Does it hurt?
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Dear dudets
When its a girls first time, ive heard breaking the hymen (if you dont know what that is, revise harder) can hurt
Basicly what im asking, in your first time, what did it feel like and if it hurt, how much so? Thanks
Safety and peace
When its a girls first time, ive heard breaking the hymen (if you dont know what that is, revise harder) can hurt
Basicly what im asking, in your first time, what did it feel like and if it hurt, how much so? Thanks
Safety and peace
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Luke Lawliet wrote...
Dear dudets When its a girls first time, ive heard breaking the hymen (if you dont know what that is, revise harder) can hurt
Basicly what im asking, in your first time, what did it feel like and if it hurt, how much so? Thanks
Safety and peace
For me, pretty sure it just happened due to sports or something... not too bad.
My best friend though, hers hurt like hell... she had to stop sex the first time and actually cut it open herself because it was messed up so badly. ;-;
I think it really varies from girl to girl.
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yeah it hurts. do it yourself with a cucumber and get it done with. then you can get plowed all day : >
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They say it also depends on how the guy inserts it (im a guy btw)...If he inserts it really fast...then it will hurt...but if you do it really gentle, and make it wide little by little then i guess it wont hurt that much...but it also depends on how tight it is...thats why i think XD
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When I was with my ex, I'd hear stories about her friend's first time and apparently it didn't hurt for her friend. But with me and my ex, it was a difficult process to just put it in simply because her vagina tensed up whenever something touched it (there's a term for it I forgot), since she didn't really masturbate or do anything sexual til she met me.
I've heard stories from other girls who broke their hymen doing things like riding a horse, gymnastics, stuff like that.
Moisten it. If you are wet (naturally or with lubricant), it will lubricate it and help ease the penis' entry. Dry vagina + penis = sandpaper and stick.
Since your on a hentai site, it goes without saying but I'll just say it anyways. If your like my ex, you might want to try masturbating with a few fingers to stretch the muscles in your vag.
I've heard stories from other girls who broke their hymen doing things like riding a horse, gymnastics, stuff like that.
Moisten it. If you are wet (naturally or with lubricant), it will lubricate it and help ease the penis' entry. Dry vagina + penis = sandpaper and stick.
Since your on a hentai site, it goes without saying but I'll just say it anyways. If your like my ex, you might want to try masturbating with a few fingers to stretch the muscles in your vag.
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Yeah my first time was pretty damn painful. In trying not to hurt me, I think it ended up hurting more. We weren't using lube or anything and that might have helped, but I've gotta disagree on the going slow thing. I think it would have been better if he just got it over with quick and didn't inch it in. It's kinda like ripping off a bandaid, in my opinion. <.< But every girl is different!
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Amura wrote...
My first time with my first boyfriend didn't hurt, but my second boyfriend...it hurt. ALOT. >.>You don't break your hymen twice. That information is irrelevant.
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Kuroneko1/2 wrote...
Amura wrote...
My first time with my first boyfriend didn't hurt, but my second boyfriend...it hurt. ALOT. >.>You don't break your hymen twice. That information is irrelevant.
Surgery.
Moving right along; As mentioned, it varies from person to person, and their partner. Sometimes, it'll hurt a lot. Other times, not so much.
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I think one of the main reasons there would be any over-extensive pain is because Virgin males are terrible at foreplay. Like with regular intercourse, if it's dry, it just wont fly.
Tips: Always use lube, it's just better regardless. Gently insert your index finger inside of her, and slowly move back and forth through the very beginnings of her vagina until the opening has conformed to it, then insert your middle finger, follow the same process. Once she's a bit wide, and hopefully a bit wet, use both of your fingers to gently stretch the opening. Let it stretch, then stop, repeat until satisfied or until you believe she's ready.
Edit: Or you could stick it in her- ...
Tips: Always use lube, it's just better regardless. Gently insert your index finger inside of her, and slowly move back and forth through the very beginnings of her vagina until the opening has conformed to it, then insert your middle finger, follow the same process. Once she's a bit wide, and hopefully a bit wet, use both of your fingers to gently stretch the opening. Let it stretch, then stop, repeat until satisfied or until you believe she's ready.
Edit: Or you could stick it in her- ...
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Foreplay always helps. (on many levels) It helps the muscles relax and it can help the dryness too.
I don't know why some people are so quick to skip to sex right away..when foreplay is really half the fun anyways...
but yeah thats what I suggest :)
I don't know why some people are so quick to skip to sex right away..when foreplay is really half the fun anyways...
but yeah thats what I suggest :)
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iast wrote...
When I was with my ex, I'd hear stories about her friend's first time and apparently it didn't hurt for her friend. But with me and my ex, it was a difficult process to just put it in simply because her vagina tensed up whenever something touched it (there's a term for it I forgot), since she didn't really masturbate or do anything sexual til she met me. I've heard stories from other girls who broke their hymen doing things like riding a horse, gymnastics, stuff like that.
Moisten it. If you are wet (naturally or with lubricant), it will lubricate it and help ease the penis' entry. Dry vagina + penis = sandpaper and stick.
Since your on a hentai site, it goes without saying but I'll just say it anyways. If your like my ex, you might want to try masturbating with a few fingers to stretch the muscles in your vag.
Sorry to tell you this... But im A guy... :3
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Yes, it did hurt and the guy wouldn't go gentle on me either. Won't forgive him for that.
Second time hurt less and then it started feeling better and better. You need to get used to it a little bit, but sex is actually a pretty good thing.
Second time hurt less and then it started feeling better and better. You need to get used to it a little bit, but sex is actually a pretty good thing.
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Luke Lawliet wrote...
iast wrote...
When I was with my ex, I'd hear stories about her friend's first time and apparently it didn't hurt for her friend. But with me and my ex, it was a difficult process to just put it in simply because her vagina tensed up whenever something touched it (there's a term for it I forgot), since she didn't really masturbate or do anything sexual til she met me. I've heard stories from other girls who broke their hymen doing things like riding a horse, gymnastics, stuff like that.
Moisten it. If you are wet (naturally or with lubricant), it will lubricate it and help ease the penis' entry. Dry vagina + penis = sandpaper and stick.
Since your on a hentai site, it goes without saying but I'll just say it anyways. If your like my ex, you might want to try masturbating with a few fingers to stretch the muscles in your vag.
Sorry to tell you this... But im A guy... :3
Lol, either way tell your other that.
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The key to breaking a hymen with the least amount of pain is foreplay, specifically cunnilingus. Before penetration she has to be as aroused as physically possible. The first reason for this is that she will naturally produce her own lubrication. The second is that arousal increases the body's tolerance for pain. See, the human body has a system already built in to make things work. The only thing that can go astray is if the guy is an asshole and is impatient.
Something people here might find interesting is phimosis: before boys hit puberty their foreskin tends to be very tight, almost like a hymen is. As they begin their transformation the foreskin usually loosens up on it's own by a chemical-whatever in the cells. However, there is a large possibility that the foreskin remains tight and skips this. This is called Phimosis
By masturbating that problem fixes itself (another way nature has shit figured out) but if the boy doesn't masturbate and his foreskin remains tight, when he tries to have sex, the foreskin with literally rip and the result will look just like when a girl looses HER virginity.
How do you like THEM apples?
Something people here might find interesting is phimosis: before boys hit puberty their foreskin tends to be very tight, almost like a hymen is. As they begin their transformation the foreskin usually loosens up on it's own by a chemical-whatever in the cells. However, there is a large possibility that the foreskin remains tight and skips this. This is called Phimosis
By masturbating that problem fixes itself (another way nature has shit figured out) but if the boy doesn't masturbate and his foreskin remains tight, when he tries to have sex, the foreskin with literally rip and the result will look just like when a girl looses HER virginity.
How do you like THEM apples?
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lostndessence wrote...
The key to breaking a hymen with the least amount of pain is foreplay, specifically cunnilingus. Before penetration she has to be as aroused as physically possible. The first reason for this is that she will naturally produce her own lubrication. The second is that arousal increases the body's tolerance for pain. See, the human body has a system already built in to make things work. The only thing that can go astray is if the guy is an asshole and is impatient. Something people here might find interesting is phimosis: before boys hit puberty their foreskin tends to be very tight, almost like a hymen is. As they begin their transformation the foreskin usually loosens up on it's own by a chemical-whatever in the cells. However, there is a large possibility that the foreskin remains tight and skips this. This is called Phimosis
By masturbating that problem fixes itself (another way nature has shit figured out) but if the boy doesn't masturbate and his foreskin remains tight, when he tries to have sex, the foreskin with literally rip and the result will look just like when a girl looses HER virginity.
How do you like THEM apples?
Thank god I masturbate or that would have happened to me during my first time.
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silysaly wrote...
yeah it hurts. do it yourself with a cucumber and get it done with. then you can get plowed all day : >no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no
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Fallan
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Guilty Guardian wrote...
silysaly wrote...
yeah it hurts. do it yourself with a cucumber and get it done with. then you can get plowed all day : >no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no
Yes. Oh yes.