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My girlfriend told me that she cheated on me in the heat of a fight, but now claims that she only said it because she wanted to upset me. Something about this doesn't seem right, it doesn't seem like something that you say just to upset someone, things like "you're bad in bed", "you're penis is unsatisfactory", or "I should've give back to black guys" (I'm white and her ex is black, as was almost every other guy she dated). "I cheated on you" seems more like a concession of guilt, but I'm not sure. I've been cheated on before, so I'm not sure if I'm paranoid or right...

As for the title, my ethics teacher told me that truth is a matter of common consensus, in ethics, sociology and art.

Dude, ditch the Yandere. You've got your family, you've got other people. Sure, she'll try to be a pain in the ass but if she really cheated, she doesn't care that much. All she likes is the control factor.

So don't give her the satisfaction.

Question: How am I supposed to get home from here?

I had an escape plan, but the funds I had for it were spent on food.

You live in the U.S. right? Worse comes to worse, get a Greyhound :D.

You see, that's an idea, but like all realistic ideas it requires money... I have none...

What, does Ms. Yandere take all of your money? Shit, you're a couple so you should theoretically share the burden, talk things out, etc. Or is it simply a rough employment patch? Keep looking. I know I still am.

I think we all know that you need to get away from the crazy bitch, the problem is how. You are gonna have to save up again if you want to leave unless someone gives you a ride or you ask your family to come get you or buy a plane ticket and pay them back after you have gotten away, hell apply for a credit card and use that to get a ticket. Try to get cash in hand jobs that your crazy bitch doesn't know about.

You don't have any friends that can drive you home?

2 things

In the spoilered section there's a list of red flags I've noticed.



2, "home" is Florida, I'm in Colorado.

I'm sick of your topics to be quite frank. We've already given you a ton of advice on what to do about your situation. If any other problems arise due to the fact that you're with this girl, then the issue is apathy.

You're right. I just got done talking to her and it's over. It's actually over. I'm stranded in Colorado, but it's over. I appreciate everything that you're said and I really mean it. I'm an idiot and I know that, but things have finally drawn to a close. I don't know what to feel, I'm not even sure what to think, but I know that there's no going back. I'm probably rambling, but that's because I can't even think. After I invested so much into this gigantic waste of time is completely lost. I'm the only one to blame, but that doesn't make it feel any better. I'm not sad, I'm not even angry I'm just, I don't even know. It's been a long year but things are over. I'm not sure why I feel anything less than joy, exaltation, raptuous closure, it's just empty. My eyes are dry, my pulse and respiratory rates are normal... I'm just so... I don't even know...

You're in shock. This is normal. Your true emotions on the subject will arise when your brain fully accepts and finishes processing this. It sounds like it was the right thing to do, though. Crazy girls are just trouble.

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You're in shock. This is normal. Your true emotions on the subject will arise when your brain fully accepts and finishes processing this. It sounds like it was the right thing to do, though. Crazy girls are just trouble.[/quote]

Thanks, I think I'll be alright, sooner or later. I'm going to just not date for a while, focus on going to college and actually becoming something. You and Dia have helped me a lot through the year and I appreciate it.

I think that's a wise choice.

It's a good thing you ended it. It sounded like she didn't care about you at all, but at the same time, wanted to keep you to herself... I'm confused on that count. But either way, in my eyes, you did the right thing.
I just hope you can pick yourself up, and move on and have a happy life :D
Don't look back on what you did, and regret. Look forward, and live.


edit: she cheated on you. There is no way somebody would say that to make you feel bad. They would only say that IF they cheated, or they were a heartless c-

I woke up this morning and laughed. I couldn't stop. It's over and I'm abused by this. I'm not sure why I am, but I find it hilarious. I wasted a year of my life and all I can think about it is that it's hilarious. She treated me like shit and I dealt with it for so long that I forgot that I actually like being me. I was able to say what I thought without an issue, I was able to go about my day as an ordinary person and it's fantastic. I'm not even upset, if anything I'm overjoyed. It's over and I'm going to be able to actually be happy! Words came describe how good I feel.

Enjoy your newfound freedom from the tyranny of an individual deep in the throes of functioning psychosis.

Congrats on being free! May the road ahead of you become brighter than Picard's newly waxed head and sweeter than a bottle of sprite with skittles tossed in it.

ABOUT TIME.
Not sure about the living situations, but im theres a center you can stay at somewhere for the time being.