A girls asks you out... what would you do?
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Hey Fakku!
I had one of the weirdest dates ever and thought I'd share the experience.
It all started with a kindergarden friend I lost contact with for years. We met up again in our freshman year of college. She was smoking hot at the time and we clicked as adults. Unfortunately we lost touch yet again, and re-met ealier this year in a bingo event (Yes I know, this sounds like some vanilla doujin plot, but true story^^). A few weeks of not hearing from each other and she calls me up, asking me out on a date. This was a new situation for me, since I'm usually the one inviting women out. I figured why not, told her I'd pay for everything but let her plan it out. We flirted it out on texts for about a week, she offered to drive me (gasp! yes, no car of my own I'm poor Y_Y) and ended up at an awesome rock concert; +20 points^^.
We talked, flirted and had a good ol' time. Interesting thing was, when it came time to go home, it was obvious she wanted more out of the date. Completely out of character for me, but I just didn't feel any chemistry with her. She's fun, easy to talk and laugh with, but nothing more. As a personal rule, I don't sleep with anyone I don't feel sexual chemistry with, probably the reason why I'm usually the initiator of relationships. I respectfully declined her offer and she drove me home. I have a sinking feeling that I was actually the woman on the date.
I think I finally understand what it means to "Friendzone" someone. A really different experience when you're the instigator, not the victim. Feel free to troll me or share your experiences^^.
I had one of the weirdest dates ever and thought I'd share the experience.
It all started with a kindergarden friend I lost contact with for years. We met up again in our freshman year of college. She was smoking hot at the time and we clicked as adults. Unfortunately we lost touch yet again, and re-met ealier this year in a bingo event (Yes I know, this sounds like some vanilla doujin plot, but true story^^). A few weeks of not hearing from each other and she calls me up, asking me out on a date. This was a new situation for me, since I'm usually the one inviting women out. I figured why not, told her I'd pay for everything but let her plan it out. We flirted it out on texts for about a week, she offered to drive me (gasp! yes, no car of my own I'm poor Y_Y) and ended up at an awesome rock concert; +20 points^^.
We talked, flirted and had a good ol' time. Interesting thing was, when it came time to go home, it was obvious she wanted more out of the date. Completely out of character for me, but I just didn't feel any chemistry with her. She's fun, easy to talk and laugh with, but nothing more. As a personal rule, I don't sleep with anyone I don't feel sexual chemistry with, probably the reason why I'm usually the initiator of relationships. I respectfully declined her offer and she drove me home. I have a sinking feeling that I was actually the woman on the date.
I think I finally understand what it means to "Friendzone" someone. A really different experience when you're the instigator, not the victim. Feel free to troll me or share your experiences^^.
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i troll you.
sleep with her, but state clear you're not interested in a serius/longterm or how-you-call relationship. that way shee will not fell victim of a friendzone :) (you already flirtd dated and stuff so dont be an ass)
sleep with her, but state clear you're not interested in a serius/longterm or how-you-call relationship. that way shee will not fell victim of a friendzone :) (you already flirtd dated and stuff so dont be an ass)
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Dnt lead the girl on. Being friendzoned can really mess with someones emotions. Either commit to the relationship or lay down the lune and tell her. As a dude I know. Friendzones suck.
