaction with people.
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Eternal Sin wrote...
Aramos wrote...
Got it, Thanks.-Pats DR-
Yup no problem, now I just gotta wait to confirm stuff and stuff.
@Shaneman: Wasn't sure if that was aimed at you or at me honestly, but in any case, all you can really do to help Desu out is just put forth an effort and try to interact with her in a positive way. Sorta goes for any sorta friendship or interaction with people.
Mkay, just gotta wait for Sepias now.
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Eternal Sin wrote...
@Shaneman: Wasn't sure if that was aimed at you or at me honestly, but in any case, all you can really do to help Desu out is just put forth an effort and try to interact with her in a positive way. Sorta goes for any sorta friendship or interaction with people.Because of who it was I'd say me.
