Do women take pride in sexual skills?

From what I understand men generally take pride in being able to pleasure a woman sexually. I am a man and whenever I'm able to make a woman feel good I find I get pleasure, satisfaction, a sense of accomplishment from having done so.

I was wondering if women get a similar feeling when they make men feel good?

Ofcourse people are different, but usually my favorite part of sex is giving oral. Ofcourse I dont get physical pleasure of it myself, but I love making my bf feel good and there have been times when I've made a move on my bf with my own pleasure in mind, but I've just ended up just doing it with my mouth till he was dry. Its just that I enjoy doing it. And I think that emotional pleasure is much more important than physical pleasure :>

It depends, since everyone is different from everyone else. Even tho a woman can dominate in having sex, some practically wouldnt care if they have the skills. Its just a matter of the extreme pleasure you get from having sex.

I believe most women take pride on getting a man off. but i be reminded that a sock can get a man off. There no skill to master to get a dude off, it just a repeated rubbing and the excitement of our organ to organism. It take great skill to make a woman happy.

I think most women do feel pride about their sexual skills, but if they admit it, they get called sluts. Boo.

Patriarchal double standard. Frankly, I'm annoyed that a girl can't be outgoing without being labeled all kinds of nasty things... if it weren't so the dating scene would be so much simpler.

Double standard aside. A man that whores around is called a stud, female version is a slut. It's easy to be a slut.. it's hard to be a stud. To be a stud you have to be good looking, well dress, physically fit and have a fake job. A slut just has to be there and sleep around. It's easy to pleasure a man... it's a calling to please a woman.

I definitely have sexual pride in exhausting my man. I dispute that you cannot get physical pleasure from giving oral because your tongue, lips, sense of smell and taste are all working overtime and that has always given me a very physical response all over.

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yes it is, but giving him a mind blowing experience is still a skill.

You don't need to be any of those things as a guy to sleep around...

But you're right in that women wanting to get laid is just a choice, while it's a chore for men.

We usually do all the work anyway, so qhat does it matter?

Don't think I could've said it better myself, really.

Don't get me wrong, sluts are great, because nice girls are shit in bed. Some of you are now groaning are saying ' i am great in bed'. No your not. Example, Nice girls see a girl deep throating a cock in a porno and think 'mm my man would like that'. Sluts thing ' I CAN"T GET OFF UNLESS A COCK IS BRUISING THE BACK OF MY THROAT'. Nice girls give anal four times a year and think ' how you like your birthday'. Sluts think ' YOU KNOW WHAT WOULD BE BETTER, TWO COCKS IN MY ASS'.

There nothing wrong with being more sexual and yes most women are not sluts, but it easy to be a slut... i see dwarf sluts, never seen a dwarf stud? Maybe in their realm, but none made it to our world.

Everyone else has pretty much covered it...but basically, yes, women do take pride in good sexual skills. Its a good confidence boost when a man tells you that you are good at pleasing him in certain ways. It can make me feel a bit powerful too, like I can completely make the guy melt under my touch.

[font=verdana][color=green][i]"A key that opens many locks is a great key. A lock that opens to many keys is just a shitty lock".

I commend you good sir on your Jim Jefferies-isms, well done.

so women with real sexual skills = sluts, good girls =/= sexual skills to be proud off

or am I missing something?

No real girls do have sex skills, but i never met one that just grabs your hair and yell 'FUCK ME GOOD BITCH' and just goes to town on your ass. My comment was for those who just do it because they see it on a movie or think their man likes it. A true slut doesn't care about the other person just on there own pleasure. Which if your a man get it then no problems... a guy just needs a few pumps and he done. Personally i love giving then getting.. a true man get off after or with the other person(s) in the sex act. A true stud. If you ever just feel like fucking any guy you see then hey cool. If you want to try anal, or other weird stuff, cool. If you just think i need to get off and hey there a guy, fuck his brains out and just blow it off like meh... then your a slut.

btw my wife is a good girl.. who like other girls, 3somes and some weird shit that i like 'Uhhh ok' about. My private and personal slut.

Now that's more understandable for me *nodding*

I must say I met more male then female sluts in my life but then again I was raised in a conservative country so the female ones where probably hiding...

and yes I'm proud of my personal skill.

Hells to the yes I've got pride.