Just to reply to what one of the people said, and im sorry if I misportrayed what I was asking, I never really intended that the "Alpha male" was an asshole--He could very well be a good guy, but anyways back to the discussion.
Thanks for the rpelies I've gotten so far--Its good to see what other people think. And yes, Of course its different from woman to woman, but anyways yeah thanks for the replies guys :D