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so i worked up the courage to ask the girl i like out but she said she was asexual and she said that she just gave up after what some guy did to her she looked pretty urt about it and said it was to painful to say then her friend told me about the guy who was so obsessed over her that he tried rapeing her,killing etc so then i tol here friend that i had a crowbar and baseball bat tucked away in my house aswell as a fair amount of people who would smash him up as well probaley her friend said the guys pretty dangerouse then i said i could be pretty dangerous but then i said ill drop it.
so i was wondering should i just give up or do a number on the guy?
and she has phoned the police on the guy but that didn`t do anything.
so i was wondering should i just give up or do a number on the guy?
and she has phoned the police on the guy but that didn`t do anything.
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Sounds like she is going to need a long time before she can trust anyone again. Sexual assault and death threats sort of kill all libido a person could have had.
I think if you truly value her trust, you'll accept that she's turned you down but still offer your support to her in a platonic way; if she comes to trust you (and if she feels attracted to you in any way but was uncomfortable due to her trauma), then you'll at least be in good standing with her by then.
Don't commit violence, even if it's to "avenge" her. She'll just see you as capable of violence too, and no better than the scumbag who hurt her.
I think if you truly value her trust, you'll accept that she's turned you down but still offer your support to her in a platonic way; if she comes to trust you (and if she feels attracted to you in any way but was uncomfortable due to her trauma), then you'll at least be in good standing with her by then.
Don't commit violence, even if it's to "avenge" her. She'll just see you as capable of violence too, and no better than the scumbag who hurt her.
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stay out of it, why go to prison over something that has nothing to do with you, this is whats likely to happen, you and a couple of your friends beat the guy up one of you goes to far and kills him or nearly kills him now your facing 20 years to life and the girl who you are in love with and went to prison for is letting some other guy bone while you are getting the reach around in a prison cell by a guy named big sweet......just let the police handle it.
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thanks gizgal i was just too mad at the guy and didnt think straight.
and firstbornnyc the police are crap where i live so they wouldnt have a clue what to do but thanks.
and firstbornnyc the police are crap where i live so they wouldnt have a clue what to do but thanks.
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Wilko wrote...
so i worked up the courage to ask the girl i like out but she said she was asexual and she said that she just gave up after what some guy did to her she looked pretty urt about it and said it was to painful to say then her friend told me about the guy who was so obsessed over her that he tried rapeing her,killing etc so then i tol here friend that i had a crowbar and baseball bat tucked away in my house aswell as a fair amount of people who would smash him up as well probaley her friend said the guys pretty dangerouse then i said i could be pretty dangerous but then i said ill drop it.so i was wondering should i just give up or do a number on the guy?
and she has phoned the police on the guy but that didn`t do anything.
Well, one violence won't solve anything, but just prove you are violent. And it's illegal, so not worth it. Two, she's asexual? that means she can reproduce on her own. and Three, just try to remain friends and when she is ready to be in a relationship, then pursue her.
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
as they say, two wrongs don't make a right.. but three lefts does. AWWW SNAP..
no but seriously, offer your support, tell her you'll be there for her if she's ever in danger or feels like she needs somebody to protect her or what not.. tell her 'if you are ever worried for your life, or are worried about what might happen, give me a call, and i'll come look after you, etc'
Get her trust, try to avoid the guy who is stalking her unless completely necessary.
no but seriously, offer your support, tell her you'll be there for her if she's ever in danger or feels like she needs somebody to protect her or what not.. tell her 'if you are ever worried for your life, or are worried about what might happen, give me a call, and i'll come look after you, etc'
Get her trust, try to avoid the guy who is stalking her unless completely necessary.
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Wilko wrote...
so i worked up the courage to ask the girl i like out but she said she was asexual and she said that she just gave up after what some guy did to her she looked pretty urt about it and said it was to painful to say then her friend told me about the guy who was so obsessed over her that he tried rapeing her,killing etc so then i tol here friend that i had a crowbar and baseball bat tucked away in my house aswell as a fair amount of people who would smash him up as well probaley her friend said the guys pretty dangerouse then i said i could be pretty dangerous but then i said ill drop it.so i was wondering should i just give up or do a number on the guy?
and she has phoned the police on the guy but that didn`t do anything.
She's asexual?
...like a plant?
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
Luke Piewalker wrote...
Wilko wrote...
so i worked up the courage to ask the girl i like out but she said she was asexual and she said that she just gave up after what some guy did to her she looked pretty urt about it and said it was to painful to say then her friend told me about the guy who was so obsessed over her that he tried rapeing her,killing etc so then i tol here friend that i had a crowbar and baseball bat tucked away in my house aswell as a fair amount of people who would smash him up as well probaley her friend said the guys pretty dangerouse then i said i could be pretty dangerous but then i said ill drop it.so i was wondering should i just give up or do a number on the guy?
and she has phoned the police on the guy but that didn`t do anything.
She's asexual?
...like a plant?
Many plants aren't asexual. Like cucumbers.
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Takerial wrote...
Luke Piewalker wrote...
Wilko wrote...
so i worked up the courage to ask the girl i like out but she said she was asexual and she said that she just gave up after what some guy did to her she looked pretty urt about it and said it was to painful to say then her friend told me about the guy who was so obsessed over her that he tried rapeing her,killing etc so then i tol here friend that i had a crowbar and baseball bat tucked away in my house aswell as a fair amount of people who would smash him up as well probaley her friend said the guys pretty dangerouse then i said i could be pretty dangerous but then i said ill drop it.so i was wondering should i just give up or do a number on the guy?
and she has phoned the police on the guy but that didn`t do anything.
She's asexual?
...like a plant?
Many plants aren't asexual. Like cucumbers.
Good to know. Thanks.
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
Luke Piewalker wrote...
Takerial wrote...
Luke Piewalker wrote...
Wilko wrote...
so i worked up the courage to ask the girl i like out but she said she was asexual and she said that she just gave up after what some guy did to her she looked pretty urt about it and said it was to painful to say then her friend told me about the guy who was so obsessed over her that he tried rapeing her,killing etc so then i tol here friend that i had a crowbar and baseball bat tucked away in my house aswell as a fair amount of people who would smash him up as well probaley her friend said the guys pretty dangerouse then i said i could be pretty dangerous but then i said ill drop it.so i was wondering should i just give up or do a number on the guy?
and she has phoned the police on the guy but that didn`t do anything.
She's asexual?
...like a plant?
Many plants aren't asexual. Like cucumbers.
Good to know. Thanks.
Now you know.
And knowing is half the battle!
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Don't do anything to that guy.
Instead, be there for the girl, treat her right, listen to her, just be a friend, become her shoulder to cry on and tea h her to trust men again.
Instead, be there for the girl, treat her right, listen to her, just be a friend, become her shoulder to cry on and tea h her to trust men again.
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Luke Piewalker wrote...
She's asexual?...like a plant?
DON'T MESS WITH FUTAS!
lol, just joking and no she's not a plant read this:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Assexuality
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Nameless Nazgul wrote...
Luke Piewalker wrote...
She's asexual?...like a plant?
DON'T MESS WITH FUTAS!
lol, just joking and no she's not a plant read this:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Assexuality
oo... thanks 4 the info ya.. ^^
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Give her some time. Be friends and earn her trust. Over time maybe something will happen.
Don't hurt the other guy, as much of a jerk he may be you might get hurt. :/
Don't hurt the other guy, as much of a jerk he may be you might get hurt. :/
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Nameless Nazgul wrote...
Luke Piewalker wrote...
She's asexual?...like a plant?
DON'T MESS WITH FUTAS!
lol, just joking and no she's not a plant read this:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Assexuality
Lol what does that have to do with futas?
Thanks for the info by the way. XD
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Don't expect that stomping the freak will get you anywhere with the girl, but it might be fun anyway. be sure not to say anything like, "this is for what you did to (insert name)!", as it may make him go after her again. and becareful not to go to far and kill him. people are pretty fragile, not like in the movies. my friend is currently on about year 8 or 10* of 25 to life from just such an ocasion.
*[size=5]i really should write him a letter.[/h]
*[size=5]i really should write him a letter.[/h]
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Luke Piewalker wrote...
Nameless Nazgul wrote...
Luke Piewalker wrote...
She's asexual?...like a plant?
DON'T MESS WITH FUTAS!
lol, just joking and no she's not a plant read this:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Assexuality
Lol what does that have to do with futas?
Thanks for the info by the way. XD
Futas can reproduce by them selves. All they have to do is fap, then take their cum in to their pussies.
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Nameless Nazgul wrote...
Luke Piewalker wrote...
Nameless Nazgul wrote...
Luke Piewalker wrote...
She's asexual?...like a plant?
DON'T MESS WITH FUTAS!
lol, just joking and no she's not a plant read this:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Assexuality
Lol what does that have to do with futas?
Thanks for the info by the way. XD
Futas can reproduce by them selves. All they have to do is fap, then take their cum in to their pussies.
Whoa! You're right!