Fellow brothers and sisters, I need help.
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I have TOTALLY NO IDEA on how to summarize this so please bear with me.
I am a healthy highschool male, and obviously I am attracted to girls, more specifically, I like cute, defenseless, silent girls.
I met a girl during my second year who fit that criteria. At first, I didn't find her interesting but through time I started to see her cuteness and developed serious feelings for her.
Keep in mind that this is the first time I felt this way. That means I never had a girlfriend since I was born. ( LOL so pathetic ;( )
What did I do? I started to build a foundation. A foundation that will be the stepping stone for our bright future together. Though maybe it was as fragile as a tower of golf balls, I still did my best.
I've spent time with her and all that shit you see in the "vanilla" section. ( except for the sex part -_- )
The time came when I decided to finally confess my feelings. But things didn't quite went as planned and she went home early. The confession was delayed. That evening I was so restless that I called her and confessed to her via phonecall. After I said the three magic words she hung up. I didn't sleep at all that evening.
Tomorrow came, I was anxiously waiting for her to arrive while classes haven't started yet. 5 minutes have passed, she's still not arrived. 10 mins, 15 mins, 30 mins, yet still no trace of her.
The class after lunch. As I was going up to my seat I saw her in the room. I felt embarassed, so I kinda walked fast towards my chair and sat down. I glanced at her, I saw her smiling back at me. It felt like crazy.
She said she was late cause her dad went overseas and she and her mom saw him off, and she said that's she's really REALLY surprised about the call last night. I was like "Is that your first time being confessed to?", and she said she actually had confessions before but rejected them all. So to confirm things I whispered to her the three magic words again. She blushed and smiled and said "I'm really surprised."
We started dating.
One month after that, she had to leave for a family vacation to where her father is, the problem is when she got back, it's as if she doesn't even know me anymore. I've tried to talk to her several times but she ingnored me everytime. It was so frustrating that I actually thought of giving up.
What do I do?
I am a healthy highschool male, and obviously I am attracted to girls, more specifically, I like cute, defenseless, silent girls.
I met a girl during my second year who fit that criteria. At first, I didn't find her interesting but through time I started to see her cuteness and developed serious feelings for her.
Keep in mind that this is the first time I felt this way. That means I never had a girlfriend since I was born. ( LOL so pathetic ;( )
What did I do? I started to build a foundation. A foundation that will be the stepping stone for our bright future together. Though maybe it was as fragile as a tower of golf balls, I still did my best.
I've spent time with her and all that shit you see in the "vanilla" section. ( except for the sex part -_- )
The time came when I decided to finally confess my feelings. But things didn't quite went as planned and she went home early. The confession was delayed. That evening I was so restless that I called her and confessed to her via phonecall. After I said the three magic words she hung up. I didn't sleep at all that evening.
Tomorrow came, I was anxiously waiting for her to arrive while classes haven't started yet. 5 minutes have passed, she's still not arrived. 10 mins, 15 mins, 30 mins, yet still no trace of her.
The class after lunch. As I was going up to my seat I saw her in the room. I felt embarassed, so I kinda walked fast towards my chair and sat down. I glanced at her, I saw her smiling back at me. It felt like crazy.
She said she was late cause her dad went overseas and she and her mom saw him off, and she said that's she's really REALLY surprised about the call last night. I was like "Is that your first time being confessed to?", and she said she actually had confessions before but rejected them all. So to confirm things I whispered to her the three magic words again. She blushed and smiled and said "I'm really surprised."
We started dating.
One month after that, she had to leave for a family vacation to where her father is, the problem is when she got back, it's as if she doesn't even know me anymore. I've tried to talk to her several times but she ingnored me everytime. It was so frustrating that I actually thought of giving up.
What do I do?
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I don't know the answer to your question but i really do feel like posting a reply even if it is non sense. Well i was thinking maybe it's a frank? Sorry the the non sense :)
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
Either she found another or did something overseas and now she distancing herself from you or just being a teen girl and done playing with you. There is no right answer. I guess deal with it and retry talking or write her a text/email/letter asking her what's wrong... no answer then that means she done and you just need to move on to a another thing or person... high school sucks that way.
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This happened to me awhile back, after a while i found out she was cheating so I dumped her, but it still left a little hole in my heart tho... but I cant live being sad about the past, there are many fish in the ocean, you just have to keep swimming (god im cheesy)
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@NosebleedMadness: Maybe it's time to check the NTR section for an answer to your question :/ Well life goes on :D
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
hire some faggoty bastard to stalk her and find out what she is doing, hack her facebooks and see what is going on. If she cheatin' on you, get angry!
Ok that was a joke, don't do that.
As the others said, there isn't really any right way to go about things.. except i suppose confront her and ask what is going on. i hope for your sake nothing bad happened.. eg cheating or something
Ok that was a joke, don't do that.
As the others said, there isn't really any right way to go about things.. except i suppose confront her and ask what is going on. i hope for your sake nothing bad happened.. eg cheating or something
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Ask her directly. plain and simple. If she says she never liked you at all or denies you asking her, slap her up the face and tell her to stop fucking with people's (namely yours) feelings.
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Confront her at school or in person when you see her and ask her if she wants to be with you ,if she doesn't tell her to stop wasting your time and efforts on something she does not care about. You'll move on.
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artcellrox
The Grey Knight :y
Find her, confront her, and ask her straight up. Bluntness matters not. This girl is hiding something that involves you, and I believe you have a right to know.
If she did find someone else and/or never loved you, just leave her. No words. Just move on.
If she did find someone else and/or never loved you, just leave her. No words. Just move on.
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Thanks for the comments guys/gals.
I confronted her this morning and she apologized to me. So yeah, I think that's it, it's over.
I confronted her this morning and she apologized to me. So yeah, I think that's it, it's over.
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
:/ might want to actually figure that out before you move on and find out she and you were still going out.. awkward...
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artcellrox
The Grey Knight :y
Seriously. I agree with the guy above me. What did she apologize for? Misunderstandings are huge relationship-breakers. Clear everything up properly. Don't leave any doubts in your head.
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Lol just ask what the apology is for.
If its just cause she doesnt want to be with you, then yeah, its over. But if its for something that she thought you did or maybe you did or she did or watever, try to clear it up.
If its just cause she doesnt want to be with you, then yeah, its over. But if its for something that she thought you did or maybe you did or she did or watever, try to clear it up.
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yup DeathPlox is right. Just ask for an explanation and if the result is bad then that's that. Don't try to extend things needlessly if it is time to break up or to move on then do so otherwise you're both going to be unhappy.
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Cinia Pacifica
Ojou-sama Writer
Yeah.
Get everything straight in your head about this before you decide to move on or whatever, in other words, ask for an explanation as to why she apologized.
[spoil]Although something tells me her dad forbid it or something...
Get everything straight in your head about this before you decide to move on or whatever, in other words, ask for an explanation as to why she apologized.
[spoil]Although something tells me her dad forbid it or something...