Falling in love with your bestfriend
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well I have this friend. we are in college well basically I didn't really like her in the first place but we help each other in our most problematic time. and as we grew closer as friends I started to see her in another way. :(
I don't think she likes me that way but I really want to start a relationship with her. I'm not really that good looking. life sux. idk what to do. don't want to ruin friendship for something selfish
I don't think she likes me that way but I really want to start a relationship with her. I'm not really that good looking. life sux. idk what to do. don't want to ruin friendship for something selfish
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Then don't ruin the friendship. Give it a bit to see how your feelings react and go from there.
If you didn't like her in the first place, what attracts you to her now that didn't before?
If you didn't like her in the first place, what attracts you to her now that didn't before?
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artcellrox
The Grey Knight :y
Think more clearly on this. If you make the wrong move and be too forward, you're not only ruining any chance of a relationship, you'll be destroying a friendship that you won't ever get back.
And like Avatar said, what do you see in her now, that you didn't before?
And like Avatar said, what do you see in her now, that you didn't before?
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Your not falling in love with her, your falling in love with the idea of a best friend that will always be there for you.That would explain while you've only begun to love her instead of loving her before all the events that pulled you together to your current friendship.Simply ask yourself, do you now love her because you got to know her more or do you love her because she's helped you, because anyone would look delightful when your as close as the tanabata.
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If you love her then you'd make sure you're the best for her.
Not just ponder a relationship just because you think it would be tranquil even for both of you.
Like most of the relationships in existence to this day, personal selfish desire.
Not just ponder a relationship just because you think it would be tranquil even for both of you.
Like most of the relationships in existence to this day, personal selfish desire.
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I would not even suggest trying to start a relationship with any girl that sees you as a friend, from personal experience I know that the results are not good most of the time.
The Possible outcomes are 2: 1 being the good and 2 being the bad result.
1.She does not accept your feelings for her but chooses to remain your friend
2.She does not accept your feelings and severs all ties with you and stops being your friend.
The dream case scenario of manga and anime does not apply in real life unfortunately, so keep what you have and look elsewhere.
The Possible outcomes are 2: 1 being the good and 2 being the bad result.
1.She does not accept your feelings for her but chooses to remain your friend
2.She does not accept your feelings and severs all ties with you and stops being your friend.
The dream case scenario of manga and anime does not apply in real life unfortunately, so keep what you have and look elsewhere.
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
Ever heard of just asking her out for something sexual neutral like coffee or the fair.. shit just ask her to help you shop for clothes.. if she like you enough to be drag around store to store then she like you enough for a date.
