Am i Depressed
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If it comes to the point where you want to commit suicide, its a time where you realize you can do anything you want, since when you have nothing to lose it means you have everything to gain. At that point, I suggest doing whatever you wanted in your life but always was afraid of. You'll die eventually, no point in doing it yourself. I considered it once, but realized this fact.
If you're sad, just try smiling each day even if you don't mean it. The way you act, dictates to some extent how you feel. It may seem like circular logic, when I tell you "If you think you're happy, then you're happy." or "If you think you're depressed, you're depressed", but very reasonable to assume that those statements are true.
Somethings in life are simply out of your control, especially with how other people act. You can't control them. Think about how hard it is to tell yourself to do something, now imagine trying to tell someone else. Difficult isn't it? If something is out of your control, stop. Take a step back and think about what are the things about that situation you can deal with, and only concern yourself with those things. It's a waste of time to try to move a rock that can't be moved.
Also, think about the girls you choose to date. You have to 'decide' to date an annoying girl. Maybe it's your choice in women, and not necessarily the fact that there are no girls out there compatible with you.
If you're sad, just try smiling each day even if you don't mean it. The way you act, dictates to some extent how you feel. It may seem like circular logic, when I tell you "If you think you're happy, then you're happy." or "If you think you're depressed, you're depressed", but very reasonable to assume that those statements are true.
Somethings in life are simply out of your control, especially with how other people act. You can't control them. Think about how hard it is to tell yourself to do something, now imagine trying to tell someone else. Difficult isn't it? If something is out of your control, stop. Take a step back and think about what are the things about that situation you can deal with, and only concern yourself with those things. It's a waste of time to try to move a rock that can't be moved.
Also, think about the girls you choose to date. You have to 'decide' to date an annoying girl. Maybe it's your choice in women, and not necessarily the fact that there are no girls out there compatible with you.
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Sounds like you're underage and whiny to me, but if you're seriously considering the possibility you might be depressed then go do something about it, go see a therapist. Not to mention you seem to have been offered help from school(?), then take it, no one will magically come and help you without you trying to get some help first.
Otherwise, just suck it up.
Otherwise, just suck it up.
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say what! wrote...
Am i depressed? I have friends, but sometimes i just want to be alone.
I hate doing anything including hanging out with my friends.
I sometimes hate the world because of the situation im in
Not sure about your situation that your in, but I think having personal space is sometimes required, maybe that is all you want when you hate doing anything with friends.
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I hate my parents because all they ever do is argue and have been arguing since i was 5yrs oldBeen there, in fact they divorced when I was 12, best thing to do is realise that people argue, nothing you can do about it really it's down to them a lot of the time.
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My mom blames me for some of the problems and told me that she prefers my older brother over me, but she always tells me to take care of her when she grows old.Same as my sister, the golden child, just be who you are, no point in being what your not just to please your mother, she's your mum at the end of the day, just because she prefers your brother doesn't mean she doesn't love you.
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My dad is just a hard headed douche bag who never listens to me when i tell him he needs to change because of his health problems with stressYeh, I fixed a similar problem with my dad, I put on a few reality TV show's that shocked him into dealing with it, Maybe try something similar ? I dunno everyone has their own way of dealing with things.
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I think about what if i commit suicide would anyone care if i am deadWell, yeh, Of course they would be, they couldn't just leave a corpse lying on the floor and think meh it'll get cleaned eventually, they'd have to have a funeral and upset family and everything. But no, on a serious note if you had thoughts on suicide maybe a psychologist might be the best way forward, we're not experts on the forums unfortunately and giving the best advise for that really isn't possible.?
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i write alot about pain and death and have gotten my work published, but my teacher is worried about me and says i need to talk to the my schools Most of the time im never happy
Again psychologist perhaps or a seeing a local GP or something ^_^"
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Ive had several girlfriends, but i never liked them i just did not want to say no when they asked me out, but i cheated on them because all of them were annoyingInteresting, maybe you should potentially just say no in the future to prevent them and yourself getting hurt and wait for that person who you think you can see a long relation in with, I dunno everyone is different when it comes to relationships.
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The thought alone of thinking about suicide and what happens afterward is already a give away. It seems you have reached a limit to people as a whole, since you say your girlfriends are annoying and you cheated on them. The fact that they asked you out, hm, I don't know, I would have been really happy and amazed that a girl would ask me out for one. You could have tried to at least see where it went.
I hate people too, a ton of them. But I still live day by day and continue to get to a goal I want to reach.
I hate people too, a ton of them. But I still live day by day and continue to get to a goal I want to reach.
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@ Say what! :If you are contemplating suicide and if you live in the US call 1-800-273-8255. If you need help talk to someone in your family or friend that you are close to.
I have a cousin who was clinically depressed and attempted to kill himself by cutting several times. He went to a rehab center a couple of times whenever the situation got out of hand. Also, he saw a Counselor and a Psychiatrist. He is better now, ever since he graduated high school and enlisted in the Navy.
I have a cousin who was clinically depressed and attempted to kill himself by cutting several times. He went to a rehab center a couple of times whenever the situation got out of hand. Also, he saw a Counselor and a Psychiatrist. He is better now, ever since he graduated high school and enlisted in the Navy.
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Aai
FAKKU Ass Master
say what! wrote...
Am i depressed? I have friends, but sometimes i just want to be alone.
I hate doing anything including hanging out with my friends.
I sometimes hate the world because of the situation im in
I hate my parents because all they ever do is argue and have been arguing since i was 5yrs old
My mom blames me for some of the problems and told me that she prefers my older brother over me, but she always tells me to take care of her when she grows old.
My dad is just a hard headed douche bag who never listens to me when i tell him he needs to change because of his health problems with stress
I think about what if i commit suicide would anyone care if i am dead
i write alot about pain and death and have gotten my work published, but my teacher is worried about me and says i need to talk to the my schools
Most of the time im never happy
Ive had several girlfriends, but i never liked them i just did not want to say no when they asked me out, but i cheated on them because all of them were annoying
Sounds like depression or laziness.
Parents argue all of the time, someone will always say something about one another's opinion, since your parents are always around each other they always feel the need to argue about ones opinions or decisions.
Blames you for what? get more into detail with that.
Instead of trying to convince your dad by your self, get someone to help you with that.
Suicide is a horrible thought, you never turn to this, that's irresponsible. What if someone did care enough to cry over what you had done.
Think more about what you can do in life to appreciate what you are, what you want to live for, is there something you have always wanted to do? Set goals to accomplish, so that you will have something to feel good about, start little goals, like wanting a license or getting a car or house, it takes hard work and responsibility to get what is needed.
You can do this little by little, don't shrug errands aside or even chores.
Some things will come to you when you take care of your self, don't let anyone decide how you live.
If you've got friends, ask them if you want to do what you want, sports, games, watch a movie together or just chatting.
Like I said earlier, your answers with the girls you have previously gone out with were irresponsible, think more about what would happen between the two of you, do you believe it will start something new in your life?
Cheating may have some thrill to it but when it comes down to it someone will end up hurt, but because they are annoying you should have just said no, actually getting to know the girl before you go out with her would of solved that early on.
but really that's all I've got to say.
So pretty much you are depressed, find help.
whether or not you take any advice is up to you.
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say what! wrote...
Am i depressed? I have friends, but sometimes i just want to be alone.
I hate doing anything including hanging out with my friends.
I sometimes hate the world because of the situation im in
I hate my parents because all they ever do is argue and have been arguing since i was 5yrs old
My mom blames me for some of the problems and told me that she prefers my older brother over me, but she always tells me to take care of her when she grows old.
My dad is just a hard headed douche bag who never listens to me when i tell him he needs to change because of his health problems with stress
I think about what if i commit suicide would anyone care if i am dead
i write alot about pain and death and have gotten my work published, but my teacher is worried about me and says i need to talk to the my schools
Most of the time im never happy
Ive had several girlfriends, but i never liked them i just did not want to say no when they asked me out, but i cheated on them because all of them were annoying
I have the same problem.
It's not depression, most likely your just a pessimistic and a realist with bad luck.
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lyingdream wrote...
say what! wrote...
Am i depressed? I have friends, but sometimes i just want to be alone.
I hate doing anything including hanging out with my friends.
I sometimes hate the world because of the situation im in
I hate my parents because all they ever do is argue and have been arguing since i was 5yrs old
My mom blames me for some of the problems and told me that she prefers my older brother over me, but she always tells me to take care of her when she grows old.
My dad is just a hard headed douche bag who never listens to me when i tell him he needs to change because of his health problems with stress
I think about what if i commit suicide would anyone care if i am dead
i write alot about pain and death and have gotten my work published, but my teacher is worried about me and says i need to talk to the my schools
Most of the time im never happy
Ive had several girlfriends, but i never liked them i just did not want to say no when they asked me out, but i cheated on them because all of them were annoying
I have the same problem.
It's not depression, most likely your just a pessimistic and a realist with bad luck.
It's called the blues.
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Am i depressed? Serious suggestion
The internet is perhaps not the best place to ask about such issues. Depression is a serious issue particularly if it has gone on for a long time untreated.
Is there a local GP/Family doctor that you can talk to? They are trained as primary health practitioners to screen for clinical depression. You have thought about suicide so I urge you to seek help as soon as possible.
Whether you are diagnosed with clinical depression or not there are things you can try to improve your general state of health (which will hopefully symptoms of depression).
e.g. meditation, healthy diet, exercise .......
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Kind of Important
A ray of Tsunlight.
I'd agree that the Internet (a site dedicated to porn no less) is really not the best place to talk of this.
Still, I can relate to several of those things, I have a lot of really good friends, but more often than not, I prefer solitude. To the point that a few people have assumed there is something wrong with me, I just enjoy silence.
Also, there is always a chance for things to turn for the good. Giving up and quiting by attempting to off yourself is the cowards way out. You don't like your friends that much? Find better ones. Parents giving you a hard time? Graduate, and get the fuck away from them, as they are no help. (Right now anyway)
Strive to better yourself, start doing things you like, stop assuming the world is out to get you. No one said life had to be fair, and really, most of the time it isn't. This is something you'll have to come to terms with. As did everyone else before you. It's your job to make the best of it. Not to sit in some rut thinking like that.
Serious suggestion
Is there a local GP/Family doctor that you can talk to? They are trained as primary health practitioners to screen for clinical depression. You have thought about suicide so I urge you to seek help as soon as possible.
Listen to this. Suicide, as I have said, is the cowards way out. Don't flake like some have before you, find people who'll help you, and with that you can start to realize that life isn't really that bad.
Still, I can relate to several of those things, I have a lot of really good friends, but more often than not, I prefer solitude. To the point that a few people have assumed there is something wrong with me, I just enjoy silence.
Also, there is always a chance for things to turn for the good. Giving up and quiting by attempting to off yourself is the cowards way out. You don't like your friends that much? Find better ones. Parents giving you a hard time? Graduate, and get the fuck away from them, as they are no help. (Right now anyway)
Strive to better yourself, start doing things you like, stop assuming the world is out to get you. No one said life had to be fair, and really, most of the time it isn't. This is something you'll have to come to terms with. As did everyone else before you. It's your job to make the best of it. Not to sit in some rut thinking like that.
PrincessTristan wrote...
say what! wrote...
Am i depressed? Serious suggestion
Is there a local GP/Family doctor that you can talk to? They are trained as primary health practitioners to screen for clinical depression. You have thought about suicide so I urge you to seek help as soon as possible.
Listen to this. Suicide, as I have said, is the cowards way out. Don't flake like some have before you, find people who'll help you, and with that you can start to realize that life isn't really that bad.
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say what! wrote...
Am i depressed? I have friends, but sometimes i just want to be alone.
almost the same with me,,the difference is only because i am not only 'sometimes' but 'always' want to be alone..~_~
