You know your mum's a two-faced bitch when she's nice to your girlfriend face to face (offers tea, helps with her child, has a nice chat with her etc), but then turns into a venomous snake as soon as she's out of the house. She bitched at my dad while we were out and then confronted me about her as soon as I got home after I took her to the train station. Know what she said? She told me that she is:
- intending to use me as a full-time unpaid babysitter
- intends to use me to get pregnant to leech more from the benefits system
- is still sleeping with her kid's dad
- lied about being in the army
- and has no intention to work, even though she can't right now because until she's given the all-clear from the hospital and assured that she won't have fits she can't
...all based on the flimsiest and most ridiculous evidence ever.
- She thought she saw her kid's dad in a car across the road from the bus stop
- The girlfriend was sat down the entire time I was out Sat. morning and was supposedly on her phone to her ex
- She "had to look after the girl" while she was sat doing nothing. She was only here for 3 and a bit days and I was exhausted. My mum's had 2 kids so she must know what it's like.
- Me putting a nappy bag in the bin (which I might add, I offered to) is apparently grounds for thinking that she expects me to look after her kid full-time
- "She has no money" - she knows nothing about her financial situation, but is certainly not penniless.
My dad likes my girlfriend and disagrees with my mum - but is too spineless to say anything. The girlfriend's distraught about it, and I'm seething with rage. What really struck the nail into the coffin was that, as soon as my mum told me all of these "facts" she "knows" about le girlfriend, she told me not to tell her any of it and "banned" her from ever coming again. She just slagged my girlfriend off, like I'm going to fucking take that.
I've given solid counterarguements to her claims and given examples of the other imes where she's misunderstood people and twisted the context entirely (I went as far as saying
"This is why people don't like you"), she won't admit that she's wrong. Instead she either just tells me to "leave off" and says that I'm "thick" or tries to bring up other arguements to discredit her. She's even threatened to kick me out because of all this.
Edit: She keeps changing her story as to why she doesn't like her. This is fucking childish now.
Edit edit: She's calmed down now and justified her behaviour by saying that she didn't want to have to look after my dad (who is actually pretty low maintenance as he just sits on the sofa and watches TV) as well as my girlfriend and her daughter. Thing is, we stayed out their way most of the time, the girlfriend is very independant and my mum could've asked for her help if she wanted it. She said some cruel things about her so I'm still awaiting an apology for the girlfriend.
Triple edit: Just when I thought I was getting through to her, she plays the "her family are scum because you've never met them" card. I actually never thought her true colours were so evil. How am I related to this... witch?