Are you afraid of your future? with the person you love?
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I have a girl right now. Shes a nice sweet girl, but I'm not sure if shes the one I'm looking for. She talks about the future with me. Like getting married and having kids and living together. And if shes not the one for me I know I shouldn't lead her on. I don't want to. But right now I'm a very important person in her life. Shes having trouble with her parents and looks to me for comfort. She always blames things on her self too. And if I break up with her I'm afraid she will be hurt greatly. And I don't want her to feel pain. But I don't want to lead her on either. I don't know what to do. I'm afraid of getting stuck with someone because I'm afraid to hurt them
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Being in a relationship isn't servitude.
If you want out, then get out.
Someone getting hurt in a breakup is inevitable.
If you want out, then get out.
Someone getting hurt in a breakup is inevitable.
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Maeve wrote...
Being in a relationship isn't servitude. If you want out, then get out.
Someone getting hurt in a breakup is inevitable.
10/10 for Concision.
You can still be there for her and comfort her without being her boyfriend. The longer you wait, the more hurt she'll be when you finally leave. She -will- ask 'How long have you felt this way?'.. Don't be the guy that has to answer '..About a year.' or more. You don't have to be cruel, but you do have to be honest. Don't leave the door open, but let her know you love her as a person, want what's best for her, and have no intention of abandoning her in her time of need.
You just can't love her the way she wants you to.
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You need to look at the situation as rationally as you can; weigh the pros and cons of your relationship and how you feel about it. If you are unhappy with the relationship as it currently stands, then you need to be honest with yourself AND her even if you're fearful of her feelings. The longer you wait to tell her, the more it's going to end up hurting.
It's hard to address your situation specifically because you haven't included any details: how long have you been dating, do you think the relationship is moving too fast?, are you content with it but only concerned about "the future"?
People's priorities do change in life so she could just be at a different point in her life than you or vice versa, where your needs are a bit different too.
It's hard to address your situation specifically because you haven't included any details: how long have you been dating, do you think the relationship is moving too fast?, are you content with it but only concerned about "the future"?
People's priorities do change in life so she could just be at a different point in her life than you or vice versa, where your needs are a bit different too.
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Take pictures of yourself fucking a prostitute in her bed
put said pictures on her fridge (and on fakku) and change your cell phone number
?????
profit
Lol jk. In reality you should just break up with her as smoothly as possible (if you finally decide that you cant be with her that is). I see the others suggested to still have some kind of friendly relationship with her after the berak up, but i say that its a BIG no-no. Doing it nicely so you dont hurt her as much is a good thing, but once you break up with someone they are 99% of the time going to have feelings of resentment that may turn them into your enemy (hidden or open, doesnt matter really), so after you break up nicely its best that you avoid all contact with her like the plague.
put said pictures on her fridge (and on fakku) and change your cell phone number
?????
profit
Lol jk. In reality you should just break up with her as smoothly as possible (if you finally decide that you cant be with her that is). I see the others suggested to still have some kind of friendly relationship with her after the berak up, but i say that its a BIG no-no. Doing it nicely so you dont hurt her as much is a good thing, but once you break up with someone they are 99% of the time going to have feelings of resentment that may turn them into your enemy (hidden or open, doesnt matter really), so after you break up nicely its best that you avoid all contact with her like the plague.