Do you feel as if you want to be single?
Do you feel the need to be single?
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Explain your answers.
I rarely want to be single because I like my SO and we are happy together. I just miss never relying on someone else. I'm an independent person so when I have no money and they cover for me, I feel like a loser.
When I was younger I didn't want to be in a relationship because I wanted to wait until I was more mature and it was a really good decision. I didn't know myself and I definitely couldn't handle people's depression and sadness well.
I rarely want to be single because I like my SO and we are happy together. I just miss never relying on someone else. I'm an independent person so when I have no money and they cover for me, I feel like a loser.
When I was younger I didn't want to be in a relationship because I wanted to wait until I was more mature and it was a really good decision. I didn't know myself and I definitely couldn't handle people's depression and sadness well.
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
Hated being single. That why men marry people so were not bored and jerking it too much.
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animefreak_usa wrote...
That why men marry people so were not bored and jerking it too much.The same is true for some women.
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definitely. after several relationships that had me emotionally spent, i decided to take a hiatus from relationships. glad i was single during law school, i don't think i would have made a good g/f whatsoever then. sometimes you just need to be alone and figure out your shit out before you try to bring another person into it.
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Sometimes, now I've been single for almost two years though so now that is getting kinda tedious instead.
So, if I'm in a relationship I pretty much always wanna get out of it sooner or later, take it a month or three years, it'll not be something I want lasting for ever. Even if I wish I would want that, and that it would work out like that.
The grass is always greener on the other side fits kinda good for me. <_< I just can't be happy with what I've got.
So, if I'm in a relationship I pretty much always wanna get out of it sooner or later, take it a month or three years, it'll not be something I want lasting for ever. Even if I wish I would want that, and that it would work out like that.
The grass is always greener on the other side fits kinda good for me. <_< I just can't be happy with what I've got.
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I guess I would classify as "I'm single now!", since I am, but I would say "Sometimes".
Being in a relationship has it's several upsides to it that I yearn for (ie. comfort, intimacy, talking about anything, etc.) and I like all of that. However, there are other times when I might think to myself, after seeing a couple having issues, that I'm kind of glad I don't have to worry about that kind of stuff.
Just some little things; I can't really explain it all too well, sorry.
Being in a relationship has it's several upsides to it that I yearn for (ie. comfort, intimacy, talking about anything, etc.) and I like all of that. However, there are other times when I might think to myself, after seeing a couple having issues, that I'm kind of glad I don't have to worry about that kind of stuff.
Just some little things; I can't really explain it all too well, sorry.
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I say "sometimes" because I know I don't want to be alone, but at the same time I know that none of the girls I like, like me as well. I've tried "thinking outside of the box", as it were, but it just doesn't work in my favor.
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In the end, I just really can't do without a significant other in my life. I want somebody to hold me and let me fall asleep on their laps. It's a simple desire, really, but I haven't been able to get it for a long time now.
I hate being alone.
I hate being alone.
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I used to HATE being single like I wanted to be in a relationship so bad but I had no takers and now that I don't want to be suddenly I have like four dudes who are interested in me. I think someone's messing with me...
But it's the first time in a long time where it's like...being single is totally fine with me right now...UNLESS I'm with a certain someone that I still have really strong feelings for. Otherwise, not him, don't care.
But it's the first time in a long time where it's like...being single is totally fine with me right now...UNLESS I'm with a certain someone that I still have really strong feelings for. Otherwise, not him, don't care.
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Fi wrote...
sometimes you just need to be alone and figure out your shit out before you try to bring another person into it.That's very true. So many people rush into a relationship.
Or they just go from relationship to relationship without really finding themselves.
You need to figure out who the hell you are and what you want.
Most people who do that WONT end up in bland, boring relationship that ends fast.
As for me I'm in an open-relationship at the moment.
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twistedknightmare wrote...
Fi wrote...
sometimes you just need to be alone and figure out your shit out before you try to bring another person into it.That's very true. So many people rush into a relationship.
Or they just go from relationship to relationship without really finding themselves.
You need to figure out who the hell you are and what you want.
Most people who do that WONT end up in bland, boring relationship that ends fast.
As for me I'm in an open-relationship at the moment.
god, you guys hit it over the head....like it's something that seems so obvious but reading it here finally made it click in my mind. I've been stuck in this pattern of quick, boring, meaningless dates lately and I just...don't want this anymore. If I'm with a guy I want to feel a connection not just "eh, maybe this will work? (maybe as in no)"
I think I need to take a step back and be single by myself without interruption until I can really handle a relationship. Thanks everyone for these simple yet effective words
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twistedknightmare wrote...
Fi wrote...
sometimes you just need to be alone and figure out your shit out before you try to bring another person into it.That's very true. So many people rush into a relationship.
Or they just go from relationship to relationship without really finding themselves.
You need to figure out who the hell you are and what you want.
Most people who do that WONT end up in bland, boring relationship that ends fast.
As for me I'm in an open-relationship at the moment.
I don't think you have to figure out entirely what you want - some people never ever will know what they really want. I do think you need to be at least mostly happy on your own and with your own life before you can get into a real relationship.
You have to build your own sundae, starting a relationship should just be the cherry on top.
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Fuck no. I've been single for the past four years of my life, yes dealing with someone else might been annoying/difficult at times. But it beats being alone all the time and having no intimacy.
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Fi wrote...
Sometimes you just need to be alone and figure out your shit out before you try to bring another person into it.Requoted for truth.
Sometimes I feel the need to be single, but that's just when my introvertedness pops up and tells everyone to GTFO and give me my alone time. I like being in the relationship I'm in now 95% of the time.
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I've been cheated on by so many women that i've become pretty jaded. it's a twisted cycle. it takes me so long to trust, the other person starts to feel unwanted and goes looking else where for the affection i can't express.
being alone for so long has also srarted get to me though.
being alone for so long has also srarted get to me though.
