Cheating
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:S wow i just had a revelation ...never thought guys would feel so strongly about fidelity ...i dont mind what can you do if you dont like him/her anymore ...but as a woman i can tell you is VERY hard to respect a dude who is bad (i mean really bad and unwilling to improve) in bed ...its better to be celibate than have a bad f*ck every day
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ramirin wrote...
:S wow i just had a revelation ...never thought guys would feel so strongly about fidelity ...i dont mind what can you do if you dont like him/her anymore ...but as a woman i can tell you is VERY hard to respect a dude who is bad (i mean really bad and unwilling to improve) in bed ...its better to be celibate than have a bad f*ck every day if you don't like him/her anymore, then you break up with them, doesn't take rocket science to figure that one out.
if a guy/girls unwilling to improve himself for the partner's pleasure then you give them a choice. Either improve or you end the relationship.
in regards to Celibacy, only an idiot would even consider anything remotely close to marriage to someone that you had such a bad physical connection with.
Couples nowadays need both the physical and mental compatibility for atleast a half decent relationship....
That's just how i see it, anyway.
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WanderingHero wrote...
Why do people tend to cheat in general?LMAO, because they can... when you get into the situation you (as everyone else) will too and then find a billion excuses why it did not count :p
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Shinyadesu~ wrote...
if you don't like him/her anymore, then you break up with them, doesn't take rocket science to figure that one out.
if a guy/girls unwilling to improve himself for the partner's pleasure then you give them a choice. Either improve or you end the relationship.
in regards to Celibacy, only an idiot would even consider anything remotely close to marriage to someone that you had such a bad physical connection with.
Couples nowadays need both the physical and mental compatibility for atleast a half decent relationship....
That's just how i see it, anyway.
hehe we are women, emotional blackmail WORKS on us , so to watch a guy crying and telling you he loves you (even if he is a *donkey synonymous* every other time he can towards you ) Is hard ...and guys are not easy to break up with, girls are told all their lives to suck it up and try harder to get and maintain their guys not to count how can you say a guy "Dear! , you sex performance is below average! " if you actually care for him ????, we know (us women) that it would kill you and we dont want that, usually ... You took off the equation that women are way more emotional and socio-cultural factors that are key .
And about idiots and celibacy they are antonyms , sex makes things messier for us girls ...pregnancy , reputation , and if you actually have kids you get screwed about money after the divorce so the less sex and commitment the better for us unless the prenup or confidentiality agreement are juicy .
But all in all im telling you when a girl cheats (a normal one not a beyotch that i admit exist and are awful and crazy ) its probably for much deeper reasons ...like maybe you forgot 50 times to call her back when she needed you or you bought a Rolex for yourself and then gave her a washing machine on hers , maybe you got pissed when she scored better than you at school or you often forget to groom yourself , clip your toenails ,brush your teeth to avoid bad breath ...Every little thing you are just passing by is important .
Imagine that your guy have bad breath now multiply it forever and you can't say any thing because being tidy and neat is not manly for him....hell yeah let's cheat on him lol
Besides for a guy to be a good f**k doesn't need anything in his body just talk ,talk and talk a bit more warm her ear she will think you are Ron Jeremy that night hahahh i promise you
And please don't use the"modern times or nowadays" card ...it does not exist we still have the short end of the stick in every single thing , we have to fake it till we make it , we get paid less we are the ones taking care of men but they thank their beer companions before they do us i blame your mommies for raising dumb men but still is not different ...and if we get a bit wild in the sack men wouldn't consider us for a long term relationship cuz we are too experienced oh gosh i could go on and on i even have to say im a dude in most online forums or they won't take me seriously ...we are still stuck in ancient ignorant times .
PS: maybe one of these things you would consider a silly reason but it can drive you crazy if it happens often , besides men are different before they commit (BF or husband), they tend to get lazy . So now guys go and tell her nice things practice smelling nice and act strong in bed tah-dah and cheating of almost out of the question if you do so...Normally i'd go for guys but being with a girl is a lot of fun too so men should appreciate it more
*Sorry about the long post i had a lot of time in my hands today buh bye
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Drifter995 wrote...
I hate reading ntr :( It makes me depressed, and makes me feel hatred towards the girl of who is cheating on the guy.. as it's supposed to.. but I hate it. Makes me feel like shit :(This happens to me too. Whenever I read about a guy or girl cheating on their significant other it just angers me and makes me stop reading it altogether.