Best Friends

That seems more like a servant to me.



Yes.

I know that person very well, we have an easy time chatting about random bullshit, I put my in trust him, and I don't hate him.

~i have a best friend,i think bestt friend is someone who spend more time with you than other friends,and for me is someone who have same intrest as me(even there is still some diffrence)~

Sigh I don't even remember who my last friend was, I think it was someone who betrayed me and scarred my life...

I'm pretty sure this happened to some of you as well.

It depends. Dragonzord only squashes that which is in its way. Also, you have to take into account the significance of the subject in question. If something, or someone, is important enough, I doubt that Dragonzord would crush it intentionally. Afterall, it isn't a mindless beast.


That's a good thing. There isn't anything written in stone saying that a friend is someone you have absolute trust in. After what I've been through, I can say that I'd be happier to have a friend that would stab me in the back than one that would "play it safe" for my sake. "Friendship" and trust don't always function on the same level.


I'm not, but that alone probably makes me a good candidate... doesn't it?



Personally, I believe real friends are honest and do what's right, no matter what. I understand the concept of standing by your friends, but blindly compromising yourself for the sake of others is fucking stupid. If it came down to the bare essentials, someone I consider my best friend, or anything close to it, would tell the truth and sell me out, as opposed to compromising themselves to be a "good" friend.

Yes. I have one best friend, definitely. But I have many close friends and one friend who is working her way up to become my best friend. Not that I don't think she'll be my best friend or not that I don't consider her to be my best friend already, but to be honest I feel like we aren't quite there yet.


A best friend is someone who is closer to you than other close friends and/or family. They pretty much know how you act and like to be relied on or like to rely on you. To consider one as a best friend is to consider someone special in a friend/family way. You prefer hanging out with them than your other friends and you're more comfortable with them than most other people.

Jeeeeesus, it sure is sociopathic loner around here.

I have a selection of friends that are so close that they're genuinely like brothers to me. I mean, good friends are like a family that you don't have to feel so guilty around. There's 6 of them, like a Pokémon team, and they're all pretty different and good for different situations, also like a Pokémon team. Then there's a bunch of other people who are good friends too but not to the same level; like, I can't just say whatever comes into my head with them and be totally open with them, and those are things that I value.

Oh, I have a quote to use: "A friend is someone who will agree with you when you're wrong; anyone will agree with you when you're right". That's not always true but I do like the logic of it. Then again, the same person also said "Whenever people agree with me I always feel I must be wrong" which complicates matters.

I don't think I've ever had a best friend. I've had good friends, but never someone that went above and beyond the title of "friend." I can't say that I'm completely to blame, though I also can't say that everyone else is completely to blame.

I realized recently that a best friend to me would be someone that really understands me, someone that I would feel comfortable sharing my innermost feelings with. That sounds like common sense, but my mind is complicated, and friendship can be a hard thing to think about. Like Jesus said, you don't have to place absolute trust in your best friend. I take that, and add it to my deep, dark secrets that I never want to share with anyone, and I come to the conclusion that a best friend for me would just be the person I spend the most time with. But that's wrong (at least for me). Even if I spend 90% of my time with the person, unless I can be open about my thoughts and feelings with him/her, that person is just a friend, same as any other.

Because I am strict with my definition of "best friend," I may never have one. I loathe the thought of that, but I do accept that it may come to be. I realize that I am asking for too much, but when it comes to my emotions, doing things half-assed just isn't good enough. Been there before, and will undoubtedly be there again. I mean, I can talk to people and like them, but there's a barrier they have to get through to go from being a friend to best friend. If that makes any sense.

A Best friend someone who you can tell anything about yourself, and they just shrug it off and laugh, so you can more then one of them

Yes I do. He's a guy that can always understand me because we reach the same conclusions about most things even though we come to those conclusions in a very different manner. We also share the same name. (No, I'm not talking about myself or Mattarat.)

I figure the term means different things to different people and that there's no 1 way someone can be your best friend. I'm sure some people who have multiple best friends who have earned that title in completely different ways.

well i tend to annoy people so i get clingy... i consider 2 of my friends as best, even though both are assholes, and pretty much all other acquaintances~ in real life of course...

How I define best friend has changed drastically in the last 7-9 months. Before, I really didn't care; it was just someone who I had known for a long time and I could tell some things to. But I've gone through a lot the past 8 months that I couldn't have weathered without a real best friend. They've come to be someone I rely on to keep me standing when I want to fall, and I'd carry them to the end if they felt the same. Someone I tell everything to, and who knows they can tell me everything, and we have. That feeling is the most wonderful feeling in the world. To be understood, and accepted without being judged.

I guess I do have 3 people in my life (family members aside) whom I can consider as "best friends". 1 of which whom I have known for at least 22 years and the other two, 20 years respectively. Even though we are busy with our lives these days, we still make a point to meet up on a regular basis, during the festive seasons or to celebrate one's birthday.

These are the people whom I know will support me when I need help and vice versa.

a best friend is someone you can get pissed at have a fight with and then kick it the next day laughing about why you had an argument in the first place.

yeah I got a best friend

Yeah, a best friend is just someone that you can do anything with, the quintessential other part of the team of awesomeness that you are a member of.

Yes, I have a best friend. A best friend is someone that can understand your faults and likes you for who you are. I think to consider someone a best friend there needs to be an agreement of somesort, otherwise if you say "This guy/girl here is my best friend." the other person might say, "Who said I was your best friend? You are not my best friend." Then you will be embarrassed and heart broken. It is always good to make sure.