Would you be able to date/marry 2 girls simultaneously?
Would you be able to date 2 girls at the same time?
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I couldn't, I see it romanticized here in Fakku uploads, but I don't see the benefits unless they took turns daily. This isn't cheating, both the of the girls are fine with it btw. It just seems like double the hassle.
Am I missing a benefit or a negative?
What do you think?
Am I missing a benefit or a negative?
What do you think?
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Misaki_Chi
Fakku Nurse
So polygamy?
Not into women so I'd say no and not into sharing my man so a double no, but to those that are happy with the concept, why limit yourself?? All relationships have there ups and downs and those that are in a group marriage/dating situation have the same thing, just different. As long as you communicate and know what the boundaries are then it can work. Just takes patience, love and again communication.
Not into women so I'd say no and not into sharing my man so a double no, but to those that are happy with the concept, why limit yourself?? All relationships have there ups and downs and those that are in a group marriage/dating situation have the same thing, just different. As long as you communicate and know what the boundaries are then it can work. Just takes patience, love and again communication.
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Only on the condition that both are aware of it and approve, or are at least ok with it. And neither of the two is a yandere.
Of course. Were one of them a yandere, i highly doubt said yandere would approve of it.
:p
Of course. Were one of them a yandere, i highly doubt said yandere would approve of it.
:p
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This is a difficult question to answer. There are lots of different things to think about it. I think being able to accept this kind of relationship status is trivial on the surface. Maybe they're even great friends and enjoy the company. Maybe they're even sexually attracted to each other and love having group sex. Does it really work out nicely though?
What happens down the road? How do you prove to both companions you love them equally? How do you prove to both of them that your relationship wouldn't be the same without the other? How do you explain to your children that they have two mothers? Can one mother really accept that their child is being raised by another person half the time? When someone asks about your spouse whose name do you mention first? Even though that seems like the most insignificant detail, it's something to be considered.
What happens down the road? How do you prove to both companions you love them equally? How do you prove to both of them that your relationship wouldn't be the same without the other? How do you explain to your children that they have two mothers? Can one mother really accept that their child is being raised by another person half the time? When someone asks about your spouse whose name do you mention first? Even though that seems like the most insignificant detail, it's something to be considered.
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ChrisBRosado123 wrote...
This is a difficult question to answer. There are lots of different things to think about it. I think being able to accept this kind of relationship status is trivial on the surface. Maybe they're even great friends and enjoy the company. Maybe they're even sexually attracted to each other and love having group sex. Does it really work out nicely though?What happens down the road? How do you prove to both companions you love them equally? How do you prove to both of them that your relationship wouldn't be the same without the other? How do you explain to your children that they have two mothers? Can one mother really accept that their child is being raised by another person half the time? When someone asks about your spouse whose name do you mention first? Even though that seems like the most insignificant detail, it's something to be considered.
That's why I made it a poll. Maybe it's a Japanese thing where since birth rates are so low that there are very virile men who have to take care of more than one girl to help increase the birthrate.
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Dread151 wrote...
birth rates are so low that there are very virile men who have to take care of more than one girl to help increase the birthrate.I think you may be deluding yourself.
This question is a yes and no. Yes, I would be able to date two girls. I actually have dated as many as four at a time, but the idea needs some clarification. Seeing more than one person at a time is fundamentally different from being in a committed relationship. Which involves time. And disclosure.
An affair to the side of a real relationship can't last for more than a month, or things get too complicated too fast.
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Cruz
Dope Stone Lion
Dread151 wrote...
That's why I made it a poll. Maybe it's a Japanese thing where since birth rates are so low that there are very virile men who have to take care of more than one girl to help increase the birthrate.
It's not a question of whether men are virile or not, it's whether they're willing to be in committed relationships.
I don't doubt there are a few guys out there who have lots of casual sex with various different partners and zero investment in said partners, but can you really say they're "taking care" of them? Probably not.
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The perverted side of me would love to have a little harem of my own. The realistic side of me would probably groan at the prospect of having to take care of two girls.
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It be fun. Scary and wallet draining but the XP would be so worth it. Being able to go up to people and be like, "You see her. Thats my wife. And her."
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Odamust wrote...
Wasn't there a user before that had two wives?Zeroniv.
And to answer OP's question, no. Not worth the trouble. I may have liked School Days' ending, but I don't want to live it.
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Lughost
the Lugoat
Sneakyone wrote...
No, there would be way too much drama.What if it was two Konatas?
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There is nothing wrong with it as a stand alone thing that everyone participating is agreeable to. However, as a society thing, it is wrong because of many things. For one it objectifies women, maybe not everyone, but it soon turns into a status symbol, not a true connection thing. The vast majority of places and societies that allow for multiple wives has woman rights issues and even questions of consent and child brides. Lastly, it leaves a lot of men without wives unless they move, creating the lost boys scenario like that in Polygamist Mormons.
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I wouldn't marry 2, because that's illegal anyway. But date two, meh, that's debateable. Most women wouldn't want to be in a relationship like that, but this kind of have multiple partners thing only works with sexfriends mostly, not seriously dating. But there's some people really open. But me, nah, I couldn't feel right doing that to anyone.
Plus I'm scare of the Bad Ending...
Plus I'm scare of the Bad Ending...
