bi-sexual probs

I'm a lil confused on my feelings.I'm not a virgin with girls but the farthest I've gone with a guy is 3rd base.
Lol not that the opportunity hasn't come I just always come up with a reason on why it can't b him. He can be fucking perfect n its like once the time comes up not that it grosses me out just not him. I'm not really like that with
Girls and its not that I don't want 2...idk what my problem is so if u know that please tell me? Also the solution would be nice thx

Sorry if the grammer is bad checked it twice so yea.

I think I get the jist of your question, but correct me if I am wrong:

You are a male who has had more relationships with females then males in relation to the sexual department. You asking why you are having trouble with going full blast into a male on male relationship since you've had less trouble with females.

It sounds like you are more bi-curious then bi-sexual since you have an interest in the same sex, but have gone no further than 3rd base. If you don't feel comfortable going any further with a man, then maybe you haven't found the right guy. This could also be a sign that maybe you prefer girls more so then men. You can't force yourself to have a physical relationship if the chemistry isn't there no matter how much you think they are "perfect".

There is really no advice to give on how to get over this, you just need to play the field some more and experiment. Life and love is just a trial-and-error sort of thing, so hopefully you find what you are looking for.

Note: practice safe sex and use a condom!!

Thanks I get what your saying

There's no reason to force yourself to do anything you're not completely comfortable with just for the sake of conforming to some arbitrary measurement of sexual orientation. Do whatever makes you happy, and enjoy whatever feels natural. It doesn't matter if you're bisexual or bi-curious or pansexual or gay or straight, or even if you don't feel the need to subscribe to any of those labels. Have the sex you (and your partner/s) want to have, do it safely, and that's all that matters as far as sex is concerned.

Sorry to say but it sounds like you aren't bisex, only bicurious.

You like the intimacy and foreplay you get from a guy because it probably doesn't feel any different than when it's a girl doing it. If you chicken out on the final hurdle then you're either not into men or just not into him. Only you can answer that one, but personally it sounds like you're not into men at all. At least sexually.

Sound like your scared of male sex. Is the penis inside you or the fact your pee pee get hard the reason you can't get with him? Is the relationship your the pitcher or catcher?

From my stand point as a bi sexual male is i can't fit a dick inside me so im more the dominate one. In that way im more into giving oral(in my case i love giving in both cases of sex male and female.). I can't actually give you a pointer on overcoming male sex outside do that to feel like. There plenty of bi curious people who can't get to the sex level. It's more a sexual fantasy then sexual ordination like lolicon and rape. Wanting and actually doing it is two completely different things.

I've been thinking about what u wrote 4 about an hour or 2 an with guys it starts with I like this and that about their personality then I start to physically like them with girls its the opposite way but I'm pretty sure I like guys...still trying to wrap my mind around the sexually part.

I'm the catcher in the relationship though I haven't done it no problem doing oral and I don't feel scared and the thought is pleasant but the actually doing it and fantasy may be it

You're either just curious about things and not actually wanting to go into a full sexual relationship with a man or you are not ready to go into a full sexual relationship with a man.

It sounds like you might be forcing yourself to try and seek a full sexual relationship with a man. Most likely, you have an underlying reason for seeking this that doesn't prelude to your actual sexuality.

While oral sex doesn't seem much different than anal sex, penis goes into something, there's actually an entirely different sense of control. In oral sex, you retain most of the control while in anal sex you would be giving up most of the control.

It's why it's considered a much more intimate act and would also explain why you might be ok with oral sex even if you don't necessarily have a strong sexual orientation towards men.

Basically it boils down to this.

Are you seeking it because you desire men, or are you seeking it because you feel you have to desire men?

For me I feel as if I can lean on girls and trust them more when it comes to being friends with them and when it comes to boys and being friends with them I am a bit more reserved and takes more time. It could be personally for you that you feel more comfortable with girls and are able to go all the way with sex. It could be that even though you're bi you could lean to the female sex more than male but I am not saying that you don't find a male attractive just that you feel more maybe safe or more of a connection with females in the sense of having sex with them. It's hard to explain haha...

My advice would be just do it when you're READY! When you feel when you're ready you will know and if he is such a great guy then he will wait till you're ready. There is no rush and don't pressure yourself because everyone goes about sex in a different way.

Btw I am kind of dumb when it comes to these things but what is third base? ^_^;

While it can vary for some people it is typically oral sex.

Oh... okay thanks.

I learned something new.