Do women like to be spanked?

Hmmm good point with the jealousy part. But that ties in with the low self-confidence - making others jealous or making yourself look better than them (more attractive, richer, more intelligent etc) makes it seem like you are of higher status than them, thus covering up your lack of self-confidence through a proxy.

Personally, I couldn't care less. Though yeah, maybe I am a bit jealous, but that doesn't really say much lol

bleh, again you're making the assumption it's to promote oneself rather than just something they enjoy doing. you don't know the reason either way unless they look you in the eyes and then slap some arse... it's pointless to speculate on their self esteem in this case.

Nooo. If you think it's trashy, you think it's trashy. Don't let a bunch of retards with the power of -repping make you change that opinion in any way. Of course, I feel differently, but so what? It's life. It happens.

I don't think it has anything to do with making other people jealous. It just means your comfortable enough in the relationship to not hide it from anyone. Being jealous relies solely on the witness. Social status should nothing to do with how you feel about yourself, as it just means you're paying more attention to what they think, and less of what you think.

I don't feel less confident just because I don't look as good as other guys, or have no money. intelligence can also be a hindrance when everyone you hang out with is fucking stupid.

I'll put my reasoning down for saying what I did. No it's not because of jealousy, because I have a roudy boyfriend too who loves to give me attention.

I just personally don't like it in public because it draws attention to yourself, and it's something I've stated already in this thread: https://www.fakku.net/viewtopic.php?t=43730&start=15

I don't like attention drawn to myself and I'll go to great lengths to not being bothered in public. It gets me panicked when stuff is directed towards me around a bunch of people I don't know, and it's just something personal to me.

So naturally, when people do things like ass grabbing, it usually goes hand in hand with obnoxiousness. I really really really really hate obnoxious people being dumb in public. I think it's unnecessary and it's just a personal pet peeve that doesn't make me hate anyone in specific. It's something that I irrationally just put hand in hand.

So no, it doesn't have anything to do with jealousy because I tell my own boyfriend to stop being too affectionate with me in public because it just bothers me with my personal irrational feelings about attention drawn to me around people I don't know.

and yet you do it so freely on the forums/skype... why is that?

Zig.... fpod understands you oh too well.... (see clingy girls thread page 3 for details for what i mean)

Haha, I didn't know he posted that. Yeah, the lack of affection I give in public is what I make up for in private.

@Waar, you claim all the time the internet isn't the same as real life. I have to vent some how ;p

And if you notice, have you ever gotten me to really argue back or get real upset in skype when talking? I usually just let things breeze by me or go "whatever" and not argue back, or just not talk.

How in the hell does what one type on the internet equal to real life...?

you bring them up later to argue with me.

anyways, im not trying to argue with you but venting isn't what you do. telling people about sex stories is a form of showing off; unless you're trying to teach us poor virgin boys something?

(reminder, this isn't meant to start an argument, just an example of the characteristics you just told us you hated)

zak I don't see the connection; I didn't mention them as being the same thing; just two separate yet equally important parts of a person.

I know, but still the internet and Real life are two completely different things, to get them inter meshed in that way is just wrong...

Noone acts the same IRL as they would Online... Well as far as I know...

Anyone can be anything on here since we're all so Anonymous so people will obviously "act" and "talk" differently online than they would out in the real world...

In any case, you won't hear me say a fraction of these things in person that I do online. I already stated I act irrationally in real life. I don't think it's something you really need to test with me and compare my online behavior compared to my real life behavior.

I know how I am, and Fpod knows how I am, and I really don't need to convince you of anything else. So take it as an explanation or don't, it's up to you.

right, and i agreed. I told many of you I act differently in real life as I do on the internet, but I also have limits to that; my two selfs are not polar opposites. Ex: if in real life i HATED racism, my online self would not be racist. I simply would never do something that I am so strongly against.

Paul is waar at 85%; nice guy but still a bit of an in your face asshole.


ziggy, i'm just wondering why you act as you detest, does that not make you feel trashy?

(again, not trying to fight, just looking for an explanation on your polar opposite self)

Ziggster, Fpod, and Waar should all just have a threesome. Work out all your problems in bed, or in an alley, doesn't matter.

I think the motives of all our actions are rooted in our subconscious.
So it's only logical for me to assume this.

But you just can't read other people's minds, can you? Personally, I can't wait till humans magically evolve (forced evolution is cool too) telepathy.

Tell me about your mother.

Well I sure as hell don't. One of my ex-bf's pulled that trick both in private and in public and it's digusting and demeaning. There's really not much to say about it.

As I said earlier, I should have explained it better instead of just making a quick post not wording my words correctly. Because quite honestly I didn't know it'd start such a WOAH WOAH WOAH and stop the universe to debate.

I put things hand in hand in real life. I hate obnoxious loud people. Usually people who are grabbing asses are the same people talking loud acting stupid and causing dumb attention to themselves. It's childish, obnoxious, and I can't stand it.

On the internet, discussing about what I like and dislike is not obnoxious.
TALKING LIKE THIS THOUGH AND SAYING U MAD? COOL STORY, BRO! AND PULLING EVERY OTHER INTERNET MEME OUT OF MY ASS AND THEN ENDING THE DISCUSSION WITH 'WE'LL UR A FAG' is extremely obnoxious however and I ignore it just like I would ignore the inconsiderate people trying to cause attention for themselves in public. However, when it does come into place where I do mention "I'm getting sex" it's 1. funny to me, because I know not all people like hearing that from me because they generally dislike me anyway 2. I am fucking excited when my boyfriend is coming home after 2 months of me being home alone. Not just for the sex part but to see my partner again. I can express that a bit if I'd like on here.

I'm not a devoted christian in real life while an atheist on here, I don't have polar opposites. I dislike conflict and I dislike talking to people in real life that I don't know or feel comfortable around. I'm hidden by a computer and given a layer of anonymous and can express myself however with way without you looking at me and standing in front of you.

If that doesn't make sense then, I don't know - go take a psychology course or something =\

This thread has shifted more for a mind-spanking, I think.