About cheating...

Ah yes, the proverbial cheating.[size=2] hopefully he wont mess my account this time when i post this.[/h]

The most common problem between couples. And most cases its not gonna end well for the cheating girl/guy, BIG TIME.

What can trigger it? There are many factors that cant be enumerated, but if you can, feel free to add them. Most would say that they are neglected, an is that they came from a face-off and are still on the heat. finally, there's the rare(?) case of, "i want more! this bastard/bitch cant satisfy me at all/anymore!" and the "i fell in love with him even more" shit(really?!).

Whether your feelings are only being toyed or some other things by your partner, what would you feel?

well there are some who wish to strike at the back and others who are a tad wimpy and let that partner go....

I'd let her go.
I obviously didn't fulfill her needs, or doesn't think I am good enough, so let her find her own happiness, as I find mine.

I just can't love someone who don't love me. And I can't care too, so just a silent buh-bye when I get the proof I need.

Ahh, I would have to say let her go. It's not as easy as it sounds though. Trust me, even if you are hurt or even mad, your feelings for that person won't change right away, making it hard to leave.

I'd dump her ass, but I wouldn't blame myself. It's not my fault she cheated; if she wanted out of the relationship or wanted more from me, all she had to do was say so. There's no way in hell I'm going to act like the bad guy if she's the one that made the bad decision and followed through on it.

This, though I would do it very nicely, since if I am in a relationship, then I would also be in love so I would not want to hurt her more than necessary.

If I get cheated in a love relationship and I have proven it true by myself, I'd simply say goodbye to the girl, let her go, forget her and try to move on. Of course it will hurt, and wonder what happened, but it did happen and the relationship is essentially over with that. But I would have been hurt less if she talked to me first about it rather than do it behind my back.

But moving on will take time. It's hard to forget a love when you have invested so much of yourself into it.

Maybe I watch to many shows and movies but I’d scare of the opposition, once said person is out of the way things can be drought into perspective.
Also there’s something to be said for the old fashioned romantic approach of fighting for a woman’s affection.
(I’m so old-fashioned in these respects.)

The problem with the romantic approach of fighting for a womans affection is that it only applies when starting a relationship where you want the girl to start liking you.
If you are already in a relationship and she cheats on you, then it is no longer a matter of you having to win her back, since you never had her to begin with.

There is a reason the other person cheats. Try to improve youself, figure out what you did wrong and go from there. Cheating only happens because the partner isnt happy with what they have. I hate cheating in general, but it does teach you what you should and shouldnt do in a relationship with certain people. Either that, or the other one never loved you in the first place.

Yea, too many of you are blaming yourselves. Asides from Shaggy, who I completely agree with.

If you're not giving someone something they need or want, that does not excuse them from being unfaithful towards you behind your back. They lied, they got caught, their fault.

If they were unhappy, they leave that relationship, not continue it and do things behind your back.

They were selfish, and acted out regardless of your feelings involved.

Having been cheated on once, the feeling wouldn't be as emotionally upsetting, I think I'd have a lot more anger instead if the situation would occur again. I'm not a strong person, but I probably would act out if I was told by a partner face to face.

I honestly think cheating is the one time a girl deserves to get hit for. I hate sneaky people, and I hate unfaithful people. Most of all I hate people who lie.

People cheat because something's wrong with them. What you're saying is like saying that a murderer's victims are at fault for pushing him over the edge.

A person should never cheat (in all normal circumstances). It doesn't even matter if the partner abuses them; the first option should always be to break things off, end the relationship.

It's ok if it's with another women.


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I actually want to ask something related to this but this is already up and I dont know if i should open a new thread or just say it here. Its the opposite of the question really, whether you would or not.

I mean lets say you are with someone already who doesnt make you happy, then you meet another person who you believe can or does, if you would leave...

Anyway as for the question, I guess ill just let it be, to hell with it and to hell with her, ill most likely leave her when the opportunity comes

I was cheated on once, I remember. He was just a selfish man and had a serious sex addiction so he just another girlfriend in secret to satisfy his needs. >.> I was so stupid not to realize it, but I still hate him for it. I just thought he was nice in the beginning, but he turned into a real stupid man so I don't really care anymore.

Though if I get cheated on I won't go after them. I'm not strong enough for that. v.v I'd just cry over it or get a little angry depending on the person.

Why not just end the relationship? I know I'd rather have a chick break up with me, then run into another guy's lap instead of cheating on me and then breaking up with me.

It's not like there's a small window of opportunity for breaking up. As long as you don't do it on Valentine's Day or someone's birthday, it's okay.

Cheating is one of the few sexual practices that i am strongly against. This is because it involves the betrayal of someones trust, something i am also strongly against. Of course, i realize the world can be complicated and morality is usually not black and white. But still, i generally don't approve of cheating

Also, if a girl cheated on me, i would just leave her

When faced with the fact my girlfriend has been cheating on me, you better believe she's gonna burn (metaphorically speaking of course(or not)), and then once I feel justice has been served towards the unfaithful wench, she can become a crack whore for all I care.

And that's all I have to say about that.