Crazy enough...

Strange as this may sound to those of you who read any of my previous threads, I think I may actually be almost happy in my relationship. It's such an odd thing for me to actually think this, which has new questioning my newfound enjoyment in my love life. To put things into prospective, just 3 days ago I punched 4 holes into a door and headbutted a 5th into it out of frustration. Then suddenly, things got, well, better. I'm guessing it's one of three things, A, things got better, B, it's an act, or C, total insanity. Tonight we played video-games, watched "The Walking Dead" and laughed about our dog misbehaving. It was... normal... something I haven't encountered in this relationship for at least half of a year. I'm actually starting to enjoy this. Maybe now things will be a bit easier in life, that or I've gone totally insane and in that case, who cares?

Keep your guard up anyway. Because you never know when shit might go down...

You've basically gone nuts after realizing you can't really get out. So yeah, after everything you said, I would suggest you still keep an eye open.

It's really sad when you're so miserable that a few days of happiness is enough to make you reconsider the entire history of the relationship. She's doing a technique that a lot of abusers do when they are seeing the other person begin to pull away emotionally or otherwise stop responding in the way they'd desire. It's a circular technique which basically goes: be nice, be mean, be nice, be mean. That way, they get to abuse you, but still leave you thinking that ultimately they're a nice person. You remember all the "good times", and that blinds you to the reality of how shitty things actually are. It seems it is working on you. Good for her.

I dunno, it's been a couple of days and things are staying good. Perhaps I'm finally insane, or perhaps I'm gullible, perhaps things actually have finally started working. The only way to test it is to keep detailed notes. I actually do have such notes and I'll review them tomorrow.

When in a relationship with a psyco, the key to escape is to make the psyco think ending the relationship is their idea.

some things i've used: eat foods that cause excessive gas*. poor hygine. be clingy, both emotionaly and physicaly. become totaly indifferent to everything they do. eye for an eye, do the same psyco shit they do.

if living together, and confrontation is too dangerouse, my favorite is to get a storage locker or some other place and slowly move out your stuff. once you have all the unnoticable stuff, wait until the other person will be gone for a while and grab the rest and run. i did this twice, one with a woman, once with a roommate.



*beans(catalyst), potatoes(volume), and eggs(potency). all day. every day.

It's slightly disturbing that this scenario is common enough for you that you have an extensive list for escape...but that doesn't mean I'm not going to take this to heart just in case this ever happens to me...

broccoli always makes me gassy.

I just had bad luck a few times. it's not all me either, some of it came from friends who had crazy roommates or GF/BF.





broccoli farts can kill. i forgot how brutal they can be. and it reminded me of asparagus. if you get up first in the morning, asparagus pee, don't flush.

Yep, it was total insanity. Don't worry I've come to my senses.

Told you. Do I get a cookie now?

He only treats alcohol, lol. Trust me, he's done the same to me.

Damn I'm only 19 so maybe next time hehehe

... you think that'd stop him? I'm just 20, and he still offered.

Your right but if he offered it would be rude not to take him up on it.

Baked goods all around! Croissant anyone?

I want mine chocolate filled.

This is one crazy topic -_-"

metamon! *cough* I mean ditto.

Choco filled croissants are really good. Heat them up in the microwave to get the choco to melt after about 10-15 sec ^^.

So.. status update? If you have no need for further advice, ask for this thread to be locked by a mod so we can move on to relevant topics.