oneshott wrote...
Absolutely none of the above. If you can't be bothered to call someone you like by their own name most of the time, then rethink that relationship.
On the flip side, nicknames like that are generic, and using them makes me feel like a pig. If I'm gonna call my girlfriend a nickname, it should have some meaning behind it, or it could be a play on names. Such as calling Elizabeth 'LIZard'. So long as they don't get offended by it, it's ok
However, I will comment on the choice of calling someone you like 'love'. Here in America, I think we've started picking it up from hearing it from our friends over in the UK area. I would give it the OK to use in passing comment. (i.e. Hey love, pass me the grater?). But again, I wouldn't use it in normal conversation
I do like the whole 'Hey love, pass the cheese grater' thing, it's so cute, I might try that one day when I actually get a boyfriend, and I'll probs say it in Science or art just to be funny.
I think that these are passing comments things, because I call my friends doll and sweety all the time and they call me chuck and babe and honey and hun etc etc, it's just a thing we do, we just say it. It's how it is.
I prefer the generic comment thingy more to pet naes, actually... I'd so give you a rep but it won't let me XD