am i too old?

Im always going out playing football or baseball, and recently my sister has started to join me, problem is hse brings her firends round, and whilst we have a good game and a good laugh, i cant seem to take my eyes of one of them ...
Main Problem is that im 19 yrs old and shes only 14.. and whilst that may not seem huge to anyone thats over 30 going with a 20-ish yr old.. that type of age difference is huge when your young...
Suppose what i want is ..well ofc the answer xD

No, I don't. Please elaborate.

Anyways, it's shouldn't be too much of a problem at all. I mean, it's only 5 years; ain't gonna kill you to go out. Scratch that.

Beware of the father.

Establish a good relationship with her, but don't be too hasty. Take your time and when she's at a safe age, go at it.

19 and 14? That's absolutely fine. The issue is that she's 14 so what I'd personally do is wait a bit and take this time to become good friends. When she gets a bit older and can make decisions more "objectively," then you can take it to a more physical level if all goes well. The "divide by two and add seven" is a stupid rule.

I think its better to wait for a while. Keep the relationship close and secure.

I actually know a lot of married people that has a 15-20 years age gap but of course some of this won't be accepted by people, specially if they're too young.

Keep it close and don't do unnecessary stuff. Establish that flag now. :)

Law dictates that thou canst only plunge thy tool into the abyss after the bird has reached the age of 16, else thou risks the chance of imprisonment.

Build a good relationship with her, get close to her. Get to the point where you guys can open up to each other.

In love there is no such thing as being too old. But in my opinion sadly, it does look like you are..

become her friend, either bang her secretly, or just wait till she's 16-17.. else you'll end up like a guy i know from school... he 'raped' two 14 year olds... pre-sure he just had sex with them, and their parents found out :|

Although I see you live in England personally that would be dangerously close to the unsafe party van area.try not to do anything, sexual deviancy or simple pedophilia and your connection to a hentaj website might bring you to a lot of trouble and criticism.So simply: let it go, a 14 year old is not worth it, anyone who suggests that it's a good idea to even have a simple relationship past the point of being friends is a idiot( also your considering intercourse with a minor with no age of consent or intercourse been two close of age minors laws to protect you)

Talk to her and find out if you're actually interested in her beyond physical appearance. If it's just looks that interest you, I'd make it a point to ask about her parents and find out what kind of people they are first before you do anything with her.

Perfect...

Im not thinkin about sex atm, that's basically on the lines of pedophilia for me xD
Lol i just wanted to see if i would be able to have some sort of workable relationship with her until she hits the age of consent where then i can try and move it a step further.

Im not thinkin about sex atm, that's basically on the lines of pedophilia for me xD
Lol i just wanted to see if i would be able to have some sort of workable relationship with her until she hits the age of consent where then i can try and move it a step further.

Even if you want a relationship without sex, make sure she isnt that kind of person who'd want to get revenge if you hurt her in any way. I dont know about the laws in your country, but at least here a girl can easily go to police, cry and tell them: "A guy named X made me have sex with him a month ago and I was too scared to tell about it to anyone". And who are the police going to believe, the 14 years old girl who cant stop crying or a 19 years old guy who likes hentai?

So, I'd say that a relationship with sex or without sex, wait till she's legal for you to bang. But if you really want to be with her, make sure that she really is nice enough not to do that to you.

1) I did say that until shes of age or at least ready i wouldnt even try to have sex with her
2) My secret about liking hentai is SECRET
3) Any girl can run to the cops and do that, AND get away with it

Exactly. It doesn't have to be a case of statutory rape, for a young adult female to play the court system for a conviction against a male for sexual misconduct. The courts are heavily biased against males when it comes to civil cases.

It has just simply been that for a long time. A man would need a strong case to prove his innocence over the testimony of a woman against sexual misconduct or rape. Because of that, it is all the more important to truly get to know and understand a person before you decide to have sex.

My advice? Just open up to her a little and be her friend for now., and wait until she's old enough (preferably 18). Then, you can try to take it up a notch. Even then, don't jump to the sex too soon.

Just build on the friendship. I imagine that even the girl you're interested in will think it's a little weird so just make sure you're both comfortable around each other first.

If you live in the US, be aware that some states the age of consent is 18! Check your jurisdiction. Be exceptionally careful. Some states not only prosecute, but I've worked with DAs before who also require registering as a sex offender- which will follow you for LIFE! Personally, I think that bastardizes the whole point of the sex offender law (to notify the public of predators). If you want to date her, I'd speak with the family to get a feel of where they are with it. If you get super protective vibe and negative responses- DROP IT. The family usually presses charges and some families may be alright w/ a younger consent age. Just be wary. While it may not be your intention, I'm here to tell you girls of that age are all hormone and very little brain power. That is a powerful combo that most men can't resist. Best to stay away.

Dude do not do it!!! not worth it trust me, i went out with a 19 year old and that was bad enough. If ur a mature for your age, forget it. She will be a total kid!!!!!! plus you gonna want it sooner rather than later and thats when the law will kick in. Not worth the risk, look but don't touch!!

Also find out if she has an older sister that'll do :p