The Akaibara Academy (I'm Back!)

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I used to call you mother >:

No, it isn't personal.

So I wake up on Saturday and then I received a question on the other forum I go to that me and Hadou go on.

The Question was...



I knew that the user was referring to Hadou and two other people. So I answer the question according addressing the 3 people.

Before this me and Hadou made a deal,



And this what he means by "No Contact:"



Here was the answer to the Hadou part of the question:

Hadou

I'm answering the question. And I am not way talking or replying to you. Ok with that out of the way. The best way to sum it up is to say I'm cocaine and he's weed. You know what I mean? Like my friend told me, I have a good problem of bouncing off the wall and that more came to light with Hadou. I don't remember specifics very well though. He said I was too obsessive, talk about fighting games too much, think before I post, and etc. Well I fucked those up so Hadou wouldn't talk to me until like weeks later and gave me another shot. I messed up again. He told me that he needs like 1-3 months of me not having contact with before we can even talk to each. I thought that was outrageous and lazy on his part since I'm the one trying to fix things in the friendship. So I ignored that. I got banned again and then I registered at Fakku, upon request of moderator's suggestion. And saw Hadou there as well. So naturally I thought the shit that happens here stays here. But I was wrong and he sent me a PM saying stop replying to him. I went like no and moved on my business. 4 weeks later, Hadou sent me a PM promising to at have contact on here and Fakku if I don't make contact with him at all for the entire of April. I was unenthusiastic at first but Hadou said it was final chance to amend things or else he would never talk to me again. I agreed because I guess one chance is better than no chances at all.

And after my post, this is what Hadou said:



That wasn't apart of the contact or the deal we made and he said I broke it. I have no idea has happened and he refuses to speak to me about it.

I'm off to sleep now guys as its 2am.
Night.

And you're still my son -pokes your nose-

Have a good night, Shanzy~

Good night, Shane.

Instead of putting your personal conflict with Hadou on the forum like this, I think you should be discussing it with him. I obviously can't know what issues you guys had before you came here, but if I had a problem with someone, I would much rather discuss it with them directly than keep bringing it up on the forum in public like this, especially in his own thread. It's just more respectful to keep private matters private and between the involved parties, I think.

As far as him not talking to you, I guess you have to think about what happened and why he would be so upset that far? Did you really do something wrong? Is it a misunderstanding? And then send him a message from there.

And remember, it is useless to push a cart sideways. Sometimes people just aren't meant to be friends and get along. And if that might be the case between you two then so be it and keep it moving. If not, then you will work it out in time.

Privately.

I would love to discuss this in private, Circe. I really would be he refuses to talk to me again. So unless you can convince him, I'm S.O.L. Then I make it public issue because the other person refuses to discuss it privately. It's like that guy yelling in the restaurant, for everyone to hear that his wife is cheating on him.

I don't know why he got so mad or it was misunderstanding. I guess it would hurt to start from there.

I always felt that way it was meant to be sometimes but before everything that has happened, we were good friends and I just don't want to lose that because of me. It was never Omar's fault for all the conflict and everything that has happened. It was my fault. Same thing with another person I know.

If he doesn't want to talk, that's his choice. It doesn't stop you from sending your thoughts to him in a PM.

Putting it in public isn't going to make him want to talk to you any more. It's probably just going to cause him more irritation and make him not want to talk to you even more.

Let him know that you would like to continue the friendship and would like to work things out. If he's not receptive, guess what? You've done all you can so move on.

I guess you're right there.

And there as well.

And there.

Thank you, Circe. Where would I be without you?

Suddenly, I realize I should've been the school guidance counselor here, lol

you can still change jobs.
or add it to your list

My apologies to you all for the drama that happened caused by some unimportant crap from another thread. In future reference if someone tries to cause a scene again, simply ignore it. That's the sole intention of this thread. To have fun, talk with friends and relax and not pay attention to such foolishness.

Impossible. Some people are drawn to drama like flies on poop.



If you were in my Catholic High School then I would go there more often lol.

lol,you should go to sleep if fell tired~

etto...,close up,I mean preferences for the pic,for close up you can crop it so the pic shows a close-up chara~

ufufufu,same as yours~ :3

yup2,majoring in Accounting~ I see I see~
any reason that makes you want to change major?

At the time, it was actually morning... Earlier morning than I was used to. That nap helped.

Oh, then I wanted a genderbent version of a male character (not just trap). More Kirito, Yuuki Rito, or Ragna the Bloodedge. Actively looking for more genderbent Rito already.

That was gonna be a guess of mine, but something in me kept denying it. On that note, I want the full picture now. I need all the Trap Kirito I can get.

I actually am starting to think I like Statistics and want to stay, but regardless, I'd rather keep my options open. Also, my father is bugging me to change majors to something I don't want =/

*reading books in library*

time doesnt matter,as long as it's a free time~

etto..,gender bender,I'll try to look for more pics,but if it's for kirito on GGO,I alredy have all pics on danbooru~

etto you can find it on Danbooru,tag kirito(GGO),sorry cannot upload the pic right now,my net is so slow... T^T

I see,well I think you should follow any kind of subject or lesson which is you like/love to learn,it'll easier to understand rather than force to understand subject you don't like,tho it means you should be able to conviced your parents that you want to stay on that major~

Very true. Had plenty of free time today, too. =)

Oooooh, that's awesome. I need to look some up (though, I only use Zerochan so far).

Awwwwww...

Yeah, exactly. My parents already know from my high school grades that I tend to fail subjects I don't care for. My father's super goddamn stubborn, though. At least my mom's understanding.

[align=justify][color=green][font=verdana]Look at all of this dirty laundry being dried in public.

I like your avi.