Uh...

Holy shit. Dem shoulders.

I have no fucking clue whether this is a muscular trans man, or a really, really beefed-out lady. This is China we're talking about, after all.

It doesn't matter either way though - I don't think I'd like to dick someone who can bench more than I could.

But anyone can dick you, you slutty little trap.

I bet she can grab some guys dick with her vagina and bench press him with it.


Damn...

I wish I was a trap... then people wouldn't think I was ugly lol.

>not wanting to dick her because of insecurity

Lame.

I'm fine with a qt chinese grill who lifts as long as she's not roided up.

Lame as it might be, I wouldn't want a relationship where I can't wear the pants once in a while. With someone like her, I think she'd be wearing the pants 100% of the time.

That's not to say I wouldn't dick her if I was desperate, but then, I would more than likely just find a prostitute that's closer to my tastes and pay for a night.

I think you have a severe misunderstanding of what relationships are supposed to be if you really think that.

I don't think you understand what I'm even saying.

Would you want a relationship where your significant other makes all of the decisions, and you have no say in the matter?

I wouldn't. And although appearances may be deceiving, I think I'd personally be too terrified to defy someone with muscles like hers in any of our relationship decisions.

That's what I'm talking about.

Though, even strictly speaking about having casual sex, I still wouldn't choose her out of a crowd, since muscular people are a turn-off for me, personally.

Probably also because I'm a weak, short chubby man with low self-esteem, I have to be with someone around my level or below in terms of physical strength or else I will feel rather... unsafe.

Whether or not you believe these life decisions of mine are correct or not, in the end, doesn't really matter, since as long as you're happy with your life, and I'm happy with mine, we're all good.

Though, I hate leaving people in the dark with vague details or over-generalizations.

I do tend to generalize quite a bit, you'll have to forgive me for that.

In the case that you already understood that this is what I meant, then feel free to disregard me, as you're entitled to your own opinion, and I wouldn't be so disrespectful as to ask you to change it, since I'm biased as fuck myself anyway.

None of this is actually proving that I don't understand what you're saying.

You pretty much confirmed you're insecure (no offense, but you reek of insecurity, no need to know about your personal life to assume this), irrational and assumptious. Again, the main problem is your severe misunderstanding of how relationships work. (and your own irrational fears and assumptions of a person's personality based on their physical fitness levels)

I'm not sure why, but you apparently didn't read the latter part of my post. Were you posting already while I was editing?

Also, how my relationships work doesn't have to fit your 'normal' standards; just because you have a view of how something should be, doesn't mean your way is the right way. There are many ways to approach a relationship, and mine is not inferior or superior to yours, just different.

That being said, irrational or not, my fears and insecurities are mine to bear. They don't keep you up at night, no? Then why should you care? Honestly, trying to have a debate about this with me is a waste of both of our time.

Also, I never tried to 'prove' that you didn't understand, I merely re-explained myself. At the end of my post, I also noted that I wouldn't ask you to change your opinions, as you are entitled to them, and I myself am biased, so why even bother talking about it with me like this?

With that, I hope you stop wasting your time here, since you're definitely not going to sway my opinions by continuing this pointless conversation.

Yep, didn't notice the edit till now.

Also people's own insecurities give them a warped view on how people behave, or should behave, thus "warped perception of relationships". Ironically, putting themselves down makes them more narcissistic, judgmental and defensive.

I'm not trying to argue, just stating my observations. Maybe try not hating yourself a little and your perspective on others will change for the better too. Or you can keep going down a path of misery, hate, entitlement and prejudice.

I'm not your dad though. You can do whatever you want.