Divorce.
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My parents just told me they're getting one.
I just graduated from my two-year school and worked so hard to get over my depression... why?!
I need some support. ;__;
I just graduated from my two-year school and worked so hard to get over my depression... why?!
I need some support. ;__;
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It's cool don't stress it. Nothing you should get in between, time heals all wounds and your relationship with your parents shouldn't change in any way. Like I said don't stress it ;)
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Just hope for sexy step sisters (if ur a guy) or brothers (if ur a girl)
If you're not in the mood for playing with your wang...
If you're not in the mood for playing with your wang...
Don't let what they do control you. You are who you are. Plus, there's times when couples need time to be away from each other. Living with one person for 18 or more straight years is a pretty tough job
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God, I went through this when i was 12, that was the cause of my depression >.< I'm not good at talking, but if you need someone to listen, I can, and I'll understand~
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Sadly i wasnt really depressed over my parents divorce after 20 yrs...though i do have other problems :( but you'll eventually get over it too >.> but when they get a bf/gf it is kinda weird.
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Amura wrote...
God, I went through this when i was 12, that was the cause of my depression >.< I'm not good at talking, but if you need someone to listen, I can, and I'll understand~Thanks Amura... yeah, they've been struggling for a long time with it. While I appriciate them waiting until I grew up to separate, it almost makes it harder. :(
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gizgal wrote...
Amura wrote...
God, I went through this when i was 12, that was the cause of my depression >.< I'm not good at talking, but if you need someone to listen, I can, and I'll understand~Thanks Amura... yeah, they've been struggling for a long time with it. While I appriciate them waiting until I grew up to separate, it almost makes it harder. :(
I agree, my parents almost divorced when I was 2 (before my siblings). I wish they did it then. I wish mum never went back~ I could have been in the middle of europe by now!! T_T But I love my dad to bits~
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I'm sorry to hear that. You'll be okay, though. Use close friends to talk to, when you need them. Try doing new things when you feel the depression coming on. Wallowing in a dark room is not a good thing. :/
However, never having been through my parents having a divorce, I can't imagine how disappointing and frustrating it must be.
Did you expect it coming or was it a shock?
However, never having been through my parents having a divorce, I can't imagine how disappointing and frustrating it must be.
Did you expect it coming or was it a shock?
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LostQuartet wrote...
I'm sorry to hear that. You'll be okay, though. Use close friends to talk to, when you need them. Try doing new things when you feel the depression coming on. Wallowing in a dark room is not a good thing. :/ However, never having been through my parents having a divorce, I can't imagine how disappointing and frustrating it must be.
Did you expect it coming or was it a shock?
Yeah, I do need to get out...
It's not something I thought was an impossibility, they've been incompatible for a long time. Still, to have them bother to stick it out for such a long time, and then have everything I know taken from me after so long, it's almost cruel.
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Kind of Important
A ray of Tsunlight.
At least your parents were together long enough for you to remember it.
I was, I think, about 2 when mine divorced.
And I've seen my dad and grand total of maybe five times since then. Which is terrible, as I seem to be the only one who actually enjoys being near him (Out of my brother and I. My sister isn't related to him.)
Sure it sucks, but hopefully they'll both live close enough to each other for you to be able to see them both frequently. My dad just got out of the Navy after 23 years (He was in Italy for the past 4) And I finally got to visit him again just last year.
Point is, enjoy the fact you had, what a lot of other people didn't. (including myself) Having literally no childhood memories of your father kind of sucks.
You'll be alright, I guarantee it.
=3
I was, I think, about 2 when mine divorced.
And I've seen my dad and grand total of maybe five times since then. Which is terrible, as I seem to be the only one who actually enjoys being near him (Out of my brother and I. My sister isn't related to him.)
Sure it sucks, but hopefully they'll both live close enough to each other for you to be able to see them both frequently. My dad just got out of the Navy after 23 years (He was in Italy for the past 4) And I finally got to visit him again just last year.
Point is, enjoy the fact you had, what a lot of other people didn't. (including myself) Having literally no childhood memories of your father kind of sucks.
You'll be alright, I guarantee it.
=3
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That´s horrible... I can´t imagine how it must be with your parents in distrought like that. ;_; I don´t think it´ll ever happen to me but you´ll never know.
*hugs* =P
*hugs* =P
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Hmm it's probably harder for you than it is for me. My mother divorced her abusive husband (my father) when I was 6, so it really didn't feel like much. However, she remarried when I was 13. I'm 19 and all they do is fight and I hope they break up. However, for you, I can tell it's much harder if they were your original parents. All I can say is just fight through it, you can still be the child of both of them. Just because they break up doesn't mean they don't love you. Sometimes, it's for the best for people like that to break up, it might end up helping out.