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Hello Fakku community,
I need some advice and i thought that you all would be a good outside perspective. I've recently entered a sort of three person relationship, in the last couple of weeks with two of my new college friends. This relationship is one in which we are all friends and we do sexual things together. It was a very spur of the moment thing.
The first time we were all very wasted, and we had a softcore threesome, with no penetration and everyone keep the undies on. When we all came to the next day, we were alright with what we'd done to each other. The only thing is that my male friend involved in this is for the most part attracted to me, and my female friend is very attracted to my male friend. And I for the most part had not been all that attracted to either of them, but am starting to find that I am to both of them. That I really would like for this relationship to last for at least a little while (fyi it has only been about 3 weeks).
But then there is another problem, my male friend has expressed to me that he would rather not continue this threeway relationship. He tells me that, he isn't attracted to my female friend, he dislikes how strongly she comes on to him and he feels bad that she like him so much when he feels little for her in that way.
So now the situation is becoming awkward since, me and my male friend have started having casual sex, and i have yet to inform my female friend of this. And she wants me to make another threesome to happen between us, but my male friend is being difficult.
I'm worried that the situation shall proceed to get even more awkward. Though I'd really like to avoid this since, I've come to like the both of them a good deal, and I hope to be friends with them for years to come.
What do you think I should do, anonymous individual? Help a fellow fakku member out.
I need some advice and i thought that you all would be a good outside perspective. I've recently entered a sort of three person relationship, in the last couple of weeks with two of my new college friends. This relationship is one in which we are all friends and we do sexual things together. It was a very spur of the moment thing.
The first time we were all very wasted, and we had a softcore threesome, with no penetration and everyone keep the undies on. When we all came to the next day, we were alright with what we'd done to each other. The only thing is that my male friend involved in this is for the most part attracted to me, and my female friend is very attracted to my male friend. And I for the most part had not been all that attracted to either of them, but am starting to find that I am to both of them. That I really would like for this relationship to last for at least a little while (fyi it has only been about 3 weeks).
But then there is another problem, my male friend has expressed to me that he would rather not continue this threeway relationship. He tells me that, he isn't attracted to my female friend, he dislikes how strongly she comes on to him and he feels bad that she like him so much when he feels little for her in that way.
So now the situation is becoming awkward since, me and my male friend have started having casual sex, and i have yet to inform my female friend of this. And she wants me to make another threesome to happen between us, but my male friend is being difficult.
I'm worried that the situation shall proceed to get even more awkward. Though I'd really like to avoid this since, I've come to like the both of them a good deal, and I hope to be friends with them for years to come.
What do you think I should do, anonymous individual? Help a fellow fakku member out.
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Well they already put themselves at an awkward stump.
you probably won't get those threesomes anymore, but just having sex with them separately is still an option.
The other two need to sort shit out with each other before things get real sour though.
you probably won't get those threesomes anymore, but just having sex with them separately is still an option.
The other two need to sort shit out with each other before things get real sour though.
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lol this is going to end badly no matter what, i suggest being upfront with both of them ASAP. if you wanna continue a casual relationship with the guy then let him know its just "casual" and also inform the girl about whats going on, but either way it goes this isnt going to end well.
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It's pretty much not going to happen. Jealousy will be abound, and you'll likely lose at least one friend. In the short term, convince your guy friend to do it. That'll salvage it for a few weeks, and stuff might develop then, but probably not.
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I agree, it's probably going to end badly, esp for the female friend. If you want the 3way to continue, you need to quit having sex with the guy alone and you need to start including the female friend. Why a single guy would say no to a 3way with 2 girls, I might never know...
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Look, no matter what, this is going to blow up in your face. So just enjoy it while it lasts because chances are you won't have as many opprutinities to have threesomes in your life (for me there is honestly no possibility).
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artcellrox
The Grey Knight :y
You may want to talk it over with both of them. Individually or together is your choice. But yeah, like everyone has said so far, this is not going to end well for at least one person.
Still, we want to hear of what happens after you've made your next move.
Still, we want to hear of what happens after you've made your next move.
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You must do say something to them really fast and be clear because everyone will get hurt no matter what, at least you can soft the puch a bit...
Tell your feelings to both of them and try to explain thet even when you like both that way you don't want to end a friendly relationship with neither of them
Tell your feelings to both of them and try to explain thet even when you like both that way you don't want to end a friendly relationship with neither of them
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Yeah, you're basically gonna hit a deadend either way.
Unless you're very experienced in this sort of situations, they aren't the best to become a part in. There's always emotions that can build when there is constant interactions like that. Jealous and awkwardness will no doubt arise. And it also isn't very healthy.
Be careful.
Unless you're very experienced in this sort of situations, they aren't the best to become a part in. There's always emotions that can build when there is constant interactions like that. Jealous and awkwardness will no doubt arise. And it also isn't very healthy.
Be careful.
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Look, as someone has already said, this is going to blow up in your face, either way to do it, no matter how careful or respectful you are.
FOR AS LONG AS YOUR ARE "GETTING SOME", drag this out for as long as humanly possible because you likely won't have a chance like this again.
Trust me, this is the only way you'll actually get something out of this.
FOR AS LONG AS YOUR ARE "GETTING SOME", drag this out for as long as humanly possible because you likely won't have a chance like this again.
Trust me, this is the only way you'll actually get something out of this.
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Thanks for all the advice everyone, except for Takerial, your just a jealous B. (lol)
I figured that this whole situation would end badly, which is why i was looking for advice in the first place.
At the moment I'm becoming very good friends with my female friend (before this little threesome she had only been an acquaintance). And I've decided to talk my male friend into having another threesome, if only to try to bring this relationship past this awkward point and then end it before it becomes disastrous.
I figured that this whole situation would end badly, which is why i was looking for advice in the first place.
At the moment I'm becoming very good friends with my female friend (before this little threesome she had only been an acquaintance). And I've decided to talk my male friend into having another threesome, if only to try to bring this relationship past this awkward point and then end it before it becomes disastrous.
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
Why would I be jealous of a weeaboo whore?
That does not make sense to me.
That does not make sense to me.
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What really doesn't make sense is, that you feel the need to be so hateful towards me,
when you don't even know me. Sorry if I misinterpreted your statement.
I shall probably take your advice Alex23, thank you to all.
when you don't even know me. Sorry if I misinterpreted your statement.
I shall probably take your advice Alex23, thank you to all.
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Ruinsku wrote...
This will end bad.This is why I don't drink.
alcahol is the key. you're going to have to keep them soused.
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Alright for all your guys advice i was unable to keep this threesome thing together, but I did make a new best friend out of my female friend, and I've made a booty call out of my male friend (and am in the process of becoming better friends with them).
But surprisingly the reason that this whole situation is because of my male friends, both me and my female friend find the idea of a threesome to be very hot lol. But I have figured out what the problem with my male friend was, its that he is not very sexually experienced and to have to compete with both me and my female friend would be too much for him (especially since he has trouble taking me on when we are by ourselves). On top of the fact that he is a bit frightened of dominate women (like my female friend), since he has had many bad experiences in relationships with dominate woman.
Though he is an idiot in reality for not taking the opportunity when it presented itself, since both me and my female friend are also very inexperienced. This threesome is actually the first real sexual experience i've ever had in my life. Though I don't blame either of my friends for not knowing this since I was so comfortable and mature about this whole situation. lol
At least this shall be a good story for when I get older, especially since I managed to photograph my male and female friend being intimate, while they were engaged lol. >:)
But surprisingly the reason that this whole situation is because of my male friends, both me and my female friend find the idea of a threesome to be very hot lol. But I have figured out what the problem with my male friend was, its that he is not very sexually experienced and to have to compete with both me and my female friend would be too much for him (especially since he has trouble taking me on when we are by ourselves). On top of the fact that he is a bit frightened of dominate women (like my female friend), since he has had many bad experiences in relationships with dominate woman.
Though he is an idiot in reality for not taking the opportunity when it presented itself, since both me and my female friend are also very inexperienced. This threesome is actually the first real sexual experience i've ever had in my life. Though I don't blame either of my friends for not knowing this since I was so comfortable and mature about this whole situation. lol
At least this shall be a good story for when I get older, especially since I managed to photograph my male and female friend being intimate, while they were engaged lol. >:)
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
Needs more pictures of the threesome /i kid
Bad luck for you, but if you really want it again, explain to him you are all inexperienced, and the more experience he gets, the longer he should be able to go (theoretically)
Bad luck for you, but if you really want it again, explain to him you are all inexperienced, and the more experience he gets, the longer he should be able to go (theoretically)
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heh Never shall I put those photos on a computer, they shall forever be in my personal collection.
And yes, hopefully both he and I will be able to garner some much need experiences from our relationship.
Don't you think that this is a perfect example of one of those cliche college experiences? lol
And yes, hopefully both he and I will be able to garner some much need experiences from our relationship.
Don't you think that this is a perfect example of one of those cliche college experiences? lol
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
indeed it is.. kinda makes me wish i could have a threeway, but i know it'd be pointles.. i haven't the experience to keep going afaik xD
