Confessing
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Thanks everyone for the advice and luck! I will definitely post a follow up of the date to let you know how it turned out.
But as for what type of guy he is- he is pretty calm and a little on the shy side. He's a techie nerd type with no previous girl experience and I think that makes him feel intimidated because I have experience. So I've been giving him a lot of time and space to make him comfy. I know he likes me it's just. We've never really made anything official yet and I'm really into him. Iam afraid of coming on strong. But I am rather shy myslf so I don't know if that's possible.
But I think I'm going to wear a simple dress and a cardigan and some flats.
@ neko- I will most definitely wear that scribblenauts hat. Maybe if I write " boyfriend" I'll solve the puzzle known as my love life and get the starite ;_; haha
But as for what type of guy he is- he is pretty calm and a little on the shy side. He's a techie nerd type with no previous girl experience and I think that makes him feel intimidated because I have experience. So I've been giving him a lot of time and space to make him comfy. I know he likes me it's just. We've never really made anything official yet and I'm really into him. Iam afraid of coming on strong. But I am rather shy myslf so I don't know if that's possible.
But I think I'm going to wear a simple dress and a cardigan and some flats.
@ neko- I will most definitely wear that scribblenauts hat. Maybe if I write " boyfriend" I'll solve the puzzle known as my love life and get the starite ;_; haha
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Good luck ayanami ^^
Have more confidence and faith it will turn out great.
I hope to read good news soon ^^
Have more confidence and faith it will turn out great.
I hope to read good news soon ^^
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Ayanami00 wrote...
But as for what type of guy he is- he is pretty calm and a little on the shy side. He's a techie nerd type with no previous girl experience and I think that makes him feel intimidated because I have experience.
if he didn't have any experience with girl than you need to take a lead. cause some guys who didn't have experience is quite thick skull. also if he is pretty calm then you can do some bold action that can make him think you like him.
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Kiss-Shot
Soba-Scans Staff
I'm shocked no one has advised to kick him in the balls, you'd win his heart within mere seconds.
But yeah it's probably best you take the lead if he has no experience (something I would've appreciated back in my younger days.)
But yeah it's probably best you take the lead if he has no experience (something I would've appreciated back in my younger days.)
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Kiss-Shot wrote...
(something I would've appreciated back in my younger days.)Yeah, my lack of experience really ruined what could have been a great relationship. So that's a definite yes to being forward (at first). Unless you want an innocent puppy for the duration of your relationship, find some way to encourage him to be forward after a little while too. If both of you can be really honest like that, it should last a long time.
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Thanks for the advice to be forward. It's great to hear perspective from some guys!
Wish me luck d-day is soon ( date day..>__>)
Wish me luck d-day is soon ( date day..>__>)
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Ayanami00 wrote...
Thanks for the advice to be forward. It's great to hear perspective from some guys!Wish me luck d-day is soon ( date day..>__>)
tomorrow is a big day good luck yo. remember relax.
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Ayanami00 wrote...
Thanks for the advice to be forward. It's great to hear perspective from some guys!Wish me luck d-day is soon ( date day..>__>)
You can do it! :3
Any girl cool enough to be on Fakku can surely succeed. :)
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Good luck. I was going through a similar situation with a girl I meet at a con and I would say to go casual. When it comes to confessing go for it cause it may work out look at me I just got married a month ago(been together for 3 1/2 years)
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Antw0n
Remember me?
This is just me, but I say you make damn sure he likes you before you confess.
I confessed to my love the other day.... I was sure she like me, my friends were sure she liked me, her friends were sure she liked me, so I confessed....
SHOT DOOOOOWN.
She never liked me, she just thought of me as a good friend, but has never found any sort of love-interest in me whatsoever.
Ouch.....
I confessed to my love the other day.... I was sure she like me, my friends were sure she liked me, her friends were sure she liked me, so I confessed....
SHOT DOOOOOWN.
She never liked me, she just thought of me as a good friend, but has never found any sort of love-interest in me whatsoever.
Ouch.....
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
oh antwon. the thrill of not knowing is half the pleasure of confession. being turned down is not that bad, as long as you know to move on.
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Antw0n
Remember me?
mibuchiha wrote...
oh antwon. the thrill of not knowing is half the pleasure of confession. being turned down is not that bad, as long as you know to move on.Yeah, I guess you're right. There's plenty of fine tail out there....
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Being turned down hurts like hell at first, but after a week or two, you realize... it's better to have this than to never have taken the chance. At the very least, it helps build up your confidence.
I asked out a guy for the first time last month. (It was always the other way around before!) It was really scary and I got reeeeejected badly, but I am glad I did it. I'm a lot more comfortable talking to guys in general now; I'm able to go up to a group of acquaintance-guys and be like, "HAAAAY BUDDIEEEZ". It's been a good experience, even though I feel a little stab of heartache every time I see his face. :p
I asked out a guy for the first time last month. (It was always the other way around before!) It was really scary and I got reeeeejected badly, but I am glad I did it. I'm a lot more comfortable talking to guys in general now; I'm able to go up to a group of acquaintance-guys and be like, "HAAAAY BUDDIEEEZ". It's been a good experience, even though I feel a little stab of heartache every time I see his face. :p
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oneshott wrote...
Vio wrote...
Being turned down hurts like hell...it helps build up your confidence.Wat
Because you put yourself out there and tried at least. Unless you were laughed at to your face then it should build your confidence as you faced your fear of rejection.
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neko-chan wrote...
oneshott wrote...
Vio wrote...
Being turned down hurts like hell...it helps build up your confidence.Wat
Because you put yourself out there and tried at least. Unless you were laughed at to your face then it should build your confidence as you faced your fear of rejection.
that depends on the type of situation, I know people who have been rejected that were madly in love with the person they confessed to being rejected after belive me its not a confidence builder i have seen the people, hell i have been there. you move on after a while yea but it doesnt exactly make you feel like opening up to the next chick.
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Lol,subjectivity. Just do whatever you think is best if you feel inclined to ask then do it. If you don't then don't. No one here is really going to be able to help because it changes from person to person. Make your own choices. Advise is all well and good but to be honest if you think advise like this affected you then most likely you were already inclined to think that way.
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Okay so I just got home.
Our date: a sucess! :D we went to a museum together and then walked around the lakefront and we held hands and when we were sitting down on the grass he put his arm around me :3
I even kissed him on the cheek right as he was getting on the bus to leave, I then turned and flashed him a smile and waved a bit and walked off.
His face: in complete awe and happiness :) he was smilig and blushing and...ahhh <3
Our date: a sucess! :D we went to a museum together and then walked around the lakefront and we held hands and when we were sitting down on the grass he put his arm around me :3
I even kissed him on the cheek right as he was getting on the bus to leave, I then turned and flashed him a smile and waved a bit and walked off.
His face: in complete awe and happiness :) he was smilig and blushing and...ahhh <3
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Ayanami00 wrote...
Okay so I just got home. Our date: a sucess! :D we went to a museum together and then walked around the lakefront and we held hands and when we were sitting down on the grass he put his arm around me :3
I even kissed him on the cheek right as he was getting on the bus to leave, I then turned and flashed him a smile and waved a bit and walked off.
His face: in complete awe and happiness :) he was smilig and blushing and...ahhh <3
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